as long as it's sent to my hobby email. A lot of times I don't know they're in town or even coming here and I'd miss them without the heads up. Discretion is important but other than that, it's fine with me.
I know many of you may have to say to yourself "what if'
but feel free to play along.
Many providers will "PM" me that they are in town and
would love to see me.
Do they also 'PM" you?
Do you respond if you are out of town or unavailable as you know
they get many "PM's" and don't like extras?
Your thoughts if any?
However it just tells me things are slow. I had 3 ladies contact me in the past few days. I'm pretty sure it's not me but thanksgiving.
Has happened to me a couple of times. And I absolutely love it. Who doesn't want to be pursued? When not available I'll definitely respond back to that effect. It would be rude not to.
I think it's appropriate to let her know when you can't as well as when you can. As much as she may dislike spam, she probably would rather know than wonder. But I guess it will depend on the girl.
I know it's ridiculous, but I always get excited when a girl contacts me out of the blue. It doesn't matter whether it's a new bird or my regular friend. Either way I get a thrill that she decided to choose me, even if I'm among a bunch of others. It makes me more enthusiastic about getting out there and having fun, and I really enjoy the chance to talk a bit through texting. (I don't usually PM since most of the girls here are way out of my budget.)
I'm not sure what they think about it, but I try to be nice, so hopefully they also find it a pleasant experience. (Texting I mean.)
as long as it's sent to my hobby email. A lot of times I don't know they're in town or even coming here and I'd miss them without the heads up. Discretion is important but other than that, it's fine with me.
that's what we're here for.
But I try not to do it unless it's solicited.
Even then I forget, lol.
But I do wish chicks would PM me when they're in town for a date! LOL
There's one who sends me very sexy photos of her, even showing her face (guess she trusts me). It works. Every time she sends one, I book a date with her. I'm sure she sends photos to all of her regulars. It's effective marketing, not affection.
…was when my ATF was visiting my part of the country (with "part" being very loosely defined), and texted me to ask if I could "come out and play" if she were to swing through my area. I was the only person she was seeing in a professional capacity for the entire trip--the rest was about visiting civvie friends and other stuff.
Made me feel a little bit special, for sure.
A woman I met this way invited me to a crazy ass swing/ dom club thing.
I got scared, and chickened out..
Hey! The Hound is human.
But you assclad... I'm not sure if I belive you.
And yes. Ladies usually tell me they are around.
I just wish I had more money. Then I would respond to every text.
I won't waste her time if I can't play
Unless I had a specific request to contact him I would feel very odd contacting a client.
An escort thinks you are at least an OK client and they need money. Or maybe they solely need money. How is that a compliment? Maybe she really likes you a lot but how is contacting you for an appointment evidence of that? Seems more like she is hustling to me.
some men I love hanging out with, truly love seeing BUT I feel it is for the man to contact me.
I use to shop at an exclusive shoe store. They were always calling me telling me they had new styles in. Wasn't because they liked me so much. They liked my wallet. I felt put upon and would think that is how many men feel if an escort contacts them. I would never want to do that to anyone. Make them feel uncomfortable. Better I make them feel so good and happy in my company that they think of me on their own
When someone I've seen before contacts me just to let me know she's in town and would love to see me if I'm available it makes me feel special. I know that her ad is getting hundreds of hits and she's getting tons of appointment requests (may or may not be true I know), but she's offering to carve out time for me. It makes me feel like she enjoyed our last visit. Jt just makes me feel good.
Just my perspective.
Unless a guy personally asks me to let him know I am in his town, there is no way in hell I would SPAM someone...yes, it is spam and grounds for banning if someone reports it. PM is not as bad as cold calling or emailing, but TER frowns on providers who spam for business. If a guy posts an ISO asking for x, then it's ok to do, but I still find the practice of this very tacky. If your brand is built on being exclusive, then you would be cutting off your nose to spite your face by engaging in soliciting. If you don't give a shit and have no brand lol, no harm done.
Out of the blue every so often. And not for just a "payday". Most of the time I just want to see how they are doing. We ladies are real humans but some of us tend to forget that our clients are as well. My dates are more than "johns", they have names, feelings and wonderful unique personalities.
If I have had a good date ( and ALL of my dates are good ones) it's nice to just follow up with a simple "How are you." I like to chitchat with the guys on and off the boards. Call me weird, or whatever. Talking definitely helps foster a connection and whether or not a gent decides to see me again, we will always have a pleasant parting.
You are not anything special, lot of us get their emails, texts and such.. We just don't come on here and beat chest thinking we are special like you.
Pathetic
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