I tend to see older providers and, though my ATF has no kids, most of my favs over the years have.

and while I wouldn't go so far as to say it makes them better providers, I don't think it is a negative in any way either.

Now a gal with a sense of humor - That's hot!

Be careful with me, I'll give you a run for your money.  8o)

I sometimes joke around with a guy before I meet him if I get a feeling that he has a sense of humor.  So I may tell him that I have a prosthetic leg, or one eye, or something.  He laughs, I laugh, and everythings cool.

But a few times, as a session is winding down and me and a guy are talking, I'll joke with him and say, "Well, after this Ive got to go pick up my kids from their dads."  And he'll look at me with absolute shock/horror.  "You have kids??!!"  And I'll say "Yes, 6."  By then he knows Im kidding and calms down.

Anyway, is it a turn off or does it weird you out if a woman has kids?  I dont have any but assume that most women, especially older women, do.

no. most of the ladies i know in the biz have none or keep them well hidden.

there is one lady on my TER favorites list that i have not seen privately, only at a social gathering. rumor has it she has several kids and it doesn't put me off at all. some of the ladies who have moved on are starting or already have families that i know of more directly. one of my current favorites has a family and is open about it, no joking.

many of the women in the business are either so devoted to their work that they want no children or have something in their past that makes the idea of having children repellant.

myself.... when i was younger i was more interested in passing on bits of DNA. my exSOs fell into two camps: the ones that HAD TO HAVE children and those who HAD TO NOT HAVE.

i understand you have a life. if you want to joke about it or not, it's OK by me. as long as i think you're hot.... and we can treat each other kindly and with humor, i'll be easy. promise.

nothing about your body makes it obvious.  I've been with several providers I knew had kids and it was no problem.  I'm sure I've been with other escorts who had kids but I didn't know about it.

One of my favorites has a grandchild.  Don't know why anyone would think having kids was wierd.  I got a couple myself.  Is that wierd to you?

Took a trip in the time machine and discovered that over 60% of the ladies I have seen have children.  I'm sure because we have talked about them.

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I have NO problems with that.  And don't ask me to baby sit for them either

Some of the gals I know have kids old enough to baby sit me tho

Have a very Merry Christmas sweetie!

What about her body would make it obvious?  Stretch marks?  Do things get looser?

That's what I figured but wondered why the look of horror...

There's a certain slackness to the skin on the tummy very often.  Stretch marks, too, for many women but not all. Depends on how much weight is gained.

LOL, it probably wasn't a look of horror, but more of shock... especially if you're in good shape, some guys cannot believe that you've had kids.

Once during a session with a provider that was very fit we were discussing how much she worked out when she mentioned that others thought she was a post op tranny.  She said "Don't you think I look like a guy?  Wow I had to do a second look real quick.  Junior had difficulty rising to the occasion after that.  Maybe that was her plan.

a guy may have in his head what he wants you to be.  Perhaps by discussing "kids" he realizes that you have a real life going on.  And based on some of the "I've fallen" posts we'ver all read he may have a problem with seeing you as "his" gal going forward.

I typically assume all the gals I have seen...or will see, have kids, SO's and a real life when they're not working here.  Wow..imagine that.

And I am fine with kids...as someone else pointed out most of US have them.  And I'm also fine with you having a life outside the biz...that's why I'm here and pay you to leave me alone after we are done.

Works well for me

i don't pay for comedy

mine is to go to Disney World with a lady and her kids.  Its been years since I went with mine, and it will be years before I go with grandchildren. I miss it.  I know it's unrealistic, and probably a bad idea, but maybe if I get to know someone well enough..................I miss having young children in my life, especially when it came with having a hot wife ....... or girl friend.

....care less, a provider's life is her life.  but honestly you'd be amazed at how many hobbyists I've talked to who want to hear NOTHING about a lady's real life, especially if it includes a husband and kids.  as one of my buddies says, there's a reason we pay for a "fantasy."

Often after the session, they'll say something about their husband (if they have one) or children.  It DOES intrude on the fantasy...  I think it is done (whether the lady knows it or not) to, offset the falling for you hormones.  Then they switch back to GFE for goodbye.  
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Of course I dont think guys (or women) having kids is weird.

But based on some other responses, I think that the reaction that I got is because some guys have a "young girl" fantasy (not underaged.. just young) and get off on that fantasy.  Im not super young but look it.  So the mom with 6 kids joke mustve screwed with the fantasy.  But I could be wrong.  Who knows what guys are thinking.

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One of my 'altruistic' reasons for never fathering a child.

Kinda like my 19 inch package?

But unfortunately the surgeons did a poor patch job though with metal brackets and stitches...
and it looks more like frankenpenis upclose.

Seriously though, I prefer seeing fun ladies who keep the mood lively and mostly laughing, since I tend to be silly / goofy myself. If a lady can't take a moderate joke, then to me she is stuck up and probably won't be much fun to see long term.  I do try to adjust to each individual though, sometimes they are the type who DO like to joke around a bit but are either just not in the mood, have something important on their minds, or simply upset at me about something.  So, it's usually easy to gauge a persons true feelings simply from their reaction.. ie: leaving me hanging. lol  

BTW, Having 6 kids at your age would be simply outrageous.... IF they know your age.  If you're who I think you are, even if you popped one out every year you'd have to have been underage before conceiving your first kid. And whoever the father is would be in serious trouble.

That's what happens when I skim through quickly. Reread your post and realized you're asking about kids.

The answer is, I don't really care as long as the kid isn't in the same room...

Not my business and not a turn off at all. Unless the guy is seeking a relationship with a single girl, I don't see how it can be a turn off to a hobbyist who's simply looking to get laid.

Anyway, my question was stupid so its ok that you just glossed over it  And I am not that young!  i could techincally have teenagers by now if Id started having kids at my quinceanera.  Or bat mitzvah.  or Kwanza-eneara.

Not that I would act on it with the kid there.

Doesn't turn me off, just the opposite, turns me on.  I love MILFS , the more the sexier in my book.

Of course I am not into the fantasy of She is my GF for the hour. I also know that if they have a good SO they are less likely to fall. It hasn't been a problem for me and I like to keep it that way. Mostly though I don't care as long as I don't have to lie for her. I had to do that once it sucked.

As a Christmas gift here is a photo of Kelly F. from Met-Art.com.

In fact I am married to a provider. Being a provider can be very isolating. It is good to know they have someone in their life that helps with that.

It also makes less likely that she will fall for me. I am a caring guy. I try to help those I can if it is really helping them and not enabling them. I don't want a lady to mistake the fact that I am turned on by her and I care for her as a person as romantic affection and mistakenly pursue a relationship. I am open to friendships or strictly professional relationships only.

Third, there is a kind of charge off of copulating with some other guy's lady, with out the risk of destroying their marriage. Yes, I am a pervert but I don't ever want to do real damage to someone else's marriage. All the thrill of being the other guy and none of the mess. This is why I hate it when I have to lie to keep her secret as then I get the mess that comes with it and it isn't worth it to me.

Here is a photo to distract people from my lame post of Capri from Nubiles.net. Hope it works.