If you confirmed the night before time and location do you make the drive
to the incall if you do not hear from her the day of?

I always like to text or call 4-5 hours prior the day of to confirm a final time.
If she does not respond back do I still get ready and go?  

 
Your thoughts if any?

No, a guy should NEVER just take for granted he has an appt. and drive over, because hookers are flaky at times. I've never seen so many people in one profession be CONSTANTLY late. I can't even recall 5 times in 6 years when I have been late.

If I don't hear from her, I don't leave.  If it's a couple of hours from the date and still no word, I contact her again reminding her of what time I need to leave and that I won't start until I have word from her.  I've only broken this rule once and was sorry I did.

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The lady to text me the day of to confirm. If I don't hear from I will send a confirming text. If she doesn't respond I pass. This is her business and it is up to her to maintain sufficient contact with the customer.

Sometimes I have to leave couple of days ahead time to get to the in call on time.

there isn't anything I can do about doctor's offices wasting my time, testing facilities wasting my time--walking out just means they waste less time of the people waiting behind me.

I do "Your Fired!" when a pharmacy waists my time.

Following the let's confirm our time the day of the appointment and to reach you on time I need to leave here by, I append,  I know the unexpected occurs, please contact me by that time so that I know if you have been delayed.

I have a lot of flexibility in my schedule and mention that when setting up an appointment.

Since my life is finite when some business wastes my time I point out that unlike $$$, which are fungible, when they take time from my life they cannot replace it.  If they take $50 from me, later on they can return $50 and I haven't lost.  Take 30 minutes from me, even if you want to return that time you cannot, even if you spent that time at my house doing dishes, laundry etc you haven't replaced my time. The same holds true when someone steals $50; the same when someone steals my time.

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i usually like to take a taxi so i can play with my wanker on the way there..

I like to confirm a few hours before and always maintain contact if there are delays. Plus, I don't want people knowing where I am until it's absolutely necessary.

Giana

is going to happen. There have been very few last minute cancellations.  

When it is a two call system, I know the general area and drive there before making the phone call about 5 minutes prior to date time.

Then I'll make my second call from there and we're all good.

i don't get in the car and drive unless i've confirmed and got an adress the morning of.

tho usually i dont get the apt or room number til i am there sitting in my car and texting.

hobbying in NYC.  No need to spend time worrying about drive time (because NO ONE drives from one place in Manhattan to another) It's 30 minutes tops to just about any neighborhood thanks to the subway and if she flakes, you head back with money in your pocket.

That said, I do partake when I travel for business so a confirmation a few hours earlier on the day of is always a smart idea UNLESS I get a location the night before (which is rare)  Then I just go for it.

If the appointment is in the morning I would make the drive if I had heard from her the night before.

If the appointment is in the afternoon I would be a lot more concerned if I had not heard from her all morning confirming it was still on

If she is "new to providing," she might not have "timing" down pat.  

If she is "old skool" (like me, ha ha), she should be more aware of "timing."
I have been doing this for six years, and I am well aware that "last minute communication" right before the appointment, decreases the odds of the client showing up.

early communication = client shows up

last minute communication = client stays home