A few weeks ago, I was back home in London. We normally go into her lounge area, lay a rag on the sofa and just chat as we slowly arouse each other. Anyway, this time I noticed she was a little off. First she asked me to stop touching her tits as they were getting sore. Next as I played with her clit she tells me that I shouldn't finger her. In the end she gave me the most lackluster HJ ever.  I figured maybe she was on her period or something and everyone has a bad day right?
However, as we continued talking she starts telling me about her SO who she usually complains about his womanizing ways except this time she tells me that he is into child porn (!!!) She tells me he has kiddie pictures on his laptop and that when he is abroad, he arranges photo sessions with 12/13 year old girls.
I was so shocked that I didn't know what to say or do. For all I know she could just be making shit up...or not. I used to really like seeing this girl but she freaked me out big time so much that I doubt I will see her again. Would you go back?

You're fuckin' around with a chick who's ol' man gets into kiddie porn? Dude...

Kate is the shit, man. I fucked her. Made her squeeeel. You don't need to be hangin' around those pervs.

I'll hook you up. Tell her you know Mikey and you're good to go....

From what I understand cuisine from Great Britain sucks some serious ass. Meat pie? Really?

Bunch of pasty motherfuckers, too. Never heard of a tan.

Well, the Royal family knows. Going to this and that resort on your dime.

God save the queen. And her butt-ugly descendants.

Really. That goofy-ass 20-something Y.O. punk is burying his infantile penis in that hottie commoner.

I just wanna put her ankles behind her ears and plug her poop-chute for one night.

WTF?  

Not because of the child porn (do I have to mention that's despicable behavior?) his actions should not influence how you view your date. I would not go back do to the lackluster experience, afterall you are a repeate customer. Why would you ever go back if she is allways talking about her SO?

I don't care how freindly we get are toward one another, I don't want to hear about your SO ever.
What's your man got to do with me?

I'm paying the girl... at least she better tell me how awesome I am. lol

If she isn't going to turn up the GFE, then she isn't worth my time.

I have made it a golden rule now, for walking out on providers as soon as the first sign of drama appears. For example, if I walk in, and the pleasantries become awkward and disappointed. If I do not sense hospitality, then I immediate walk out because the signs are clearly there. Its no point in trying to remedy the situation, and its no point to continue the session. Otherwise, and in your case, its a lack luster experience.

First she told you, you can't do this, you can't do that. I would have walked out immediate. I have made it my new years resolution to not try to progress a session if she is not willing to accommodate me. Basically, you paid her for her time, and the least she could have done was to temporarily ignore her life's drama and focus on satisfying you.

Then, she informed you of unnecessary drama about her SO. Who the hell would want to hear that. I mean, you paid her for her time. If she wanted to get feedback from someone, then she should inform this information to someone that understands her position. I mean, to just unravel a bizarre incident like that, its a lot to take in. Especially when you paid to experience a pleasure seeking moment. Getting feedback to help oneself is good, but that is definitely wasn't the appropriate time to specifically inform you about her situation and trying to get feedback in the process.

As for me, I don't care if she was my ATF, if she is willing to disrespect me in this manner, and think it is somehow appropriate. And, if you continue seeing her, then she has concluded that you have tolerated her behavior, and other future disappointments will occur. My advice is, to GET THE FUCK out of there and save your dignity when you still have it.

Wow. That is some hyperbole.

Sounds like she was having a bad day.

Clearly this could have been handled differently. But jesus h cripes----yes, you’re “paying”. That doesn’t mean you’re paying machines. Humans have lousy days. And, providers are human…ergo>>>providers have lousy days.

And shit happens. And life in the land of fantasy fucking is not perpetually perfect

She could (perhaps should) have cancelled or rescheduled if she was that distracted. Then again---what would she have said anyway? I’m having a crappy day because I just found out my boyfriend is a pedophile and I’m completely freaked out?  Or---she could have lied---made up some BS excuse. Either way, many guys freak out if a provider cancels; regardless of the reason.  Some even take it so far as to retaliate by blasting the crap out of her all over public boards

If a provider slips up and lets some of her personal life into a session----if an isolated sharing of personal complications feels too weird…or if you simply cannot ‘tolerate’ her behavior-----then give her an opportunity to make it right with you. Or, never see her again. That is entirely your choice, either way.

But, if that does happen, I hardly think you have been egregiously disrespected, or had your “dignity” jeopardized.

Talk about drama.

I still don't wan't to hear about her fucking boy freinds. lol

The provider shared information about a criminal acitivity and now your dilemna is whether you should shut your mouth or share it with the LE? I feel the rest is not important. Maybe the lawyers on the board can help!

I would never return, unless he was being described as an ex-SO and told me she reported him. If she is willing to hang around a pedophile and not turn him in, I want nothing to do with her. I don't want to talk to her. I don't want to see her. I certainly don't want to fuck that hooker. We all have a duty to protect children. At least I feel this way, and I do not want to associate with those that do not feel the same.

Even if she dumped the pedophile and turned him in, I would not return if a lackluster HJ was her norm or it was my first time seeing her. Everyone has bad days and breaking up with and turning in a SO because you found out he is a pedophile certainly qualifies as a bad day. That being true, I am paying for a service. I would not feel I got what I paid for with that session.

I am fine with a lady that I have a relationship of friendship with talking through the bad things in life with me, but not on my dime. Even if I thought of her as a friend, I would have to have a talk with her about respecting the boundaries of P4P time and separating it from our friendship. I am not looking for anther SO. Play time is paid for always and that is all it is, friendship time is free and 100% Platonic. They must remain separate or it just will not work for me.

I WOULD return.  It would not be at a scheduled time, and I'd be certain that he was there.  I'm just not completely certain whether I'd bring a friend with a badge, or a "friend" with bullets, but I'd bring a friend and fix the problem one way or another.  And yeah, if she's in any way cool with kiddie porn, I couldn't fuck her with a broom handle.

Since you have no first hand knowledge of any criminal activity, it is just hearsay, not worthy of repeating to LE or anybody else, unless you want to put it on record that you are a John that patronizes escorts.

and I am pretty sure a lot of the guys posting will not, but so be it.

From your description this is someone you have seen a lot.  You start of saying "We normally...." so this is a lot more than a first time get together.  She obviously trusts you and thought that there was enough of an actually friendship that she could count on you for the smallest bit of human understanding.  This isn't the first mention of her SO, and it did not seem to bother you in the past since you keep coming back.  This is not "drama"; drama is a woman going on about her bad hair day, her SO running around on her, etc.  But those seemed OK with you in the past, at least not bad enough to keep you from coming back.

You say "I was so shocked that I didn't know what to say or do."  That part is simple: put your arm around her and give her a hug that says you care just a little about her as a human being.  Sometimes words are less important.  You do not have to have the solution, but a spot of compassion goes a long way.  Personally I would tell her to report the scumbag to the police, but that's me.  I'd offer to drive her there if she wanted because I know it is not an easy thing to do.

This is not "drama", this is a real person who is obviously really shook up about about something serious--I think most women who found out their SO is a pedophile would be having a really bad day.  Her mistake was not seeing you, her mistake was thinking you and she had enough trust and understanding that you would show some small compassion.  She read you wrong.  You are clearly the kind of guy who anxiously awaits the day the mechanized blow up doll is perfected so you do not have to deal with real people and real problems.

If a guy likes the benefits of seeing a lady over a long time (and there are obviously lots of benefits), then he needs to understand a little about how people with real human emotions act.  Most people doesn't have someone over to their house for sex over a long time and develope zero feelings of trust and understanding--I am not saying they fall in love, different issue, different story.

Sounds like you should not go back, and to prevent the possibility any other woman might mistake you for someone who cares at all I would suggest you limit your visits to one per lady and move on.  You do not seem wired to think of them as humans.

I'm guessing that she was in shock mode.

I CANNOT imagine what she must be going thru... Yuck!!!

Ya she shouldn't have brought that kind of stuff into your session,
but I think she's in shock, and might need a strong shoulder
to hold her for a minute (or an hour lol)

Idk~ wow....

sometimes it pays to LISTEN and get INFO. Instead of being selfish...

It might have been BS but if you could have saved one child from a lifetime of damage
that is what you SHOULD have done!

Part of me wants to call you a POS. You are no better then the PERV
but the other side of me says. If you have been shelterd maybe you were caught off gaurd and your one of those that does not think fast on your feet..

As I read your post. I am angry that all you can think about is your own DICK..

Yep. You are indeed a POS and your behavior is unexcusable!
I hope your dick falls off!

...please listen to Old Traveler.
This is when she needs a friend not a Trick/John!
I am very blessed to have met the most wonderful men through this biz....They are my rock and my strength and will always be some of my best friends...forever as I love them dearly!
She probably feels the same way!

...I'm a Social Worker in civie life..
Any  and All "suspected" abuse should be reported.!
It is then up to the Socail Worker to decide whether it is "founded" or "unfounded".
Please, never wait til you feel certain something is/has happened.

Child Abuse last a lifetime!

I have some cop friends I would inform. I bet he would do every thing legal to bring the pedophile down. But it would take more than hearsay from a hooker* to be able to get things done.

*Please note I only am using the word hooker to describe a sex worker that would stand by and let children get hurt by her pedophile boyfriend. I would not use that word to describe an ethical lady that happens to be a sex worker.

I will not associate with a person who willingly associates with a pedophile. That is period. Pedophile are evil and those that befriend evil are evil as well. If she did not turn her boyfriend in after she learned that she needs to be shunned not befriended. Now if her boyfriend was arrested because she stood for what is right it changes everything and I could and would be her friend and hold her to give her strength, so she knows she did the right thing. There is nothing in the OP to indicate that is what she done. Friends of known practicing pedophiles are not my friends.

man/young boy) is he is attracted to children of the opposite sex rather than children of the same sex.  

How fast can you run?

right away I f I were you i wouldnt have wanted to stay. and politely asked if can we reschedule. that be very weird. to be takn a guys money and then get angry he wanted to touych the boobies or finger. that sounds like a bad appt. i think she shouldve maybe rescheduled . or maybe been honest talkd off clock. got off chest and then as italians say fahget about it and got down to business. A stripper once told me dont ever bring your problems in that door itll fuck with your money. but you know sometimes people hold in feelings then explode at wrong times, like obvi this gitl did to you. you are kind to have still done appt with her. and patient. ia m sure shel be better nxt time. no escort would purposely have a melt down in front a client!