Here's my problem, I've been seeing this Chinese apartment massage girl for about 4+years.

Initially it was strictly massage, but then after my second visit she offered sex at the end of the massage. I've always left her a tip for the extra service, sometimes she's accepted and sometimes she has refused the extra tip.

She's a nice lady, and we end up talking quite a lot, she's always giving me small gifts, food that she's cooked etc but now after 4+yrs, she's stopped the massages and seems only interested in sex, but the sex now SUCKS, I would like to go back to just getting  massages from her.

So, would it be appropriate for me to tell her that I'm only interested in massages from here on out, or do I just ride off into the sunset.

i am a firm believer in vocalizing my wants/needs.  just make sure you do it in a proper way.  you definitely don't want to hint that her sex is bad cause that will probably end all interaction.  maybe something along the lines of..  

"i really miss your massages.  you give the best massage i've ever had."

or

"my body needs a good rub down from those magic hands of yours."

or

"i've been craving your touch."

whatever it is that you chose to say..  just make sure you up-play/flatter the massage and stay away from the sex topic.  us girls can get really cranky when we feel like we can't satisfy a man.

Imagine a horse then riding into the sunset. Oh.... and your on it. rofl

Or perhaps your cheery disposition might suggest he is riding you.
Ha e a great day,
Doc

I love massage.

I've also met many an escort who starts off giving me a great massage, and then some sex.  Long about six months into the relationship the massage begins to dwindle followed by lots of great sex, then no massage but OK sex, then....Oh well, you get the idea.

A few gals I know really to love to give massages.  In fact, the last gal I saw gave me a fantastic massage for an hour.  (See my last review.)

Those are the gals who are keepers.

By the way, there was a whole Seinfeld episode about this very thing.  Jerry is dating a massage therapist who just wants to have sex, but has no interest in giving Jerry a massage.  I cringe everytime I see that episode.