If you break it down depending on the expense of the chosen provider it might not be at all cheaper.
Entrance into swing club aprox. $150 , keeping in mind you do have to bring your girl or they will not let you in , so figure dinner with girl another $150 im guessing, then you would most probably I would think leave the club or party to find someplace more comfortable for the ladies as they are civi and might be nervous not only it being their first bi/ swing experience but also in a public place where everyone watches the entire thing happen. so room im guessing @250 , in between you might want a drink to loosen up the mood say a bottle of wine even to save some cash ? $ 50 maybe if you aren't with someone who is a wine buff.Oh swing clubs don't have liquor licenses so you do have to BYO.
I'm guessing clearly on actual prices based on the actual chosen club, resturant, room , and wine . It could run up a bit more than you expect and no reviews no pics first and no idea if the entire place is going to be 55 and over women you don't know until you get there. Not to mention a swing club generally isn't a place where you get someone elses wife and they don't get to play with yours in return . You don't walk up to a guy say hey can i borrow your vagina for a little while, you can watch , um not so much hammer.So now she needs to be into being bi curious while also needs to be ok with swinging. None of this sounds like what the girl is going to look for in the deal , pretend like you are trying to motivate the girl for a minute even for your own uses .. Might get away with it once but i would think she is not going to want to repeat .
That being said swing clubs can be great if you go there looking for what it is intended for , it is a swap meet really . The idea is you go you are excited way before you arrive lights are dim, hormones are flowing, and things are not within the normal vanilla sex one other person type sex that most engage in .You meet someone you talk or not you have sex with them they have sex with the person you came in with and you go home with who you came in with .Also what happens when the other guy can go longer then you or worse vice versa and you/ or him sit waiting for her and he to finish while you are allllllll done? I would imagine her sex sounds aren't going to sound quite as cherished when your penis is not the one creating those sounds .Not great on the ego .Good luck I hope the both of you find what you are looking for..Kendall
Ok,
So now I'm home from a long journey away. I do have a SO and it is great even though I still like my hobby interest and will keep it going. I need some advise to keep me and my SO going. She is awesome in bed at everything from massage to Greek. I still find the need to venture in the hobby world. Let me say she does not know about my hobby styles of course even though she has known in the past. We have been trying to find someone to do a threesome with “girl”, but it is not that easy as it sounds. We have had our close encounters a few times but it did not happen. One was with her best friend long long long time ago, but by the time we got home her best friend past out on our couch from being so drunk. Plus her best friend now has BF and just had a kid so I know nothing will happen there. We did get to some kissing, touching and that’s about it. Another was when we went out, but it was with a girl who changed her mind the last minute. My SO has demonstrated that she was to see me be with another girl and be part of it. She on the other hand wants a girl for herself on the side and for us together . We have tried some websites to meet girls, but most are ads of course for something else so we/she gave up. My question is, how can we find a girl or how can I get an hobby girl with out her knowing she is an escort to be with us? She of course will not understand the hobby world. Any help out there? Oh we are from the Chicago area and I do believe we are a great looking couple. She does claim that she likes women and has been with them to an extent in the past, but not all out. This I know for sure. She is known in our area, so we don’t put pics up on the websites, which also make it harder. She has sent pics of her body some naked some not without face to private emails, but those people never follow thru either. Any help? Thanks
That you've heard there are escorts out there who cater to couples. Maybe she'll be willing, and you can be pretty damned sure that the sex will be awesome with a lady with that kind of experience.
I'm always up for a good escort. Its her that is not. So that is why I was asking if anyone has some kind of clever way of getting an escort without her knowing it is an escort. Still willing to donate of course. Thanks
You may want to check out some of the swinger's clubs. I've found that many of the women there are bi and overall, it's cheaper than a provider.
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Swing clubs are really great. Especially one that has more of a club / strip club atmosphere. Also, I think a lot of people think there going to find the magic every time. We find that maybe one out of three you get a really good hook-up.
Sometimes you have to stop thinking so much and just be the man. Tell her "we're going to Vegas" for a very adventuresome weekend and that she's going. Hit a strip club or two. Take her to the Green Door for a few hours. And then have a smok'n provider already booked for at least a couple of hours for later. (That way she will show for a good appointment) Tip; 3 hours is about right.
Have done the Vegas thing a few times. Doesn't get much better than that. Plus you're a 1000 miles or so away from home!
Since she's already displayed a tendency, I think it's time to light the fuse!
Here you go...
www.Vegas.com
Take that woman and make her feel like the slut she wants to be!
If you break it down depending on the expense of the chosen provider it might not be at all cheaper.
Entrance into swing club aprox. $150 , keeping in mind you do have to bring your girl or they will not let you in , so figure dinner with girl another $150 im guessing, then you would most probably I would think leave the club or party to find someplace more comfortable for the ladies as they are civi and might be nervous not only it being their first bi/ swing experience but also in a public place where everyone watches the entire thing happen. so room im guessing @250 , in between you might want a drink to loosen up the mood say a bottle of wine even to save some cash ? $ 50 maybe if you aren't with someone who is a wine buff.Oh swing clubs don't have liquor licenses so you do have to BYO.
I'm guessing clearly on actual prices based on the actual chosen club, resturant, room , and wine . It could run up a bit more than you expect and no reviews no pics first and no idea if the entire place is going to be 55 and over women you don't know until you get there. Not to mention a swing club generally isn't a place where you get someone elses wife and they don't get to play with yours in return . You don't walk up to a guy say hey can i borrow your vagina for a little while, you can watch , um not so much hammer.So now she needs to be into being bi curious while also needs to be ok with swinging. None of this sounds like what the girl is going to look for in the deal , pretend like you are trying to motivate the girl for a minute even for your own uses .. Might get away with it once but i would think she is not going to want to repeat .
That being said swing clubs can be great if you go there looking for what it is intended for , it is a swap meet really . The idea is you go you are excited way before you arrive lights are dim, hormones are flowing, and things are not within the normal vanilla sex one other person type sex that most engage in .You meet someone you talk or not you have sex with them they have sex with the person you came in with and you go home with who you came in with .Also what happens when the other guy can go longer then you or worse vice versa and you/ or him sit waiting for her and he to finish while you are allllllll done? I would imagine her sex sounds aren't going to sound quite as cherished when your penis is not the one creating those sounds .Not great on the ego .Good luck I hope the both of you find what you are looking for..Kendall
There is no reason why the escort need to let on to your SO that she is an escort. A year back a buddy of mine wanted to do something nice for his older brother for his 40th birthday. He ask if I could help him set something up for his brother, who at 40 was still single too consumed with work to ever date (or try escorts for that matter).
The ruse was that the younger brother and his wife (also aware of the "set-up") were treating the big Bro who was flying into NYC from Chicago for Dinner. At that dinner the wife was going to get a call from an old college GF of hers who she would invite to meet them at the Hotel Bar for drinks. The College GF was obviously the escort we had pre-arranged. I vetted several before picking the right one...she had to be a good actor and come across as a legitimate "old friend" so once we selected the right girl, age and look we gave her a backstory that she stuck to perfectly.
Over drinks the ladies laughed about old times while little brother and wife egged the birthday boy on with: "she thinks your cute" - "make a move"
The party went on into the night and eventually lead to the suite - where the escort seduced the birthday boy. The rest is history. He was never told, he never found out - she even called him and left a message the next day (didnt leave a call back). He being shy and living in Chicago never followed up - but he admittedly had the time of his life.
No reason you couldn't do they same...Girl at bar - comes home with you after a evening of flirtations....things look a little easier now.
By the way the night cost less the 2K and she was worth load more - if I remember correctly she moonlighted as a provider and was a flight attendent by day or was it the other way around?
Check out the local direct contact swing magazines from your local bookstore. The cost is from $6 to $12. Do look for one that is for your specific area to get the most good contacts. My first Bi experience was many years ago from a couple who are swingers but didn't seem to get lucky at the swing clubs.The gentlemen saw me first and then I got together with the two of them. My beautiful pink leather strap-on was a Valentines gift from one of our trysts. I will tell you how much the husband enjoyed watching me do his wife and how much she enjoyed it too. It has been 13 years and every now and then I still hear from them.