A bloke emailed me today wanting to meet. He says he *requires* GFE, and wants to know if I have a half hour rate. I'm gonna go out on a limb and assume this fellow is not a part of our TER community... haha.

I am sure we all have different interpretations of what GFE means... BUT I think in general it could be said to be non-rushed, not robotic... at the very least.

So I have to wonder how this guy thinks I am going to pack all the wonderfulness that is MY personal style of GFE into a half hour? And no, I don't even have a half-hour rate. I don't want to ever do a rushed half-hour session. Does this guy own a clock?? An hour meeting goes by so quickly... I can't imagine doing half hours.

Either this guy is a true minute-man and doesn't really care about the GFE experience, or he is gonna try to stretch his "half-hour" into a longer time. That's my first assumption, anyway. Oh yeah, and he wants me to drive an hour to his place for this half-hour GFE encounter. HA!!

Oh hell know!! It would take me that long to remove my face from your pussy!!!
What's wrong with the guy, is he blind!!!

1/2 hour gfe is a real thing.  Think it through,  refer to the above post on SO.  fun quick and hot is nice some of my best memories are the hot sweaty sex years ago with to SO that happened on the spur of the mement.  now asking for a 1/2 hour outcall is just being an ass.  But I do understand the GFE part.

Spending less than at least two hours with a woman like you! The guy is nuts. I'd probably spend at least 15 minutes looking at that incredible body, and another 15-20 running my hands all over it.

Tell him you "require" to charge for the trip and make the half hour donation worth your while.

But I think you hit the nail on the head when you said he is possibly planning to stretch it into an hour and expect to only pay for a half. Any simple solution has other lasting effects.

great post..therein lies the difference between gfe and pse..gfe sessions are non-rushed intimate affairs designed to explore each other..they are rarely accomplished in a half hour..i schedule half hour pse sessions with some porn stars on a regular basis..it is more economical..it is hard core sex from start to finish..there is no time to cuddle or chat..they have their style..you have yours..you try to make your session personal..personal is the last thing they want..different strokes for different folks..

Everybody loves to argue over the true meaning of GFE.
In this instance, as is true in most cases, it is utterly meaningless.
It has no meaning because there is no authoritative source in which
to look up the definition.
St Bart tried to "define" GFE many years ago and he and his followers
got raked over the coals by those who said "Oh, no, that's not what
GFE means to ME".

Your bloke says he "requires" GFE. You take that to mean he wants
an affectionate, non-rushed, personal session, and therefore ridiculous
to try to provide in 30 minutes.
Maybe all he means is that he wants DFK and BBBJ. That is one "definition"
of GFE.

“When I use a word,” Humpty Dumpty said, in rather a scornful tone, “it means just what I choose it to mean—neither more nor less.”
   “The question is,” said Alice, “whether you can make words mean so many different things.”
   “The question is,” said Humpty Dumpty, “which is to be master, that’s all.”

of my gal pal from London. I agree with you on the half hour gfe...seems like an oxymoron. I can't even get a full gfe feel in an hour. He wants the acronyms associated with a gfe, but does not want to pay the gfe rate...that's what he meant to say ha ha.

Easy solution. Tell him you only provide a GPE and leave it at that.

Including, a small talk, a sip of wine, a fast DFK, speedy Daty, One O, a flash bbbj, one in and out penetration, a pop, a shower and a goodbye kiss all these in 30 minutes. Perfect for premature ejaculators!

Quickie-GFE an idea for BP girls!

And you will be off your way!

He has been a regular of mine for about 4 years, maybe more. Really great guy in every sense. His first few sessions with me were hour-long sessions in the beginning. Then we started scheduling him for half-hours, because he usually pops within LITERALLY 30 seconds to a minute after contact is made with the little head.

Even in a half hour I can still get very GFE with this sweet guy, and I do... lots of cuddling and all that good stuff. Awww!

BUT as I said he is a long-time regular and we know each other's routines during the session, so the arrangement has worked out well for both of us in this particular case.

Now with a NEW client, I just can't see turning the GFE on like a light switch for a quickie half hour. That's just my style. I like to have AT LEAST a full, un-rushed hour to make a man feel like a KING!

- Carmen Sinclair

that I would not drive an hour for a half-hour appointment without a small additional "travel fee", he never emailed back.

I have many British friends so sometimes I have been known to adopt some of their linguistic variations.

- Carmen

I like to book 1.5 hours for first meetings...  my favorite ladies, we can get it all in an hour.  A half???  Have to rip the clothes off...  probably spend a half hour getting our clothes back on right.  Only time for a quicky1