She just is pissed she let one get away because she didn't keep up with her email.

Screw it.

" Why does she care if she and i don't meet up"


Same reason I don't wonder why regulars are often slow, or not at all giving references .

She cares because she has a stripper mentality.

These are words people use to get you on the defensive when they don’t have fucking thing to say and they are wrong. It is like your boss telling you you have bad attitude or something like that.

She cares because she needs the $ and nothing else.

well you might ask her, she knows, BUT.....

in addition to some of the above comments:

1) she would rather blame you than her own business practices for lost opportunity costs due to your moving on

2) i've noticed that a few ladies in the biz seem to have a very sensitive ego, almost as sensitive as a guy's when you do something like "move on" they can get testy and irritable because it challenges their vanity. in this regard, some ladies prefer doormats both as clients and as friends.

the sheer numbers of folks seen can often cause a client or provider to start on a head trip that is difficult to avoid. most of the trouble and bad communication in the hobby result IMO from letting it feed the ego overmuch. to be fair, there be head trippin' on both sides of the envelope.