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Ladies, what would you do if a client shows up and he is a high school classmate?
marc19020 2439 reads
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Even after screening him, maybe he has a common name, he shows up and you recognize him from your high school days. How awkward would that be? :)

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josulli1168 reads

I'm a lot older than any provider.. but I was on a trip out of town and out of State and made a date with a very well regarded provider in that area.. she showed up and it turns out that we both were from the same small town area of the midwest.. very probable that our families crossed paths and we enjoyed talking about old haunts .. BTW .. we were thousands of miles away from where we both were from..  the population of the  area where we grew up was no more than about 10,000 people.. That was a kick for both of us. and we had a great time.

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SoftlySarah893 reads

it could be totally hot.

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Blowing Chunks807 reads

Did he have absolutely no idea who you were until you actually met for a session?  

I think I recall this story from a few years ago, not sure if same girl

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SuperBustyBlonde952 reads

Yeah the only thing that would be hotter than that is if i was a high school teacher

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Jacque_Jenesais874 reads

I'm waiting for that shit. Bring it on! Lol

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harborview959 reads

stays behind closed doors!  Both have a lot to lose.  It might be the elephant in the room which neither cares to acknowledge or if the recognition factor is very strong...  once behind the closed door...  both might whisper an agreement like I stated above.   The knowledge is already passed, once you are in the room...  so ending the session before it begins offers no protection.

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FoxyNC755 reads

I won't go into detail, but suffice to say, my neighbor guy (married) tried to procure my services.
Round about way, he knew what I do (how hard is it to recognize with face pics, but the odds of THAT actually happening in such a small area are astronomical, but it happened.)
So instead of canceling, I decided to proceed.
Why the hell would I do that?

Because loose lips sink ships.  
Better for us BOTH to have dirt on eachother than for him to have sole rights to dirt on me.
IOW- make him as guilty as I am, if not worse. (Hey, I ain't married. What's he going to do? Tell my Granny? Pfft. He had better be more worried about his wife.)
And yes, I saved all the damning texts & communications.
CYA.

Side note:
His wife HATES me. She is a dog-phob. Even though my dog died this last year, she still glares at me (because I ignored the leash laws for the first year or so until she called the cops on me. So sorry that I actually let my dog run FREE while on her potty trips outside under supervision.)
Now when I step outside, I just smirk and give a light wave when I see her.
I will NEVER tell, so hopefully, he will have the good sense to keep his mouth shut

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AnotherDonJohn936 reads

From previous posts, it seemed they were screening against this kind of thing happening...

Posted By: marc19020
Even after screening him, maybe he has a common name, he shows up and you recognize him from your high school days. How awkward would that be? :)

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Blowing Chunks1065 reads

that the provider completely forgot about since high school and failed to recognize the name during screening?  

I have at least a dozen relatives that I have not seen since hs/ college and don't remember names to anymore but they do show up randomly at big family events,  such as someone's wedding.   After 20 years it's hard to recognize their faces especially if they gained weight.  

I wonder how awkward it would be to realize that a client turns out to be an uncle or cousin or nephew....  or the real father or grandfather. lol Maybe screening should include a cross reference to ancestry. Com too?

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GaGambler881 reads

I have already warned them to make sure I have recent and accurate photos of them to make sure I don't hit on them if and when I ever meet them as a couple of them are exactly my type.  Truth be told, I didn't even think of the possibility that any of them might provide. Good thing I live almost 2,000 miles away, so I doubt this will ever be an issue.

I don't think I have any worries at all about meeting someone from high school as my high school days where about 40 years ago, and there is no way in hell I am booking with anyone even close to being old enough to have gone to high school with me. Truth be told, their daughters are starting to be too old for me.

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Blowing Chunks962 reads

an older guy and a younger girl, who happens to like older men stumble upon each other at some event
they hit it off well and begin a very steamy romantic journey
she then invites him over to her place one day
when she shows him her family photos,  
he realizes she's his nephew he hasn't seen in 20 years!  

oops. lo

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89Springer930 reads

Cousins, nieces...who cares? ;)

Reminds me of a joke I've probably already told here.

Billy Bob is working on his truck when his buddy Earl arrives. Earl looks pretty down  and dejected.

"What's the matter, Earl?" Billy Bob asks.

"I just had sex with my second cousin," Earl says.

"Dammit, Earl! I told you to stop countin' 'em."

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GaGambler685 reads

I am "from" California, the SF Bay Area to be exact. but with a handle like "GaGambler" I can see why you would get that idea.

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89Springer929 reads

Now I remember you saying words to that effect.

So you're from California, where the Free Love, fuck your sister hippies are still alive and kicking. Maybe it rubbed off on you? ;)

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Tobi Telford886 reads

And that's as far as they've gotten.

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Tobi Telford838 reads

For the bajillionth time, I have my ways of finding out if I'm being lied to. That includes fake names.

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Jinx_The_Cat844 reads

What grade/high school/college did you go to?

What is your mother's/grandmother's/aunt's maiden name?

Who's your daddy?  Oh wait, I think I'm supposed to be asking that one...

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TrulyMsMocha896 reads

...as much as he was familiar to me. He was a bit of a loner.

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TiffanyDelight694 reads

But if he remembers me as a crush he had in high school, we'll both be happy;-)
I was a bit of a fun girl back then.  I bet they miss me!  lol
Bring it boys...Xo's

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mongerjerry751 reads

once picked up a SW who was the daughter of my high school guidance counselor.  Don't remember how we got on the subject but when she found out what town I was from, she asked me what letter of the alphabet my last name began with.  When I told her, she said her dad was my counselor and she told me his name.   Wonder what career advice he gave his daughter that led her to turning tricks on the street corner?

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