Instead I am talking about a woman's body.

Now I am not heavy, but also am I not skinny or model thin. I work out so I am fairly toned and every day trying to get even more lean. Currently, I wear a size 6, sometimes 8 in pants depending on whether or not they are slim thru the hips (I have thick thighs, LOL), but I wonder "If I slimmed down a bit, would I raise my pay grade?"

Now we all want to say size or weight on a lady doesn't matter, but reality says there is a difference. But when it comes to a girl like me where only 10-15 lbs is the difference between being slim and just about model skinny, would it make a difference? Honestly, do you expect to pay more for a slim and fit provider than one who is voluptuous or full-figured?

I will say, part of me doesn't want to any lose weight and risk lose my D-cups.

Your opinions, please. Thank you.

Kisses,
Vanica Love

From skinny spinners to BBWs.

I have a wonderful time with all of them because it's not the size or style of the body that makes for a good time, but what she can do with it.

As far as your body goes judgeing by your photos, you have a very desirable figure.  Most here seem to agree.

looking at your pics i don't think you could make any improvements

Raising your rate is risky in a recession, clients are price sensitive and rates are dropping where I live (Midwest).  The average local rate (P411 providers) used to be $300 an hour, but it's dropped to $250 and some providers are now at $200 per hour.   Many visiting providers doing incall are keeping the rates down--they're only charging $200 per hour, and they're paying for the room.  So the rates are in free fall.

But here's the paradox:  the few beautiful providers in my area have been able to keep their rates at $300.  The girl I'm seeing this week is a stunning brunette that I've seen on & off for over a year.  I'll pay her $300 and I'll get the room (another $60).  So I'm paying $360, nearly double the rate of a visiting provider doing incall.  Why?  

Beauty keeps your rate stable during a recession.  Trimming down will help you keep your rate where it is, and you'll get more repeat appointments.  I hope that helps.  --z

If you photos are representative of your current size no need to lose weight as you are hot. Size does matter but every guy has his own preference. I know guy that are into the heavier ladies think 200LB+ category. I know other guys that prefer the ladies they are with to be extremely thin, you know the starved model look. Me I like all types and I will pay the same for any lady I see that I find attractive $200 to $400 an hour for FS. If I don't find a lady attractive I will not book.

Didn't get into your rates or reviews, but I think you should adjust them accordingly to your reviews, your personality, and your professionalism. If at all.

Just because you're hot, doesn't mean you're a nice person, or a great lay. Know what I mean?

That, and the fact there are some guys that like the model skinny type, just as much as the guys that like the voluptuous type. You can't please everybody. You're lucky that I dig both.

I think your regulars would be a better indicator on whether you should raise your rates or not. Would they pay more to see you? And why?

Though, and I hate to say this, raising your rates while everyone else is cutting back might not be in your best interest at this time.

I assume that your photos are accurate (I have seen some reviews that complained otherwise at one point).

You are what you are. I think with you figure and the intrinsic shape of your body, a "model skinny" look would look awkward on you, and would not suggest losing that extra weight. It would certainly not (IMO) garner you any extra coin. Guys who want spinners aren't going to book you no matter how skinny you get. I think you look hot. The only reason I might not book a woman with your proportions (just being straight here because I kinda like what little I know of you) is that I'm not that crazy about the slender waist with hips and booty. Not that I haven't done it and loved it, but there is a part of all of us that gravitates to what we like.

You're a (pardon the phrase) big lady with hips and shoulders. There needs to be some muscle and meat to sit on that frame to look like a woman. I'm not saying fat, and "thicker women" can carry a few extra pounds and look great doing so, so I would caution against too slim of a look.

I can offer no advice on how to raise your rates. This is a supply/demand system like anything else and in each market the guys seem to have their price point sensitivity.

Good luck and just work out, and don't get go changing.

'I can offer no advice on how to raise your rates. This is a supply/demand system like anything else and in each market the guys seem to have their price point sensitivity.'

Forgive my crude reference, but it's like comparing McDonalds to Ruth's Chris. You got the guys who are satisfied paying 2-3, 4-5, and ones on up.

It fucking sucks that we're in a place in time that we have to watch what we're spending.

Shit, I could call an ATF right now, ask for a 2-3 hour and have a fantastic time. Then tomorrow go to work and become a 'statistic' just that easy. That ain't right.

So, you have to take into consideration that not all guys have an unlimited supply of funds.

Fucking sucks, I know.  

If it was up to me, I'd have hot and hotter running providers allover my fucking place. But like I said, it's not up to me.

I actually just lowered them a bit.

I used the phrase "raise my pay grade" and I think everyone assumed I meant to raise my rates. I meant it more to say would I have more "value" as a provider and be in higher demand. Does being thinner make put any woman in higher demand?

Thanks for your input everyone.

Kisses,
Vanica Love

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I agree with Fisher, that is the beauty of the biz. what ever your current flavor you can find it, there is something out there for everybody. Personally I like a thicker lady, I wanna know Im with a woman!

I tend to prefer women who are heavier so for me I would not suggest losing weight provided that your weight is the same in your pictures.

Ultimately though if you do something to your body some guys will like it better and some guys will like it less.  Ultimately what is best for you is to keep yourself in shape and healthy and keep up providing good service.  

IS Very attractive.
Women in general are always trying to improve themselves, which is Great..as longas its for the right reasons.
If you make improvements because YOU want to change something, its what You want it pleases You..then thats great.
If you try to make changes because you think others will not like you the way you are, thats all wrong.
Find what it is about yourself that are your strong aspects and magnify them. What is it that you like about you.
Find your comfort zone what makes you happy.
Once you have found your true self, fat thin tall short and so on you will find also that many are attracted to you...just being you.

this business puts us, or we do rather, put ourselves under a microscope but try not to pick yourself apart. Variety Is the spice of life and we are all different, good and bad.

find peace with yourself and your natural inner beauty will Shine through.

and is sometimes counter-productive to the goal of this hobby (I really hate that characterization).

I just saw a lovely lady that I have always noticed her ads and photos, but never got around to seeing. I just saw her and of course had a wonderful time as she was so much more than a great (pardon the reference) "piece of ass". She was beautiful, with a really nicely decorated incall, and she has a great way about her. An amazing overall package. She does everything well.

I wish I knew how to get us all to look beyond some of the artificial limitations which we impose on ourselves and how we make our selections. Unfortunately, in this P4P game, we only have the ladies ads (photos) and reviews on which to go, and this is a business of impressions. Not like (sayyyy) computers where I can measure the clock speed, number of processors, amount of RAM and how many GBs of disk space.

Like fine wine, each woman is a unique blend of ingredients that has a unique result. There is no way to know what that result is without a taste test. If there were a magic solution (if it were easy), every lady would be doing it.

Again, best of luck, but please stick with what you know (yourself).

Caveat: I have not read all in their entirety, but in general, I think this is true. I would not change my comments any in their substance.

I am a little bugger here, but I remember losing weight because of my insecurity.

I went from 135lbs with FULL Dcups to 105lbs to a baby C cup. I'm not happy about it, and now I always have a weight complex. Men love women in all shapes and sizes. There are men who don't like me now because I'm too "skinny." I know in my civvie life my friends always forcefeed me extra haha

You are gorgeous right now, with your body right now. Don't change anything for the hobby. Just workout if you want to tone up for yourself. If you work out for you, men will recognize and love you for your self love.

Most people who diet end up weighing more. Dieting is very disruptive to one's general well being. It is a very risky, yet tempting shortcut.

Among the providers making 4 or 5 bills an hour are a lot of fitness freaks with implants. I'm just calling it like I see it. I can only hope they are enjoying themselves, but, you'd have to ask them, yourself. Of course they tell the guys they enjoy what they do, that's part of the pitch. I find it easy to believe. They are strong, healthy, and look better than girls that are 10-15 years younger. Personally, I enjoy the feeling of accomplishment I get from working out and making small lifestyle adjustments to improve my overall health.

The big head says it doesn't like implants, but, the little head really likes big tits. For providers, it is a business decision. Bad implants are a disaster of epic proportions.

If performance is similar, I'll book with the slim, fit girl every time. But not all guys like the same thing.

I tend to go for the classic lingerie model beauties, but I've been known to go on a binge for voluptuous women.

Usually, it's subconscious  -  it's getting VERY chilly (BRRRR) in New England and somehow I'm finding the women with a little meat on their bones more attractive than usual.  

Could it be my subconscious drive to select those mates that can survive the winter and provide for my young?  

but not in the same way for all men.

I hobby with my eyes as well as my genitalia and my eyes prefer smaller, fit young women with great butts and B cups or smaller (Misty May is about perfect for my eyes). An acquaintance prefers very muscular women with large augmented boobs. Another friend loves women with bug butts and thighs.

There's no 'correct' preference. Although, most men prefer a ratio that results in an hourglass figure, the actual ratio isn't fixed and your figure is certainly hourglassy!

A better reason to question our weight is the long term impact on our health of carrying even 15-20 extra pounds.

Baby, I looked at your site and if the pics are representative (even within 10 pounds or so) you are an absolute stunner.

BTW, my definition of a beautiful women is that she has all the operating pleasure zones, loves sex, loves to smile and loves to make her partner happy.

On a serious note on size, for me it is much worse to misrepresent (i.e. old pictures that are reflective of current reality) than it is to be "carrying a few extra pounds"  A big part of the excitement for me is to be "anticipating" what I have seen advertized before I get there.  Stokes a "real time" fantasy.  Getting that and meeting X instead of Y can be a big turn-off.

I would be curious if others feel the same way.

curvy as well as many in between.  Depending on my mood, I have different tastes in women.  

My only objection to size is when a lady has put on 20+ from when I first saw her and uses crafty photos to hide the poundage.