The whole reason for the meet and greet is exactly that.
The gents and ladies get together and talk to see if you ever want to have a session with them.
You are already paying a fee to enter the party.
Sit, talk, mingle and most time the providers do get rooms and can arrange for a quick get-a-way from the party.
I know for myself that is what I do and I offer 30 min sessions to 90 min. That way, I am attending the party and I have a private party as well in my room.
I realize I may be on the wrong board, but I don't see much activity on the Meet & Greet Board, so I thought I'd try this one. I know there are certain criteria to get an invitaion. I do have some reviews, and have recently tried to get involved on this board. (Hope I haven't offended anyone) I'm still a bit shy, but would love to attend one someday. My questions are:
Who typically organizes them, a group of providers, agencies, hobbyists? Are they usually open only to folks from that area, or are visitors ever invited? Do providers and hobbyists ever go together on a prearranged date? How far in advance are they usually planned? Are some ladies available for dates aftrwards?
I hope this isn't too many questions for one post. I'm still fairly new, and any help would be appreciated. Thanks!!!
At the next Meet and Greet, providers set up their own little booths private booths, and like at trade shows, they offer just tiny samples of their DFK or BJ skills, perhaps 60 seconds or so. And in return, the guy drops a $20 in a jar as a donation to the provider's favorite charity, which is labeled on the jar.
That is awesome, but risky, lol. I like that the donation was to a charity.
I have been to some parties, in public they cannot be so risque`, but private parties are nice. Of course one has to be careful as to not post it on a board as you can only have so many guests in one place.
Perhaps you can host a party. The last one I went to was a nice set up and the host rented a big house to have it at. He was organized and there were raffles and he provided mixers (BYOB) and snacks.
The idea of a provider sitting down with a line of dudes formed, and her slobber-knobbing each of them is pretty nasty not only for the the provider, but the dudes in line too. I'd want to be first in that line, or not in that line at all. The last dude having some BJ would be like having a sword fight with everyone who was just in front of him.
I realize some ladies may see multiple dudes in a day, but I prefer to think I'm the only one that she's DFK'd or BBBJ'd. Seeing her give DFK or BBBJ to a bunch of dudes would just turn me off. Not to mention, the M&G would have to be at a private home or the restaurant/bar would likely have to toss you out.
Considering all the threads lately about how "clean" the ladies are between appointments and some of the Neanderthal viewpoints expressed on the topic I can't imagine too many guys going for this...Of course, any gal that did it would immediately be labeled "High Volume"!
The whole reason for the meet and greet is exactly that.
The gents and ladies get together and talk to see if you ever want to have a session with them.
You are already paying a fee to enter the party.
Sit, talk, mingle and most time the providers do get rooms and can arrange for a quick get-a-way from the party.
I know for myself that is what I do and I offer 30 min sessions to 90 min. That way, I am attending the party and I have a private party as well in my room.
I can only speak to the ones I've gotten invites for. Most of those were hobbyist sponsored, and usually the guys were generous enough to cover all costs. One asked for a toy donation at xmas. From what I've seen, a provider needs only ask to be allowed in. I'm well known in my local community, so I'm most always extended an invite. Thinking back, I believe that the first time, a hobbyist buddy asked if I could tag along.
I've heard of provider sponsored events, and the ones I've seen ask for a fee to cover costs (sometimes to a level that covers their time). My guess is that invites to those would be more like getting screened.
In either case, the first one is the key. If you mind your manners (don't get too creepy, lol), succeed at making small talk, etc. you'll be welcomed back.
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