as long as it's fair. i once was on a 2 1/2 hour session with a lady (which started with a mandatory half hour in the hotel bar) when said to me after a few sexy fun times, "so do you want to take a shower before you go?"
unfortunately for her it was only 1 hour 20 minutes into the 2 1/2 hour session, and i called her on it (politely, of course. "but i still have 40 minutes left according to your ad!") she let me stay but her enthusiasm certainly waned by then.
Set your cell phone to ring at the end of the scheduled appointment. It totally destroys the fantasy that this has been a great time with a lady and rudely drags you back to the reality of what it was.
There are many more subtle ways of keeping track of time and ending the session gracefully.
Just my opinion
MM
is when the provider's SO calls to indicate the session time is up and if she doesn't respond in 5 minutes he calls again to tell the client to leave. That was the last time he knew that I had any contact with his woman.
It is really the hobbiest who needs to be respectful and keep track of the tie that they have contracted to be together. My best freinds do that and more...no need for awkward issues like you speak of.
Put together a playlist of your music on your phone which lasts for an hour, or two if that's the case and when the music ends, so does the date. Th nice thing about this is you can place a song on the list at about the :45 or 1:45 mark and gives you a :15 warning in case you want to ensure you get that last bbbj in before leaving.
starting overstaying (for free, not even a tip) by 15-30mins. After that I just learned. Whoever likes it does and who doesn't all well book longer. Everyone is grown why should you be kicked out.
Many gals have a very sensible and pleasing way of knowing when time is up by playing a music tape where they know from the song coming on that time is up.
a lady who i see, who is so under the radar that she's under the sonar, has such a wonderful line to let me know time is up...
there's nothing wrong imo with having a clock in the room, to check the time. and when the session is nearing its end, my atf will casually mention, "so, what are your plans for the rest of the day?"
which is code between us for, get in the shower and rinse off, put on your clothes, give me a final kiss good bye, and see you next time.
of course if she's in a particularly generous mood she'll shower with me
After I have heard the alarm go off...a subtle musical alarm, don't want to the guy to have a heart attack as then I have to get rid of the body...yes I am joking. It helps get hm moving and the fact that I am dressing kinda gives him the hint to.
you sound great, truly subtle and classy, like my atf.
seriously some time come do me.
just don't tell me the truth about our encounter lol! she never does!
If that serves (successfully) as a hint for you to go, then you're actually in the minority.
A lot of guys use that as a way to segway for some OTC. "Oh, I might try that place around the corner for lunch. You're more than welcome to come with me." (Unfortunately, my "dog" usually has to go to the vet.)
One night last winter, bad weather was forecast to start after 12AM. My appointment was supposed to be over at 10PM. Eventually, after some OTC chatting, it was time for me to go...unless, I wanted to be trapped there overnight (can you see where this is going?). At around 11, we heard pattering of rain (or something) on the windows. I said, "Oh, no, it's starting! I hope you don't have to drive anywhere tomorrow. Well, the roads will be getting bad if I put off leaving any longer...Ta-Ta!!" I repeated various versions of that statement, for close to an hour. Dude was obviously trying to delay me to the point where I'd have to stay (on a side note, you would not BELIEVE how long some guys can drag out the kiss-goodbye process).
By the time I was finally able to leave, it was literally hailing, and I had to do 25 mph for much of the way home, which was a long drive even at normal speed limits. I wasn't very happy.
I've also made the time-to-leave noises ("Can I help you with your coat? Here's a bottle of water for the ride home"), and had a guy actually sit back down and refuse to leave.
Rare and precious are the clients who are considerate of our time. Actually, those are usually the ones whose company is so pleasurable that you might not mind if they stayed a bit longer 
sorry your clients are dense. i find it a beautiful and nuanced way to wrap things up without sounding like you're tossing me out on my butt.
you should see me sometime, i'm very considerate of a lady's time.
didn't think it was original, just gracious.
you can use that line on me anytime sasha!
I'm sure she's also an Ivy league grad and world traveler.
Good grief people, this is just sex. Why the code speak?
Also, if you want her to shower with you, just ask. Most prostitutes will be happy to do that. Use your voice. You're paying her to do this.
you've mistaken me for someone who gives a fuck what you think
I'm glad you don't care.
Why did you post that again?
They clean the more important things in the food chain. He might follow you around lapping up your scraps.
weekend? Yep!
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Just kidding....some guys like more "fantasy" than others..I set an alarm with the phone in another room. I can just hear it so it is not such a jolt into reality out of the illusion for the john. It is set about 10 minutes before scheduled time so we can finish and he can grab a shower should he want one.
Now if the guy is someone I am enjoying chatting with after paid time is up, I simply ignore the "time" and let things go until I have had enough.
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if he's the one checking the time I tell him "Am I looking at the time" they blush and always say "no" then I say "then why should you and grab their wrist and..." *sighs*
You know when we're together we lose all track of time...LOL.
everyone's experience in the hobby is diff. She might have been thru enough clients who just "wont leave". so that she decided to do the phone ringing thing to bring them back to reality.
the problem is that it affects the guys who know their boundaries, and when it is time to leave. besides... if you were still there when the phone rang... you probably were pushing the envelope too lol.
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That's why I don't see them but a lot of johns love being kicked out exactly when the 60 minutes is over.
The younger ones really don't seem to care but some of those cant tell time so I always have that going for me. LOL
Thank God there are older girls for the ones who cant handle the younger, hotter ones.
Less competition for me I guess. 
they should have a TER award for statements like that. Maybe I should start giving out coupons for percentage off my sessions for the stupidest things i hear or read on here I would probably have ppl lined up throw the door.
Just ask anyone here.
I should have been more clear.
Stop seeing the one hour prostitutes.
Try some prostitutes that know how to enjoy what they are doing. The one hour prostitutes don't care.
Most of them are just lot lizards.
There are many more subtle ways of keeping track of time and ending the session gracefully.
Just my opinion
MM
Have to strongly disagree as I offer one hour, stop booking an hour and expecting 2 to 3hrs when you just booked one. You need 15 to 30mins to get dressed well maybe book longer. It's not that I don't care or that other providers don't care a lot of use have
#1 other calls with limited time to get ready or
#2 share the incall with other providers, how is fair to my fellow provider that you wanted to be cheap and book 1 hr when it take you one hour to get ready.
A lot of Johns try to get the most for the least the more educated and classy gentlemen you don't even have to tell them because they know better. So in that case the ones that have to be kicked out are as you say the "lot lizards"
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They are really hard to remove , ya might need bleach and you never want to see it again.
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Maybe read a post entirely prior to going into diarrhea mode posting.
The one hour prostitutes are notorious for being clock watchers. Most are also lazy. Step up your game and maybe you'll get some appointments with guys who actually have some money. Otherwise you and your pal hbysttruth can spend all day long posting here and waiting for your government subsidy to stay in your Section 8 housing.
At least you don't seem like a misandrist like that hbystruth handle. She's really angry at life. Don't end up like her. You said you're late 20's. She's got over 20 years on you and it shows. Don't end up like her.
You can get out of this world. She's stuck working at the truck stop as a lot lizard.
#1 other calls with limited time to get ready or
#2 share the incall with other providers, how is fair to my fellow provider that you wanted to be cheap and book 1 hr when it take you one hour to get ready.
A lot of Johns try to get the most for the least the more educated and classy gentlemen you don't even have to tell them because they know better. So in that case the ones that have to be kicked out are as you say the "lot lizards"
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that headline doesn't even make sense, let alone a joke.
And I love the reversal of the name...ladies let's start calling those tricks who won't leave on time lot lizards. Love it!
a gal who looked at the clock and said:
"You better get going. My boyfriend will be back any minute."
I crossed her off my list after that. Too bad to because otherwise she was quite fine
You contract for a certain amount of time, and we are adults, aren't we, so when that time is up, say so.
Remember, this is a business.
Ladies:
"Well, I need to get going, as I have other things to attend to."
or just say, our time is up, unless you are looking to contract for more time.
I have been known to say, "I guess I should be going", and if she wants me to stay longer, then the ball is in her court.
As a business verbal contract, why should anyone be offended by being reminded of the time
(Assuming the client hasn't gone to shower or dress and I don't have much extra time/OTC) takes the following schedule:
A few minutes before session end time- Body language
Exact end time- Subtle, but clear. "Would you like a shower/water for the drive?"
Five minutes after- Polite, but firm "I wish we had more time but I need to get going," while tidying up the room.
If he stays much longer, I'll text the agency dispatcher to let her know we have a clinger. Lol
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You are a gentleman so to you that makes sense, it makes sense to me too. The problem with most men are that you can not be straight forward with them because they feel offended. I wish it were that easy. I say something like that and they will leave a review (at this point I'm far beyond caring) saying that they felt rushed out. What they forget to mention in the review is that they were already there for an addition off the clock 20mins. You tell them that and they go home crying saying you mistreated them or that they felt it was business like. That my kind sir is the problem with some if not most dates. When a man respects my time I always surprise him if I'm able to do so when he doesn't then that's fine I think about seeing not twice 3x if he chooses to book again.
Have to have a plan a and b in place to get them out. If they were not so rude and cheap they would leave when the time is up and not make a hooker lie and bullshit to get them out.
And some examples here show that there is some offence at the reminder. I believe the hookers who have to do that are called clock watchers which, is not true.
A clock watcher is a hooker who continually glares at the clock during the session, making the guy feel very uncomfortable. A hooker who gives the guy his paid for time is not. Just another term used to finagle more time that is not paid for.
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How about one that looks at the time, has nothing to say, fucks in only one position and the laugh is sooooo fake you want to punch her in the face. *Happy Thoughts Roxanne* *Happy thoughts*
*giggles* almost lost it there didn't i?
are the ones that look at the time for you. In my experience most men need to be kicked out. Of course i would never, but it's just plain rude that you know what time it is and you need me to escort you out. When I provide, my favorites are the ones that keep track of time that is a sign of respect for me and it's a recipe for next time for me to be more lenient with him. When I'm on the other side speaking as a hobbyist I always keep track of time, I look at the clock, I make sure I respect the lady's time, so if she had someone call her at the end of the session do you think perhaps you overstayed your welcome? My guys usually get 55mins and 5 minutes to shower and prep. It honestly bothers me that we have a set time for 8 and you want to end the session at 9:01 not counting the getting ready and taking a shower which means you will be out by 9:15-9:20. Just my thought. Gents should always remember to leave on time, perhaps if you were already dressed by the time the phone rang you would have not been so upset. (with all due respect)
Hotel phone rang. They are waiting for her to get her facial. She forgot we started 15 minutes late because she was not ready. Funny how the call came at the exact time
I usually set the alarm on my phone, before walking into the incall, then I put the phone on airplane mode, so I won't get calls or texts while "busy" but the alarm will go off at the end of my time. It doesn't sound like an alarm. Sounds like I'm getting a call or text, but I know it's time to leave. I'm the clock watcher in my sessions. Some of these gals are great timekeepers and some are not. I don't want to ever overstay my welcome. If the lady tells me not to rush off, stick around etc., I'm all for it, and yes I have gone overtime (at her request) and have had OTC dinner, lunch or drinks, or just hanging out etc., but I'm not going to push it.
I don't like clock watchers.
I negotiate and give OTC time! And If you buy me dinner, you can pay for my dinner, but don't have to pay for my time!
"Fantasy" suggest that one loses complete touch of reality for that period of time. I believe you should be "in the moment" and enjoy it to the fullest but never lose touch with the reality of situation. And the reality of the situation is there's a strict time limit. If someone's alarm snaps you back to reality, then don't let that ruin the entire experience that occurred the last 59 minutes.
Matter of fact, I've learned that the smoothest transition at the end of a session is to keep track of the time myself. We all have that internal clock where we can sense a certain amount of time has passed and when it does, then take a look at the clock your self. Get dressed while having small talk and then there's never any awkward moment where the provider has to start busting out with her "kick you out" techniques.
Two minutes before the exact end of the session (to the second, based on the time I walked in the door) she told me I had better hurry up [and shoot, if I was going to]. When the time was up [to the exact second] there was no alarm sound but she pushed me away, put on her clothes, sat at the desk, lit a cigarette, stared at me, ordered me to put on my clothes and leave.
Not naming her but if you search my old reviews you can find who it was. Karma has caught up with this woman ten-fold from what I have read in regional LE reports.
Maybe karma will catch up with you too.
Recognized her mugshot which had her real name which led me to Facebook which is where the real sad stories come out: dirt poor, children taken away, new man in her life looks no better than the first two husbands.
Who or what is RG? I have no clue.
You did say she was giving you the boot at the end of the appointment. That means at that point (which was the amount of time she had agreed to), you were neither leaving nor even getting ready to leave. A disrespect for her time was rude as well, no? Especially if it was a short appointment. She's a clock-watcher. So, you got to write about it in the review.
For one so disappointed, you sure felt the need to look into her once you got her info....
Most of my appointments end pleasantly but this thread reminded me of that particular rude woman. What a different way to say goodbye vs another woman that could not stop kissing me as I was trying to leave. This "other" woman continued kissing as I was trying to get dressed. After I put on my pants she unzipped me just to kiss Mr Happy goodbye one last time...and then kept kissing me out the door. Would love to have more appointments end this way
To clarify, I did not wish the rude woman any harm. I did find it striking that [years later] this woman's reality could be a perfect example of "being put in her place" by Karma...which I do believe in. My appointment was 10 years ago. Her arrest was a few years ago. I read all "prositution" arrest in my regional paper as there are not many per year. I recognized her mugshot with no doubt. She posts all of her miserable life on Facebook, and I don't say "miserable" with spite. Hollywood could make one really sad/depressing movie based on her story which is not over. She is in her mid 30's now.
And now, back to our regularly scheduled program.
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and put her robe on. Perhaps she had the music set to play a certain song when the time was up?
I took the hint, hoped in the shower and was on my way.
as long as it's fair. i once was on a 2 1/2 hour session with a lady (which started with a mandatory half hour in the hotel bar) when said to me after a few sexy fun times, "so do you want to take a shower before you go?"
unfortunately for her it was only 1 hour 20 minutes into the 2 1/2 hour session, and i called her on it (politely, of course. "but i still have 40 minutes left according to your ad!")
she let me stay but her enthusiasm certainly waned by then.
Hookers should not book long appointments if they can't or don't want to deal with them. Mind you PJ you might have worn her lady parts out. Just sayin...even so you are entitled to your full paid for time.
and anyway the girl soon got out of the business... it was pretty obvious she wasn't into it completely. i would think something like this needs your full commitment if you want to do it well.
I have noted the play lists in various genres... she clearly had timed them. Once our play times were over she was generous with her time.
Another, had a small travel clock... could not see the bed side clock from where we were. Eventually I noticed that it was moved into what ever room we plaid in. But I never caught her looking at it & was not a clock watcher.
Some gals have just learned a good sense of time.
I've had the BF or sister coming home pulled on me (early on)...
A few gals use safety persons... or agencies but I'd like to see a more discrete way of doing so. One gal hushed me up so she could take her call from her safety person... she was in no hurry to have me leave but play time was over & we chatted while we got dressed.
Maybe try not to think of a "session" that "drags you back" from anything. Why not just go into your date with a lovely lady as simply that...a great date. A sexually driven hot brief encounter between 2 strangers lol. Maybe then you won't be so disappointed when the clock strikes midnight and its over, chiming loudly, or not.
Gia xo
but when she says "Thank you for coming (cumming?)," I take the cue and kiss her goodbye.