that discusses why women might be more attracted to a married man over a single man.

One thing not discussed is the relative safety of having a fling with a married man because she can dump him more easily as he has a relationship already to go back to.  (Although that can often blow up in one's face too.)

I'm wondering if any providers have thoughts on the relative merits of seeing married versus single men.  Do you find one or the other more enjoyable for reasons practical or pruient?

I think it is well chronicled that married men provide far less drama, as they have more to lose.  As a single guy, I am interested in hearing from the ladies on this one.

It will be interesting to see what the ladies think about single hobbyists.

I should put on a ring and wear it out.  I will conduct my own research.  I may need a grant if anyone can hook a brother up.  Hanging out at all the hot spots ain't cheap.

I've seen a lot of providers who preferr not to see single guys. In fact would ask up front if I was married. They had instances of single guys stalking them after the date.

Good post Mr Fisher.

Since being involved in this hobby I have come to the conclusion that I am sort of like many of you guys...I like uncomplicated NSA great sex and NONE of the BS that can potentially come from a conventional relationship.

Private life is very different from work. I can choose my partners and prefer those that are involved or commitment phobic. I see them when we want/need to and the interaction is fabulous and sexy and oh so very hot and then they or I leave. I love my space and don't want anyone permanently in it.

Sorry Mr Fisher..I interpreted your post from the perspective of a non working angle...I shall now answer the question that was asked..I prefer married men and do shy away from single guys. Why? As has been said before, married guys have more to lose should they lose perspective of the arrangement or decide to be a complete ass. And enjoyable from a practical viewpoint.

I think you win the best perspective award this week. My .02