I like to 'think' my woman has an orgasm. It is a huge turnon for me and it makes my orgasm more intense. Some providers fake orgasms but since i can't really discern most fakes from the real ones i prefer to just enjoy.

Cergio

I love seeing a woman experience pleasure... it enhances my own, as well.

From a purely practical perspective, also, I have found that if I can "rock" a provider's "world", I will get service way above and beyond on future visits (extended time, multiples, you name it).

Think of it: if you are doing work for a client, aren't you more willing to do extra if it is a client you like?

Works in this industry as well.

O.

I like a full experience.  I often make extended dinner dates because I like to get to know the lady a little better and because I want more for my date than 15 min. of uneasy "hi, how are you" followed by 45min. of merciless pounding.  And I want GFE for what ever that means.

So part of the experince is mutual satisfaction.  I don't mind the faking as long as I never knew it was.  But I'd like to think that things went into an area of romance and tenderness and a soul connection if possible and that we gave something to eachother other than money and holes.

Amen (EOM)

In my book thats the best part

Like it was mentioned above I love watching a beautiful woman have an orgasm, and to know that I'm the one that delivered it.

Also, in my experience the ladies that I have seen really appreciate it when you take time to make them feel special, pretty, appreciated and sexy. I love to spend the first part of the meeting just getting to know her body, where and how she likes to be touched, how she responds to certain things, and what greally gets her hot.

Generally I've never been disappointed by spending the time to get to know the lady and what she likes. Without exception they've been very appreciative and very giving afterward.  One lady told me recently that a significant percentage of her clients don't spend the time to take care of her needs, I think that's just a shame.

Cheers,

HPG

I think I remember reading once that Masters and Johnson concluded that a woman can`t have an orgasm and not have erect nipples. She can have hard nipples anyway but while the orgasm is happening you might want to check `em out. If thier soft... maybe she`s faking. I never put much faith in this theory but hey.... you never know. Anyone ever hear this before?

If you know what your are doing they won't be able to fake. The ones who try to fake (to get you off), will end up having a more intense cum when they realize that they can't get you off. You need to take your time and be gentle. Once in a while you will get provider who will just rumble and shake violently.

Amen again!

Everything everyone has said is true. I like the multi hour sessions and the pleasure derived from satisfying my mate.

I love it when my mate has an orgasm via oral or intercourse. It just adds to the pleasure. I try to satisfy my mate first because it makes the experience so much better!

This may not be true 100% of the time, but most women who have soft nipples at the same time that they are having an "orgasm" are faking.  That is, of course, unless all the scientific studies like Masters and Johnson were wrong.

its the technique that does it (orally). I like it soft, slow and wet...when that happens...watch out for the flood!!!

Oh it I can't orgasm I just tell the guy instead of faking it.

But, there are different types of orgasms also. I have all different ones.

Shaye

I have nothing to say, I just got stuck on those words!  LOL

....clients like providers to cum but I do know one thing: I'm certainly not complaining about it!!  

Carrie x

Unlike a couple of the previous posters I do not see a provider's orgasm as the client's accomplishment. It is important to me for less ego-bound reasons.  I see sex as sharing, and the desire to share the experience of orgasm is my main motive for seeing providers at all.  If I were content to be the only one experiencing orgasm, my SO and right hand would suffice.  

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Us guys have a tendency to be goal-oriented, and it is an ego thing too.  It can also be a self-esteem issue if it doesn't happen.  Sort of how a lady would feel if your dick went limp inside her and wouldn't perk up again.  Then, some of us are just caring, sharing, sensiitve guys...

Tangled together in a way that's too complicated for me to unravel. For me, it's the difference between sharing a sexual experience with a woman and getting myself off with an inflatable doll.

It's kind of like a musician or actor.  We do it in part because it's what we love to do.  But anyone who tells you that the applause has nothing to do with it is lying.

She is a woman and I am a man, a gentleman who always has taken pride in trying to be the best lover he possibly could be.

In all my walks in life I just love the idea of making a woman happy.In any way that I can.

Nothing and I mean nothing as beautiful as a woman with a happy smile.

is what does it for me A light nibbling, as well. I did have one bad experience where the gentleman must of thought, that I was actually edible, for it felt like he was trying to bite it off..yikes! It's all in the action of the tongue. Now, I cannot speak for all, just myself: light strokes, gets my "goat"

Mel..meow

I don't.  I'm not paying for her pleasure, I'm paying for my own.

But from a more practical standpoint, there's just no way you're going to connect with a woman on the emotional level she needs  to get comfortable enough so she actually can O (in just an hour or two).  Plus, most of them that I've seen won't do any forplay...they just want to make their money.  Hard to build anything up when she's trying to get you off as fast as she can.

Plus I don't go down on them because it leaves me unprotected and I'm paranoid of catching anything.

I like to give pleasure to providers partly because I enjoy it and partly to express my sincere gratitude to them for the pleasure they give me.  I never believe their orgasms (or even girlfriends) because basically women are liars.  I don't mean that in a bad way though LOL