i always thought i am super straight and never considered romance with another female or even a threesome with a guy and other girl  but a date tonight left me a bit confused  

... and I don't want to be dominated by women or men.

i luvs me some providers in their 20's.  i luvs spanking their little butts until they sit on my lap and promise to be good girls and then slip down between my legs and...

You are who you are. You can see new experiences as change and transformation, or you can see them as discovery an revelation about who you've always been. And the only difference is how you feel about it. Life is totally the sum of your individual experience of it...and even that isn't an absolute.

yes,we already know
girl on girl is hot and accepted by many
guy on guy not so kosher ...what else is new

To have sex with a male or female robot, on one condition...they passionately, deep French kiss.

I feel very boring after reading your post.

I like hot women. Hot women of all shapes, sizes and ages.

Today I had an interesting talk with my therapist.  

Re: I feel very boring after reading your post.

I totally agree with the "hot" label.  However, I say " label" because "hot" can have different criteria for different people.  My criteria  for hot is set.  In shape, 25-35, 5'5- 5'8, lighter on the bust, a little chatty and definitely sense of humor.  Do I stray from that criteria?  Oh hell yes!  I NEED to now and then.  It keeps me honest and on my toes

It can be two or three at a time but I love woman!
This is just my thing and love enjoying my time with them, especially the experience ones. Lol
Also I am into passionate sex with a woman and not into any pain for either one of us.

next up .... threesome !

She doesn't consider herself bi, just a woman who at times enjoys the intimate company of other women. No interest in living with or having a relationship with another woman. We have a couple of friends that she sexes with at times. Other times we see them and nothing happens.

I think mmf threesomes where the guys are bi are HOT.  I'd love to have both my  male threesome  buddies together.  But one of them is scared of the other.  Lmao wouldn't work  But,  your sexual tastes will evolve with age. What flips your switch today may not 10 years from now.  I used to love being a dominatrix ,  going to swingers clubs and having orgies.  Now I really love romantic dates.  Even in my personal life my cuddle buddy is a gay man (supah hot) &  he is so sweet and romantic.   He is also a cross dresser and does makeup so beautifully. Sadly he is moving to Florida.  😕

physiology, chemistry, psychology, genetics, and who the hell knows what else.

I don't believe in absolutes. They may exist for us individually but don't across society.  Obvious and in full view, MM and FF.  

there is simply too much we don't know we don't know.

that's exactly what happens here every time you post.  Hmmmm.......

....I stopped trying to figure it out a long time ago. Instead I just "go with my flow", wherever it takes me (hopefully into a hot ladies boudoir!

I was with men for most of my teens and early twenties, trying to fit a round peg into a square hole (innuendo intended!). Once I came to terms with my lust for women, there was no turning back.  
Although I'm not fond of labels, I would consider myself 99% lesbian (yes there is a 1% male audience out there that can ring my bell, but they are truly unicorns.)

At least, that's what numerous psychological studies have found.  I also definitely think that women are more fluid with their sexuality than men...go to a bar and watch all the ladies go into the bathroom together...but the men always go by themselves.  And then there's me.  A naked male will send me running, but get a feminine transsexual into the room with me, and I'm ready to suck her cock, swallow her cum, and take it up the ass.  Oh, I should note there's one instance in which I would not run from a naked male.  If a female friend wants to try double penetration, I'm game to be part of the party...as long as the swords don't cross.  After all, how can I expect women to do FFM threesomes with me, if I won't return the favor when they want MMF?

I've posted this before, but it is a great little video blog that I love. It is especially great to pss on to those who might not understand the differences between sexuality and gender identity.  

Protect the inheritance.

By the way, where was that meet and greet?  I think I recall seeing the guy on the left with the dagger

Sorry, just being a wise ass.  (Philosophy major, you know.8o)

It's kind of funny that some people say that just because a person who enjoys sex occasionally with her own gender couldn't be bi because they don't want to marry them or have an LTR. Sorry - but if you enjoy sex with both genders, relationship or not....YOU ARE BISEXUAL.

Nope I'm in charge... end of the message  

to fornicate is to have sexual intercourse.  Sexual intercourse is the reproductive act - the act of inserting a penis into a vagina..... So... by definition, you CAN only fornicate with females assuming that you are a male.