This is a message mostly for those who have a significant other yet are seeing a provider.
What would need to happen at home to keep you from going out?

Me? I would need a HJ or BJ at least three time a week plus regular intercourse once a week. And I would still probably be tempted on occasion.
Most guys i know have to have release at least once a day and if mine took care of that need half the time I would be much happier.

How about you?

Sorry if this has already been discussed.

but certainly wouldn't need to. I hate to say it but having seen certain providers now, I don't think my SO would do a number of the things that I really enjoy such as going through the darker entrance.

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I agree that a BBBJ would be great, and even twice a month having my wife say, "Lay back honey, I am going to ride you hard and fast, then I want you to cum on my face." or "how about you stick that in my ass, it feels sooo good" (that would NEVER happen)

I, however, just want to have some fun in the bedroom, a bit less mechanical (some providers I avoid are like that) and a bit more spontaneous and kinky.  Not Kinky whips and sh1t, just something different than having her lay there and rolling over when done, like you just finished something you just had to do to me.  Obligation sex, looking bored (even when giving her mind-blowing oral), and rarely suggesting we have sex at all... will NOT win me back into the world of monogamy.

3 times a week is perfect... even a nice passionate kiss, a quick handjob, or her laying in bed ready for me when I get home from a business trip.  The reality is that I helped her get pregnant twice, she has her children, my money is direct deposited into OUR account, and I have stopped bothering her to have sex, so guess where I get it