complicated freudian question..you are having an amazing session with a hot provider..she wants to try something new..your ego is being fully satisfied..considering the newness of her suggestion..does your superego override your ego? or do you let your id simply take over?

I've had great sessions by experimenting with a wild child.

I would probably go with the superego if I were a guy lol. Is that not what is in control for most here anyway?

... whether it's new to me, her, or both of us!

which ever one lets me go crazy, that's the one I turn on.

Oh, topics like this can make your head explode even if you have studied it.

But I GOT this!  I'm more in tune to the ideology of the ID because drive (of any sort), within myself, is such an inherent quality.  Although that whole philosophy beyond the super ego sounds more as to what many would aspire to, for me ... and MY sexual drive, it is more of a base desire that really doesn't doesn't have reason associated with it.

I'm just a natural girl!

Great topic!

Elisabeth

I had to read that three times, but I think I get it!

Hey MacDaddy,

I just let things go in a spontaneous way. If the provider suggests something new, I'd say, let's give it a shot!

When I am with a provider, I don't let my egos get in the way, if I did, that may ruin the session for the both of us.

Just my 3 cents...

Serpius

the moment she opens the door

Yeah!  I simply HAVE to check into TER more frequently!  I miss it when I do not!!!

Hugs ...