I do get thank yous but yes have deleted some , I just cant have an extensive dialogue both leading up too and after every single solitary appt i do, Currently i am shooting for 2 a day with one -2 days rest. Massages fetish and escort a variety of clientelle and style session, By end the month at that pace it just gets to a point where as polite as you d like to be you cant keep up with them all.........................Some get upset, but they arent worth worrying about any how.
99 persent understand that you are busy and just cant spend an hour otc with every customer you meet that week if you factor in all the attempts they make to send you an email concerning a scripted session or all the banter concerning just even the POSSIBILTY of a minor one hour date,
I experience at times they want to discuss or email too ncuh about a small donation hour session they havent even committed too yet, If they want to send thank you its very kind if the lady does also very kind, However if you choose to engage in further time and enerrgy with them than already given its your choice, i know the next day after meeting some one i am tied up with the appts forr that day and the following week and trying to uphold my family and soial life and personal commitments aside from esacorting, having a dialogue concerning a 280 dllar or worse 140 dollar half hour hour body rub we did yesterday i just dont got the enrgy for that ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i do smile and take not and appreciate it, but I cant do it all. you gotta see if you are workin alot and stuff you may not have time to chat after the date with each client that week,
To the gents and ladies I have a question after a session with a lady or gent do you send a thank you note?
I usually send a thank you email or on occassion I receive a thank you email from a gent.
Either by email maybe ter pm or if the guy is free to get text messages maybe a thank you note that way.
Does that bother you guys to receive a short message like this?Do you think "Oh she had a great time or is just fishing for future business or both?"
Just wanted some opinions on this...
i send one after every appointment to thank the lady for a great time..i think it is a courtesy that everyone should adopt..the ladies always appreciate a well deserved compliment..it simply serves as a simple ego booster for both client and provider..
CPA has this one on lock down. You don't send someone a thank you after you just paid THEM $$$$.The onus, if one exists at all, is for the RECEIVER of the massive sum of money to thank the GIVER.
Somehow, the super soft wimps in p4p like Mac have turned this whole common sense notion upside down.
My customers don't thank ME. I thank THEM. They can take their business to a million of my competitors but they chose me. I take THEM out to dinner. I gift THEM on their b-day and at the holidays. I take THEM to sporting events and shows.
And the girls here aren't stupid. They play along with these dumbasses to the point of having the balls to put up a "Pamper Me" page on their website with all types of goodies to be bestowed upon them. But I don't blame the girls one bit. If I could get away with, I'd do the same thing.
Some guys here just feel the need to pay much more than the high per hour fee so the girl will "like them more" and be there little pet and favorite john. LOL.
A fool and his money are soon parted. No where is that more evident than in p4p.
about something pretty innocuous. For example, I don't tip and I don't do "pamper" stuff. I give repeat business to amazing providers and refer them to others that may ask my opinion. And yes, if my doors were blown off I may send a one line thank you email...and my doors are frequently blown off because I usually research well and choose wisely. I guess I don't get why this has to be such a big deal, or why someone who sends a thank you note is automatically a groveling, stiletto licking wussbag.
And I will give it all the consideration it deserves, I assure you. And I like TH, btw...maybe it'll catch on and I'll stop regretting my late night, scotch influenced handle selection.
Well you're lined up with Capt Drip on this one all I need to know. I'm with Jack.
I'll think for myself thanks
...I don't see any reason not to say thank you when I receive good service. I thank servers, maintenance people, providers, and anyone else that does what I either tip or pay them to do if they do it well. I appreciate a thank you in return from these people. I don't see the thank you as being in the same category as the gifts page and all the other things railed against whenever a discussion like this comes up.
While I think you, CPA , and others are trying to make a bigger point which does need to be made it seems to me that should be saved for things that matter. Sending the lady a simple thank you doesn't fall in that category.
well and coherently. When it seems an attack or bitter diatribe, the point is lost.
Or any gal sending a John a TY email.
I just don't have a need to send one, and most gals tend to not send them out either (those that I know).
The gals appreciate my return visits with my friends names Ben. That seems to be the real interest here.
While I think you, CPA , and others are trying to make a bigger point which does need to be made it seems to me that should be saved for things that matter. Sending the lady a simple thank you doesn't fall in that category.
Send a thank you, don't sent a thank you...personal taste, shouldn't be expected, and damn sure no offense should be taken if not sent.
Start throwing buckets of money at a provider, buying gifts and blowing up her email because you think you're special to her...well, find another hobby because you've dangerously lost perspective.
This is a great place to play.
But some dudes think it's a dating scene, and honestly many gals get creeped out with some of this shit.
Rarely does a gal send out anything more than a quick note....and it's not an invite for an extended email exchange. But some fools can't understand that it's a job, thinking that she's really into him.
Keep it simple...everyone is a winner that way.
Start throwing buckets of money at a provider, buying gifts and blowing up her email because you think you're special to her...well, find another hobby because you've dangerously lost perspective.
They can throw buckets of money and gifts, I don't mind! Lol
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My post was directed at Mac's response (and guys like him) when he posted this:
"i send one after every appointment to thank the lady for a great time..i think it is a courtesy that everyone should adopt..the ladies always appreciate a well deserved compliment."
He has a great time with EVERY lady? It's a courtesy that EVERYONE should adopt? The ladies ALWAYS appreciate them?
If you agree with his post, I am referring to guys like you. If you disagree with his post it is b/c you know in your heart what he is saying, to the extent he is saying it, is bullshit.
Those are the soft, wimpy guys I am referring to.
No, I don't agree that every lady should be thanked, so I did miss the context.
But I'll still send a thank you note when I'm rocked. But no Flower Bomb or Cristal, sorry ladies.
If you could do this job for a week and fuck the female equivalent of the johns we see, you would understand. Those high fees offset a lot as far as I am concerned.
And no, no "pamper me" page for this hooker. My high fee is enough. LO
I dont care what a girl charges. And I'm not sucking any droopy old dick for $$$$ an hour. lol.
And why dont you send me your website address and I'll check for myself about your Pamper Page. Reagan said trust but verify. 
They still get blown the same way. My best. But if a client feels good making me feel good with more, by all means, live it out! Lol.
Doesn't matter what my rates have been either. (Except the kind of room. Big difference in hotel room when I charged my highest rates/time minimums.)
I actually calculated he much I REALLY make per hour worked vs how much the guy PAYS per hour, by the way. Including the prep, marketing, posting on boards, (yes, while fun, if it does have something to do with my income).
Before expenses, it isn't anywhere near the hourly rate lol. But it's all super fun, so who can complain?
Regarding looks of men, it actually doesn't bother me in the least. Never has in this business. We do have the luxury of having a hole and not having to keep a boner lol.
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As for having sessions with the gals...I have not sent thank you notes for taking my money. It's a given that she appreciated my money. If she enjoyed my company than I would expect that if I wanted to see her again she'll reply timely to my request.
Some gals have sent me a thanks for giving me money note. I take it that they were thrilled that the amount that I left was correct and just wanted to let me know that they'll be thrilled if I come calling again.
Maybe I should expect my doctor to send me a thank you note after a prostate exam? I know I won't send him (her) one.
I usually send a thank you email or on occassion I receive a thank you email from a gent.
Either by email maybe ter pm or if the guy is free to get text messages maybe a thank you note that way.
Does that bother you guys to receive a short message like this?Do you think "Oh she had a great time or is just fishing for future business or both?"
Just wanted some opinions on this...
Followed by an apology for spilling it all over your desk?
Lmfao 
Oh wait...it was LOL
The desk is still sticky...hmmm!
Lmfao
Then on the phone...
And on TER...
Maybe overkill, but...
Don't want to burst her bubble.
Hey...do you ever use fabreeze? I know my kid did on her hockey equipment.
And on TER...
Maybe overkill, but...
I just used it in my car. I think I spilled something...
A lot of the gals I see are repeats who, in some cases, are also friends. So, while there may not be a "thank you" note going either way, there is contact.
There are also a good percentage of girls who've sent me a note afterwards. No big deal. It's just good business.
would they not be insincere and meaningless? And then how would we regard not sending a note that was "expected"?
I think I like the idea of sending a note only when you had an amazing time, great chemistry... when it has sincere meaning outside of the norm.
Plus, can you imagine the "I'm so mad at my provider" threads we'd get here on the boards if notes were expected and some guy didn't get one?
You try to do something nice for people, and they all go nuts and yell at the cashier.
I always see it. Just say thank you and enjoy the gift... Don't expect more and more, just be happy you got something a little extra and say 'thank you'.
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because it can be UGLY. Being nice without thinking about it, by nature, is BEAUTIFUL.
And I found those Grillz you wanted...
I love it when a lady corresponds with a follow up notification.
Like wise when she rocks my world I like to thank her in return.
Never had any negative feed back either way.
PK
if it is someone I see regularly, I can thank her with a card, text or the next time we hook up.
Generally speaking, and except for certain professions like the medical field, proper etiquette for a business is to thank the customer, first. Same goes for the aftermath of a provider/client session (Which can be done by sending a simple thank you text/email/note). Whether or not there was true chemistry or sincerity, it at least shows a form of professionalism and acknowledgement to a customer that he is valued. Then, the customer reciprocates and thanks the provider, thus letting her know that she is valued, too. On the other hand, there are no real rules to sending thank you texts/emails/notes; so if a customer wants to go ahead and thank the provider first, than that is okay, too. For me, I find it more meaningful the other way around.
lly, I'd be turd if I WASN'T thankful that I can earn in an hour what some folks earn in a week...or that a guy with an infinite variety of options chose me to play with...or that he was thoughtful, and/or fun, and/or hot as Hades...or that he sent me home all flushed and glowing, with crazy just-got-fucked hair barely contained by my barrette...
Apparently if you're as dour a human as ol' ChgoCPA, not even all of that would bring any joy. I'd just be scooping those dollars off the dresser like the world owes them to me, never even looking my date in the eye...but I could never be that person. I'm a fan of shared joy, of gratitude - and of thank you notes.
When I buy something online, I get a thank you email. Then they keep sending emails every day for years after. Such great folks
We must frequent the same vendors!
Thank you for the donation. I really needed that boner today.
You're Welcome!!!
Recently I got a text while pulling out of the hotel lot. it felt great. It wasn't so much a thank you as two minds with one thought - 'when can we do this again'
The communication was organic. it made sense within the context of the visit, which was great; different from any other --- and i think that is the key - if it was forced or perfunctory like the checkout person who throws the change at you and tells you to 'have a good one' it ain't happening, and is counterproductive - and I think we're all smart enough here to know the difference.
As a businessperson myself, i am totally cool with someone who runs a personal services business treating as...well, as a personal services business by extending themselves beyond the closed door. And if it''s more of a personal contact than a sincere business contact that's even better
Nothing magical about it, it's just a courtesy. I also fill out comment cards at restaurants when a server is particularly good. I find the older I get the less I suffer fools and the more I appreciate those who make an extra effort.
I have received a few and have sent a few thank you's by text.
However, I've read so many horror stories about guys becoming stalkers. When the lady is extraordinary and the guy doesn't understand and respect the boundaries and said guy sends a relatively tame thank you and she relies nicely that she had a great time too, then the guy thinks she really wants him and things get messy for her.
I don't ever want for a lady to think I'm that guy, so, there have been times that I've wanted to send a text "thank you, you're an amazing woman and I had a great time". But, more often than not I don't send it, not that I don't mean it but because most ladies only want communication in preparation for and at the time of the appointment, and I'm afraid she may think there's a possibility that I'm that guy.
I think it's usually easier and more removed to send an email.
This can be a difficult hobby for those that can't separate the fact that she's an actress, hopefully a really good one who wants to makes us very happy and give the GFE or PSE fantasy for a set period of time, and then we part company.
Think about it... If she becomes scared that you're a stalker from a simple "thank you, you're the shit," text, she's in the wrong business. That or she thinks she's 'The One and Only Shit' lol.
If I enjoyed my time, it's always nice to know that she had a good enough time to want to turn me into a repeat. Not reveiving one doesn't say anything, but getting one is a positive sign for me.
I usually send a thank you email or on occassion I receive a thank you email from a gent.
Either by email maybe ter pm or if the guy is free to get text messages maybe a thank you note that way.
Does that bother you guys to receive a short message like this?Do you think "Oh she had a great time or is just fishing for future business or both?"
Just wanted some opinions on this...
I guess I was raised old school. Seat the lady at the table, walk on the street side of the sidewalk with her, ask to kiss her and to unbutton her blouse, skirt or dolphin suit, etc.. I wouldn't think not to send a thank you note whether or not I'd see her again. Not only is it a courtesy to her, but also to me as a sort of stepping stone off the high of a sensual and erotic encounter on the way back to normal world.
Agreed! I send a thank-you email or PM afterwards (unless it didn't go well), and always get a positive response back. But I think thank-you notes are a lost art with many people today. I find it odd that I am almost always the first to send a thank-you note to the provider after a date. I agree with the earlier post that according to business etiquette, it's the client who should receive the thank-you. On only one occasion have I received a thank-you before I sent one. It was a text shortly after I arrived home, noting how much she enjoyed our time together. Needless to say I saw that provider again!
I love thank you notes, or simple, "I had a nice time." I get a little giggle and blush out of it and pat on the back. I like it, so I send notes too, if I think the guy will appreciate it.
People over think things. If you're doing it for future business, I think the guy will pick that up naturally. If you're being genuine, you've probably naturally already retaining business and just confirming you're genuine.
How much I enjoyed our time together and how I hoped to see her again to a provider a few months ago. She was on the verge of retiring (unbeknownst to me) and she sent me back a communique also saying she had a nice time. I won't go into details, but it was cordial, polite and well, normal. It was a GFE taken to the nth degree, even after the session was over. To me that speaks of class. The lady has class. When she disappeared from the scene I emailed her to see what was up and she responded that she was taking a hiatus/retiring from advertising but that if I wanted we could still see each other on occasion for the same terms. So... Moral of the story is. Be civilized and maybe you can keep connections that less communicative people or less cordial people will not. Or be a pig and move on. Life is about choices
to send a TY note after a session... I know I've gotten very good responses when I do...
Mutual thank you notes help build business relationships.
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but i never ever think that business isnot part of this whole arrangement. and thats ok.
i luv to get short thankyou emails from my dates, i love to send them too. it continues the illusuion, and that's kind of what i'm paying for.
i wouldn't do more than 1 note, wouldnt want to "overstay my welcome" so to speak.
amd actually, those rare times when i send a thank you and dont hear back make me recomsider seeing the lady again.
Receiving such from the provider before sending her an email is always appreciated, although somewhat embarrassing at not having been the first to respond.
It is simple courtesy to thank someone for good service- it's done in all walks of life - restaurants, the grocery store, clothing stores- it doesn't matter the service provided, to say thank you after said service is appreciated.
Not to mention it keeps the line of communication open between client and provider so that next time the provider will remember you as a gentleman and someone they look forward to seeing again.
Some agency’s frowns on it. So it depends.
I do get thank yous but yes have deleted some , I just cant have an extensive dialogue both leading up too and after every single solitary appt i do, Currently i am shooting for 2 a day with one -2 days rest. Massages fetish and escort a variety of clientelle and style session, By end the month at that pace it just gets to a point where as polite as you d like to be you cant keep up with them all.........................Some get upset, but they arent worth worrying about any how.
99 persent understand that you are busy and just cant spend an hour otc with every customer you meet that week if you factor in all the attempts they make to send you an email concerning a scripted session or all the banter concerning just even the POSSIBILTY of a minor one hour date,
I experience at times they want to discuss or email too ncuh about a small donation hour session they havent even committed too yet, If they want to send thank you its very kind if the lady does also very kind, However if you choose to engage in further time and enerrgy with them than already given its your choice, i know the next day after meeting some one i am tied up with the appts forr that day and the following week and trying to uphold my family and soial life and personal commitments aside from esacorting, having a dialogue concerning a 280 dllar or worse 140 dollar half hour hour body rub we did yesterday i just dont got the enrgy for that ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i do smile and take not and appreciate it, but I cant do it all. you gotta see if you are workin alot and stuff you may not have time to chat after the date with each client that week,