Saying that the John Candy's must be a 3-4 is one of the most insulting things I've ever heard in my near 31 years. I have rarely been offended, but scampr's post sure hit me wrong. To think that just because a guy is heavy set that automatically puts him in a low-range as far as attractiveness goes. I really hope you were attempting to be humorous in your post.

At 415 pounds, I know physically I'm no great prize, but when it comes to mentality, charm, passion, humor, honesty and all the things on the inside that truly make a person beauitful you'd be hard pressed to find someone as good looking. In fact, I have been called handsome by some very pretty women just recently. On hotornot.com I have averaged a 6 in looks, and it's a bad picture. Beauty is found within, and everyone is attractive in some form or another. You just gotta look past the end of your nose to see someone on the inside is all.

When I go out to a strip club, the ladies love to spend their time with me because I'm genuine and sweet, and make them laugh (without telling the all too easy fat jokes.) I have more self-respect and a higher level of wit to resort to such cheap laughs. I appreciate them spending their time with me, and they all tell me they'd rather spend time with me than some good looking, thinks he's all that wanna be model boy who treats them, and probably all women like dirt. They have fun, I have fun. And it's all good. The one's who don't wanna spend time with me, it's their call, and their loss. And the other girls tell them later they messed up when they passed me by because they had just as much fun entertaining me as I had being entertained. And on return visits, I end up with four or five in a very short amount of time who at the least wanna sit and chat for a few minutes.

Again, I do hope you were kidding in your post. The mere thought of a provider raising her rates to try and weed-out the less attractive men really gets my blood boiling. Fat guys have money too. Why do you think the big spenders in Vegas are called whales? That's not some cutesy little phrase, it is based in more realities than their bank roll. A provider trying to bid herself up is missing out.

Jimbomania

THANK YOU KC!! Just because a guy doesn't look good physically, doesn't mean he isn't going to be fun, witty, intelligent and treat you well.

It backs up my next post to scampr very well.

Thanks again.
Jimbomania
PS. Why do all the cool open-minded providers live so far away from central Florida?

Over the years, I've noticed that the chosen, supposed Male Sex Symbols have rarely 'done it' for me. Most of them get barely an 'eh' from me. Brad Pitt, yuck. The ER guy, what's his name? George Clooney? Eh. Kevin Costner..maybe, though barely. But, any of the ones I really like are not the Sex Symbols, which, to me, is even more appealing. And they aren't necessarily good looking, either. (Like Vincent Dinofrio..he has my attention!)

I don't know necessarily about looks, can't agree or disagree about shallow-ness, but I will say this, that whomever I see in my personal life is someone I must be very much attracted to! (I didn't say he must be attractive - but that I must be attracted to him)
And, your heart decides on its own, sometimes with no choice or warning! And it can be very surprising indeed!