Not my cup of tea either, but most guys dream of being thrown into a harem to fuck to their hearts content, why shouldn't a woman be allowed the same desires?

I know several sluts who are into this type of thing. Some of them are very, very good friends of mine. I would never deprive them of their fun anymore than they would deprive me of mine.

Can you say "Double Standard" for me please?

The duplicity and hypocracy here

is startling. There are men and women on this site because they want to have sex with multiple partners. So why criticize women for being here for the same reason you are? You say you just don't want to know about it? How could you NOT know?? Again...this is a site for people of both sexes seeking sex with multiple partners. If it's not your thing, fine. Just stop judging others for having the same desires as yours and go away.

To know for many women, civvies and providers alike, have gangbang fantasies...it doesn't have to be demeaning like how porn portrays it to be...I did a MFM and it was a very sensual experience.

Homophobia

So what's with all the guys being so frightened about "crossing swords?" If you do not enjoy MFM, then don't do it. But what exactly do you think happens to guys who do enjoy it and, god forbid, a cock comes into brief contact with another cock...or maybe just some random skin somewhere...a leg or foot? In that tiny moment, do both guys start ignoring the woman and begin discussing taffeta and chintz? Or who makes the best Cosmos in Soho? Do you actually believe that sexual preference is determined this way? Are you really that insecure about your own sexual identity? If so, go to a therapist instead of bashing others.

Get all 10 of you out of the way before noon ;-p

Kidding aside, we see other people. There's no difference for you in us doing it all in one go, or seeing several by themselves on the same day. The girls who do this aren't doing it because a bunch of guys just asked for it. In that kind of situation, there's got to at least be some sort of want on our part, IMO. To much going on, and kind of a risky situation having all those men in the room, honestly, if we're not gonna have at least a little fun too.

At my wife's request I have been part of a MFM. Not quite a gang bang but I can assure you no one was being demeaned. She felt quite empowered. I have done FFFM a few times I never felt demeaned. As long as every one wants to play it is all good.

But seriously... MFM+ has been in my bucket list for the longest time, but I probably won't see it happening.
No not because I'm homophobic.. I'm pretty secure in my heterosexuality and I wouldn't mind non-sexual contact with guys, but for the following reasons:
1. Privacy: It's bad enough I have to show my face to providers, I wouldn't be comfortable showing my face to other hobbists. It would be very awkward.. Perhaps if I wear a mask as I enter the door!
2. STI: Of course we'd all be suited up, but I'm not a fan of CBJ.
3. Logistics: Who runs show and calls the shot? For all I know I could end up jerking off in a corner as other agressive guys have all the fun. What about funding, organizing? Probably not worth the hassle and better off doing one-on-one with a provider.


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...with providers who kept them UTR and invited only their trusted, regular clients.  And, none of the guys crossed swords (a rule-of-the-road for gangbangs).

I'd avoid GB's that are openly advertised on the boards - that's a recipe for disaster on many levels...

Some providers advertise gang bang to drum up business.  

Not my cup of tea. If it is yours, more power to you. Generally, providers advertising GB’s are not my cup of tea either