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I'm single and I don't like to encourage adultery

Seriously, lust is the only deadly sin I'm comfortable committing.  I won't get married until I find a nympho who will give me some "medicine" twice a day and 4 times a night with a full menu and then I'll quit this hobby for good.  Any providers looking to quit and get hitched?

Pre-marital sex on the other hand should be required by law for any kind of romantic relationship.  Every guy wants it, the ones who say they don't are just lying in order to get it.

I don't want to see a married provider and I don't want her to tell me if she is.  It just feels wrong for Dad to go to the office, kids go to school, and Mom goes to the hotel.  

It's bad enough when I see divorced single moms (who I love and respect btw) who tell their little kids that "mommy is on call to work odd hours every night and has to dress nicely and wear black lingerie for some reason".  

Many of my favorite ladies are single moms.  I love them dearly.  Women who know how to play with children, know how to play with me! ^_^

If it doesn't bother her husband it certainly doesn't bother me.

For me personally, I only do this when I am single and not in a committed relationship. If a provider is single or married that is her business. I never ask and don’t expect them to tell me unless they want to. During the times that they have told me it has been during and not before the appointment.

it does make a difference if I have a personal friendship with the provider.   I would never see a married provider except as a provider, the way she sees other clients.  I would feel different if the provider was not married and wanted to have a personal friendship with me.

If you're looking for a possible "connection" with hopes of a meaningful friendship, possibly building to...... Then forget about an attached provider.

If you're looking to satisfy your most depraved libidinous desires with a comely NSA partner; WTF! As long as she doesn't have a boatload of "I only allow my SO to do that" bullsh*t; have at it, and have fun.

...how can we object to *her* being married?

I once had a date with a cute brunete provider.  After some fun time in my bed, she asked if she could use the phone.  I needed a little time to rest and recharge anyway.
I don't know who she was talking to, but she kept telling them how she did not hear the phone because she was busy doing laundry.
She talked for what must have been ten minutes, It sounded like either a husband or some significant other.
After she was done she asked if I was ready for more.  She was better the second time around.

I care about her looks, attitude, performence, etc., but I don't care about her marital status.

Re:Married or Single providers?

I know it depends on each person, but if I knew a provider was married, I would feel guilty having a "regular" session with her.  I feel the same way with strippers who are sensual and/or friendly.  Call it somewhat old fashion or contradictory, but I did not see providers when I was married, or had girlfriend.  I would think of it as cheating.  As a husband who was cheated on, well, I have empaphy with the guy.  But I also must admit, I don't ask because "ignorance is bliss".  That is my opinion.