Discussing sexual services in any fashion before a session is often going to get your email blocked/deleted. The closest I would even come to this would be to mention in your introduction that you are "safety conscious."
Face to face, I can't imagine a lady complaining if you ask for a cover.
OK, I'm Mr. super careful (yet super horney - not the greatest combo I know) - so I want to maximize the kinkyness of a session but want to stay as safe as possible, i.e. DATY is out so's BBJ (CBJ good though), FK, maybe DFK if it looks clean.
Question is: am I better off w/ a provider that seesm to also play it super safe or a provider that's nice and giving/will do things like CIM/DATY but will respect my need to hold back while still keeping it hot and erotic as possible.
I realize that YMMV in many ways but in generalities I'm thinking I'm better off doing the latter.
With your safety-match lady you don't need to discuss or worry about it.
If there is a different provider whose boundaries are looser than yours just explain your boundaries when you meet.
You should be paying more attention to who you find attractive - be it personality or looks. When you find the right match you'll have a great time either way!
Discussing sexual services in any fashion before a session is often going to get your email blocked/deleted. The closest I would even come to this would be to mention in your introduction that you are "safety conscious."
Face to face, I can't imagine a lady complaining if you ask for a cover.
for DATY, they are available at most sex toy shops. I haven't used them but have heard they work OK. Or find a provider who will indulge a "latex" fetish and clothe herself (or you) in tight fitting latex body suit .... or go for the less expensive alternative: wrap yourself in cellophane and duct tape...
This may sound facetious but it's not intended that way: I think if you worry so much you shouldn't hobby. The negative emotions afterwards may well outweigh the pleasure of the meeting.
I am also a germaphobe so whenever I am with a woman I first ask her to boil herself then bath herself in Betadyne (I like the bright orange tint it leaves on the body) and then I completely wrap her in sterile wrap.
What have you been doing for the last year? Clearly, at least a year ago your version of things happening during a session were quite different. lol
"We LFK to DFK'd and..." or enjoying a grand BBBJ with attention to the twins. Have you suddenly had a change of heart? Were there no other sessions since 05?
This just seems like a wierd question to ask for someone who has been in the hobby for at least a year, and then wonder what protection level you might be comfortable with.
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