I think the reason many providers shy away from that is because of so many things that can happen. They book one guy and blow off others, then he cancels the day before without giving her shit. As someone who does not work often, I can book a month out but prefer not to go past the 2 week mark.

I am too much of a realist to think that the appointment may or may not take place. Plans change all of the time, such is life, so while I appreciate and respect the pre-book or inquiry, I may not finalize everything until the gentleman gets into town. That is the only way I know what's really going on. He will still get an acknowledgement of the request and his appointment will take priority. The planner hobbyist is just as important to me as the last minute hobbyists.

Because of the substantial number business travelers to New York,  I get quite a few appointments booked  weeks in advance from out of town clients.  I imagine the same is true for other destination point business travel markets like Boston, Chicago and DC. I am happy for the business and just ask that they re-confirm when they arrive in town.

Having a civie 9-6 makes it pretty difficult for me to schedule appointments without at least a few hours notice.

However, as the ladies above mentioned, appointments planned too far in advance have a higher chance of falling through so I can be wary.

I mostly book appointments and I can be booked up a week or more...but I mostly see consistent regulars.  I will book out farther for those who have screened and who are traveling to my area...it depends very much on many variables and we can sometimes get screwed by cancellations (ie, not making that date available and then losing out because others would have gladly taken the slot) which is why I tend to book in advance for those that are persistent and adamant only, unless I know them already...but I can totally relate to why some ladies do not want to book in advance.  I on the other hand, prefer to be able to plan my schedule and not just be on standby waiting for an appointment to turn up.

I agree with rrasha... Being in Miami, I get a lot of advanced appointment requests as the guy is trying to get his visit organized. Usually its about a weeks notice, but I have scheduled dates up to two months in advance.

I rarely ever have an advanced notice date cancel... They tend to be pretty awesome because there's time to build up some serious anticipation.

On the flip... short notice dates, either same day or a day ahead usually cancel because the small window of opportunity they thought they would have closed. Most of them have busy schedules that change one second to the next. My adv notice dates are more planned and certain.

Anyway... As you can see from the various responses, we are all accustomed to and comfortable with it in different ways. Your best bet would be to check with the lady you wish to see to find out if she's able to plan ahead with you.

....to make an appt 1wk or 2 in advance.....more than 1 month imo then it's outrageous.
I'd still need reconfirmation day before and of.

... in advance. I see your only review is of a BP gal. Lots of BP providers are high volume, won't be around anymore in 2 weeks, and have no clue how to handle their business. Upgrade in the quality of ladies you seek and you should have no problems with advance booking.

.....especially if you prefer an extended date.  I have dates reserved through the first week in February,  It's never too early!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

With a busy life and a very limited dance card, I can usually only accommodate pre-booking.    I'm prebooking  for an upcoming tour to D.C. In two weeks. And I always give early considerations to people who have visited with me in the past.  I enjoy visiting new places and sites so I like to have a general idea of my schedule so I can go ahead with my other plans.  Plus reference veridication does take time.  And  I'm not one to just sit around waiting for the phone to ring.  Besides, I hate to be someone's last minute or 2nd choice.


French kisses
Elle vegas

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Majority of the times..

My appointments are booked anywhere from a week in advance to months in advance.
Every now and then if my schedule allows I can do same day or next day appts usually same days appts are only for P411 or Date-Check members w/references.
Since I am based in a city that not only tourists visit regularly but also business people many gents tend to book in advance.In vegas you never know who will not be available so it is best to book an appointment when a gent knows his schedule.Of course things happen where times or days might need to be switched around and I try to be flexible if a gent needs to adjust his schedule due to business.
Every lady is different in how far in advance she will accept bookings.
I was speaking to gent recently that had the same exact experience as you the providers wanted him to wait until the day of to contact them some providers might prefer same day or a day or two notice.

I like to know my schedule in advance and last minute appointments do not work for me.
However,recently I had an exception to my no last minute appts rule a P411 member with many references contacted me and had to be checked out of his room in 90min.I was able to see him only because I was ready,my schedule was free,and the hotel was nearby.Of course this is rare instance but you never know until you try.Many providers will have on their websites and/or ads how long in advance they prefer for appointment requests.If not specified it never hurts to ask you might be surprised by the answer you receive.
Good luck to you

I like to plan my schedule and it helps to know when I will be working.  I can handle short notice appointments but often have to cancel other plans I have made in order to accomodate them.

You just have to email and ask. I know some who won't confirm an appt unless it's within the week. I myself and generally booked out two weeks in advance- so you have to commit 1.5-2 weeks early with me at the minimum. Being in NYC I also get requests for 2-3 months in advance when a guy is first settling his dates in town. With my own upcoming trips making me unavailable for the most of august, I am booking well into mid november.

It's not only the girls though. Some guys would blanche at the idea of having to commit more than a day or two in advance while others like the anticipation of weeks before their visit here.

Good luck!

Kiss me,

kate