...so I have to watch my expenditures across the board, not just P4P...but that doesn't mean I can't treat myself on a special occasion to someone a step or 2 above my usual range...just have to work it into the budget...
but there is a point where I feel a bit foolish if I were to pay "that much" There is just so much talent in my area at $300 hr or less, I just see no reason to pay more than that. Now when in Vegas I may go to $500 and I have done so on a few occasions, actually one day in Vegas I saw five different providers, all at $500 hr and it was the cheapest thing I did that day (bad day at the tables), but on a "normal" day, it's a rare women who can get me to spend much over $300 hr.
...is 250.00/hour, and I usually do no more or less than an hour...300.00 is my special treat range, and if I have to travel I'll take 2 hours, which gives me time for a shower and slow start...
You'd be amazed at how much disposable cash a man has when he isn't worried about putting his kids through college or buying new furniture for the wife.
That said, I still like to get value in most things I spend money on and overpaying for pussy would only make me feel foolish and not like I got the "best". Some guys feel that by spending a lot they are getting the best, but after 40+ years of doing this, I beg to disagree.
I don't have kids either and I've been divorced almost 15 yrs and although I work for a major company I still can't spend 2500 a month much less in a day. I won't go over 300 an hour either. That's my comfort level. If you can do that Gag, then more power to you but I think a lot of us clients really can't afford to spend like you. I sure wouldn't mind being able to though because there are plenty of really pretty providers here in Atlanta I'd love to see but I'm not going to break the bank to do it. I will get around to as many as I can when I can. This hobby is addictive but a man's got to know his limitations money wise.
I too have no children, no wife, I also don't have a car payment, I pay very little for car insurance because I've never had a claim (knock on wood), I've had a job since I was 14, been saving all my life, retirement is already a done deal and I'll continue to contribute to that fund for another 18 years. So yeah all of that equates to a healthy disposable income.
I'm a nerd, been a nerd all my life (even back when being a nerd wasn't cool). I'm not an attractive guy, so I could never attract women of the beauty and sexiness that I see in the hobby if it weren't for this arrangement. But I'm done settling, I've settled up until 2011, never again. I see no sense in limiting myself based upon rate when the only financial commitments I have are for me and my rather modest lifestyle (other than the pussy I get). Hell I can't take it with me when I go, a charity will get my estate when I get put into a pine box and then a kiln, they will be appreciative if that is $5 or whatever it happens to be.
There are many advantages to not having kids or a wife, many.
And since you also claim to not have kids, how do you know the difference?
Perhaps your inability to read the overall content of posts here from guys who do have an SO/kids/parents they need to support who have NO problems in dropping coin on hookers.
People just spend money on whatever tends to tickle their fancy. Some like cars...some like vacations...some like pussy. And guess what russ...many can actually afford to do all of that, including supporting their family.
So glad you love your wife..err, life
Posted By: russbbj
I too have no children, no wife, I also don't have a car payment, I pay very little for car insurance because I've never had a claim (knock on wood), I've had a job since I was 14, been saving all my life, retirement is already a done deal and I'll continue to contribute to that fund for another 18 years. So yeah all of that equates to a healthy disposable income.
I'm a nerd, been a nerd all my life (even back when being a nerd wasn't cool). I'm not an attractive guy, so I could never attract women of the beauty and sexiness that I see in the hobby if it weren't for this arrangement. But I'm done settling, I've settled up until 2011, never again. I see no sense in limiting myself based upon rate when the only financial commitments I have are for me and my rather modest lifestyle (other than the pussy I get). Hell I can't take it with me when I go, a charity will get my estate when I get put into a pine box and then a kiln, they will be appreciative if that is $5 or whatever it happens to be.
There are many advantages to not having kids or a wife, many.
Sometimes I feel more flush than at other times.. If the market drops and I lose a fair amount in a week, I translate that to how many doubles would that have paid for.. I behave accordingly.. The rate fluctuates.. Here in New England it seems it is between $250 to $500 .. much above that and I'll pass.. I recently saw a well known porn star advertising at over $1,000 an hour.. I cannot justify that..
There are certainly ladies that I wouldn't see based upon her rate and reviews, but there are other ladies who I would pay the same rate based upon her reviews.
It's all about a lady's service to me, she can be flat out gorgeous, if she doesn't satisfy my menu, I won't see her.
I can't take it with me when I go, so I'm not so concerned about rates as I am about the experience.
I'll say this though, a lady who I've seen a few times and will see again is a lower rate and she provides better service than some higher rate ladies, sure wish she wanted reviews because she is a 10 for service, no doubt. But, I respect her wishes.
Here is my point,I don't mind to pay 500 or moore as long as I get everything that I want(including anal),I have a feeling that some providers would rather tell you they don't do anal and keep you coming to see her moore often at 300 or 350, than you see then once at month for 500 including anal,in other words they think that you don't have enough money to see then three times at month at 500 but could easily pay 350 two or three times at month.
For a couple of reasons, I'm a freeze baby, so it's not likely that I'm going travel to CO on purpose. But more importantly, there are so many high quality women that I could get a lot more time with for that kind of money.
I wouldn't rule her out, but it would be highly unlikely.
As far as the below question is concerned let me make it perfectly clear I didn't ask for the discount but it's happened twice in the six months I have been playing in this world. Both of the times it was with a girl who was a friend of someone I have seen. The girls rates were $350.00 and when they mentioned the friends I said no I wouldn't pay 600 and 800 which were the friends rate
First girl was a $600.00 an hour girl who gave me the session for $400.00.
Second girl was $800.00 and took $500.00.
The girl's made the offer to me. I didn't tell them what I was going to pay and I didn't ask for a discount. If they didn't make the offer they knew they weren't going to see me. Both of the girls told me they had to meet me based off of what the friend told them. I can say that both of them were awesome.
Don't ask me who the girl's are I won't answer and it not something I am going to send back channel either. None of these girl's were reviewed as that was the request. I would have given amazing reviews with the normal fee attached but they said no reviews and I respect that.
The most I feel comfortable paying is $500.00. I know I won't see a few girls as they won't do discounts and that is fine. I have made one exception to this rule and spent 600 but some of the best sessions are $280 which is what my favorite charges an hour.
Posted By: escalade1964
Do you?
Do you feel a provider would lower her rate to see a particular hobbyist?
... not due to budget reasons, but because the price is market driven. Just "because I have the money" is not reason enough to spend it. If I can hire a great looking girl who provides a fantastic experience for a $300 donation, then, why in the world would I want to pay upwards of $600 for a similar looking girl and a similar experience? Prices in a given area are set by the dynamics of the established market, that is what sets my Max.
My limit per hour is $500. Once Ive seen her enough, I generally negotiate a bit lower and then settle for overnights. Overnights generally highest I go is $1500 with date starting around 6-7 p.m. and ending around noon following day.
...but the principle is the same, even if the amounts are different.
i get a walloping great time with a couple ladies i know for 500/hr. i live in los angeles where the median rate is inching upwards to 700/hour. there are ladies here who ask for 900/hr.
i have tried the expensive elite girls, and no, the higher price did not guarantee better service by a more beautiful lady. quite the opposite.
it's a matter of research and luck, i guess. find the ladies who work well for you within your budget. trial and error.
I play this game as I see fit, and could care less about what you and the other idiots on the boards think. Go ahead and attack me here...it will have no effect with the ladies, and that's what's it's really all about..
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