And I encourage you to have an open mind to see a somewhat different point of view..
Political Correctness will allow those who are shy amongst us to speak their mind and voice their opinions. What can be said rudely can also be said in a nicer manner.. Don't you feel that way, Ms Ova? And there you go. I just said it like it is.. I called you beautiful.**GUYS - Please do not respond on this post.. I am only looking for ladies' perspective**
**If you DO intend to respond, please at least be respectful, and no name calling**
So I use the term "fuck buddy" can that encompass a person whom I converse with on array of topics on what is called a "fuck board". Now, I do not like the term fuck board. I think its downright mean and offensive. I would rather use Internet board for adult lifestyle, or Naughty-Board. So if I say that a person of same gender is my "fuck buddy" would that be inappropriate, especially if there are no bromantic feelings involved here. Would this get me banned by TER? I don't want to get banned from this place.
Also, if its a woman whom I intend to engage in coitus with, can I use the term "fuck buddy" simply by virtue of talking with her on this website, or would that be crossing the line..
Another question - Is brain fucking and fucking someone's brains out the same thing? I don't want to get this mixed..
Again, please be respectful. It took me 2 hrs to type this up, and clean up all the typos, grammatical errors and run-ons. This is because I don't want to get picked on for grammar, spellings etc..
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1. "Fuck buddy" is a well established term that refers to an NSA sexual relationship. P4P doesn't count, as there are 'purse-strings' attached to this arrangement. You're welcome to attempt to redefine "fuck buddy" but it's doubtful you'll gain any traction (if you call me "fuck buddy?" = my fist, your face).
2. Brain fucking is NOT the same as fucking brains out. The first is literal, the second, metaphor.
while I have not committed any crime yet.
Banning should only be reserved for those who use derogatory language and call each other names. I was merely inquiring about the proper language and etiquette on the boards so as to present myself in the most respectable manner.
But why the violence?
If it is merely the facade of Skeletor that makes you feel I am not a gentleman, then I can understand you feeling that way. I just have liking for the character that I grew up watching. Its merely a moniker. I think if you get to know me in person, you will develop a liking for me.
I will not call you fuck buddy in that case. I am not sure, however, if other gentlemen on this site feel the same way about the term. May I just call you a mate then?
But if the courtesan says that she really likes to copulate with me, does that not constitute as a fuck buddy relationship...Because we are buddies now. Buddy, as I understand, is a common term used in American English to denote friendship.
Can someone please give me example of what brain fucking is, and how its dissimilar to fucking brains out? I have learned better in the past with examples.
I would more like ladies' perspective.
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Brain fucking comes up with some really weird porn, or maybe you meant "mind fuck"? Which is where you're kinda just left confused and asking "what the fuck...?" About a situation.
"Fucking someone's brains out" generally denotes that you've just had crazy good sex. If it literally happens you've probably gone too far.
And while a woman can certainly enjoy her clients, "fuck buddy" is usually reserved for someone who's doing it for free. It's still a cute term if you want to use it though, I think.
In that case, I am wondering to myself what would be appropriate term to use for a board buddy with whom I converse about naughty things, and who is of male gender. The other day, I sent something off to couple of guys and didn't receive any response. Perhaps I crossed the line.
I would like to learn the lingo, but its just that I find it hard to use the word Fuck in sentence. I mean its OK to do it on Internet, but I can't get myself to say it in person. I am wondering where I can practice this. I am somewhat shy..
Ok, a fuck buddy is: if you are only getting together for sex and that's it. NO payment, NO appointment, NO screening/ reviews/ website, etc; just call each other up when horny, preferably after 9:30pm on a weeknight and maybe 2 or 3am on the weekends. Get together, fuck, and then go away. Fuck buddy. I can really like to fuck someone, but if I tell him that and then still require a payment or stipulations on the relationship, he isn't my fuck buddy. He is just dick I have baited to get what I want. From a fuck buddy, I truly would just want to fuck.
Brain fucking I don't know. IF you mean mind fuck, well it once was described to me in this world as exceeding expectations or doing above and beyond any hooker has done before to blow his mind instead of actually fucking a client. As in you were so mind fucked by her appearance, body, incall, or whatever the extraneous BS is, that you paid for 2 hours and only got a BJ out of it and are ok with that, you have basically been mind fucked.
IF someone fucks my brains out, which can happen, I probably can't think straight, am probably immensely satisfied, came a lot, which is wonderful and overwhelming, and well damn it was probably really good. I wouldn't call making sweet sweet love with your ATF as fucking her brains out, it usually implies something more aggressive and primal; actual fucking would have to occur to fuck a girl's brains out.
For your insight.. I see that you particularly chose a latter time for weekends, because most people stay up late on weekends, while go to bed early on weekdays.. Correct.. But then again if its someone who works on weekends and is home weekdays then that would throw off this fuck-buddy relationship, especially if his counterpart works regular schedule like most people.
Mind fucking is what I meant really. But my brain got so messed up cleaning the typos and such, that I totally misplaced the word..
However, I have question for you. Why do you think my post was BS. BS, as I understand, is abbreviation for bullshit, which in turn doesn't mean actual feces of bull, but means something that is fake or untruthful. Why do you think my post lacks integrity?
I would certainly love to fuck someone's brains out some day..
My father doesn't own a laptop, but a custom built Desktop, while my mother frequents Internet using a tablet.
Even though you have currently received 3 likes on your post, I am not one of them..
Although your response is similar to that of Ms Jaye and Ms Charlie, you were much harsher in your use words. We all should use our words carefully, as they do hurt..
Lets hope when we talk again, you will be much nicer.. Perhaps I caught you on a bad day, and if that's the case, I sincerely apologize.
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with that gesture of kindness..
Now it adds up my likes to 2, and yours to 4 as I gave you a like as well.
and I have no affiliation with them, but I did stop by their campus once on my way to somewhere just to defecate.
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You are losing your good manners FAST! I wish my baby was here, he's take care of your nonsense. and he would never defecate on the lawn like you. He knows how to wipe and goes front to back with extra strong Charmin because he's a manly man who treats the ladies well.
I don't know how I could mistaken you for him. I wish that lil scamp would come back real soon.
Could you please "like" my post. I feel that the more likes I get, this post will stand out and we can have better discussion.
I thank you for exercising restrain. That's good judgement and good karma.
Stop trying to be Freud. Is that his name?
Don't wander into those lonely places.
I won't judge you. Who am I to judge?
The exception proves the rule.
You are so respectful and always think about the proper way to say things. That's my Roddy!
Now, fucking a gals brains out and brain fucking aren't the same thing. The first one you are shaking up her pretty lil head so much with your manly thrusts that her brains fall out.
Brain fucking could mean skull fucking OR it could mean you are fucking with someone's head. Now the whole fuck buddy guy thing, um no don't call a guy that even if he's your board bud here. A woman who is a fuck buddy...you have to be having sex with her, thus the whole FUCK thing. If you can make booty calls, hang out ect then she may be a fuck buddy. A gal you talk to here that you aren't fucking is a fuck BOARD buddy, not a fuck buddy.
Now you've made mamma say FUCK way too much trying to get you straight on this. I need to take a bath now to feel clean again after saying FUCK so much. Rub-a-dub-dub!
First of all, my name is not Roddy. I do understand the differences now, but your language not so suitable for a lady to use. Now, I did have a beer once, with a biker girl, and you sound like her. She wanted to arm wrestle me. I didn't feel very comfortable and had to leave the bar.
Yes, your son, Cuba Gooding Jr, just landed a role in the movie to play O.J. Simpson.
Back in the days, O.J. Simpson was a Running Back with Buffalo Bills and then with 49ers, who was acquitted of murder in 1995.
Cuba's mama, is your son going to have issues playing such complex and controversial character?
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And how dare you talk about my language when you brought up the whole fuck thing in the first place?
It took me two hours to put together my thoughts to explain all of this to you!!!
I am glad he got to see the money. Its after all not smart to run around naked in the locker room showing your bum to your agent asking for MONEY..
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And not one word about his protruding buttocks!
I only sound gayish, but I am pretty straight (I think) only enjoying fornication with my female counterparts.
Did you mean to say you are insulted by political incorrectness?
And I encourage you to have an open mind to see a somewhat different point of view..
Political Correctness will allow those who are shy amongst us to speak their mind and voice their opinions. What can be said rudely can also be said in a nicer manner.. Don't you feel that way, Ms Ova?
And there you go. I just said it like it is.. I called you beautiful.
I had a black friend who asked why us white folks called her African American. She's not African American. She's black American. She said it in a funny matter, but it made sense.
If you think about it, calling someone something other than what they are, somewhat tells them there is some sort of shame in it.
It's like starting a sentence, and while you're talking, you're continually having to figure out how to use loop holes in your descriptions so you don't offend. When in reality, most aren't offended.
Too much energy. I had someone approach me and referred to her gay friend as LGBTQ. That gay friend would call it gay, I assure you. Why not? Why go out of your way to be over appropriate, dumbing down words that don't define things properly.
If I was a Lesbian, I wouldn't call myself LGBTQ. I'd either say I'm gay or I'm a lesbian. Otherwise I'm adding acronyms that cause confusion.
I'm not a lesbian, I just like tits.
Political Correctness will allow those who are shy amongst us to speak their mind and voice their opinions. What can be said rudely can also be said in a nicer manner.. Don't you feel that way, Ms Ova?
And there you go. I just said it like it is.. I called you beautiful.
My personal view on Fbuddy, etc..
So, I know that respect is the key cornerstone of my business; therefore I would not do or say anything that might jeopardize that standard. That would include the use of terms that could be construed as derogatory when referring to anyone in business. The problem with being careless with language is that most people judge you based on your communication skills, words used and how you refer to others.
For me language is definitely used to screen clients, if the person uses (even somewhat) vulgar language or can’t spell, not only do I consider them common, -but I know they usually are looking for more of a PSE and I don’t provide that…
You are free to use whatever language you want, but be very weary of the effect it would have on the other person. If a person is too open or liberal with their language or ideas with me, I find it off putting. If they use bad language around me, I consider it bad manners and disrespectful.
Someone who uses foul language or is careless in speech in general is not a person I would want as a client. I think it’s important to feel comfortable with a person, but I don’t get lines blurred- there is still a boundary.
My ideal client understands our appointment is meant for mutual pleasure, and starts the process by acting like a gentleman and referring to the Hobby and other Providers as ladies.
I think its fun to talk dirty in bed, and obviously the appointment has certain requirements, but I wouldn’t want someone to call me F-buddy to my face.
I am your Provider, your baby, (insert another term of endearment),…
Most of my clients don’t like to feel rushed or like they P4P.
To pleasure is to revere.
Clients prefer me to refer to them as my honey or baby… ..Rather than Pay-Master, sponsor or Sugardaddy.
Why sully the experience by bringing in a whole bunch or familiarity or truths that don’t need to be there? Especially when you don’t know how the other person would take it?
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Please try to understand my conundrum. I have been labelled somewhat of a "softie" by the peers. They always used to pull down my pants in the gym class. I want to become that tough guy and still want to remain classy and a gentleman.
I believe that using some tough language will help me get the best of both worlds..
Also, given my current posts, do you think you will approve me for a date or disapprove me?
Hmmm... I think I would be more apt to consider the thoughts of the ladies that have pulled down your pants rather than the lads and the posts...
Send me your referrals and we'll see...
xoxo
But women were not allowed to be in our locker room. So women didn't really pull down my pants. Only bullies did. Guys... Well mostly..
you are engaged in an effort to create a Tidwellian Society...that's damned funny!
I hope I am allowed to use your moniker with a capital H, although you have spelled it otherwise.
Please let me know what the word, "Tidwellan" stands for. My Google Chrome underlined it with a squiggly Red Line, thus indicating that its not yet accepted in the English Lexicon.
We are good Skeletor.
(Everyone know he was gay right?)
I mean.. He had it bad for He MAN. HE WAS DEFINITELY GAY!
Cmon" people! Watch the cartoon!
Our Skeletor is super gay.... Just my guess.
But you over there seem to be engaging in a monologue. While a part of me is a little worried about you, a part of me wants to leave you alone.
...but whoever you are, I think you can do better.
I suggest you get together with some of your buddies to brainstorm - and FYI, that's not the same as fucking each others' brains out. Though hey, we are on the Naughty Board, and that would certainly give you something naughty to post about next time...
You know better. Why are you acting like such a dick?
I am confused at your statement of I know "better".. What do I know better? Please expand on your thinking, so I may be able to respond in a manner that helps us understand each other.
Good communication is the key to avoiding unnecessary conflicts.
Justify it anyway you want.
Everyone sees through your crap. Honesty becomes handshakes
Just sayi
I not a laddy but then you said you looking for the same sex so I replying. If you ment some one else side of here that on board talk to them in person before posting on this board.
**If you DO intend to respond, please at least be respectful, and no name calling**
So I use the term "fuck buddy" can that encompass a person whom I converse with on array of topics on what is called a "fuck board". Now, I do not like the term fuck board. I think its downright mean and offensive. I would rather use Internet board for adult lifestyle, or Naughty-Board. So if I say that a person of same gender is my "fuck buddy" would that be inappropriate, especially if there are no bromantic feelings involved here. Would this get me banned by TER? I don't want to get banned from this place.
Also, if its a woman whom I intend to engage in coitus with, can I use the term "fuck buddy" simply by virtue of talking with her on this website, or would that be crossing the line..
Another question - Is brain fucking and fucking someone's brains out the same thing? I don't want to get this mixed..
Again, please be respectful. It took me 2 hrs to type this up, and clean up all the typos, grammatical errors and run-ons. This is because I don't want to get picked on for grammar, spellings etc..
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**If you DO intend to respond, please at least be respectful, and no name calling**
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I had to explain some very basic things about fuck buddies, fucking someone's brain out not being the same as brain fucking. He's MountainPEWS first cousin.
My intentions were just to facilitate constructive discussion with ladies, and thought that if the guys would refrain from it, it would be work in everyone's best interest. The Gentlemen here tend to use very harsh language sometimes, and I get easily offended.
I do like your handle. Are you fond of the movie, Perfect Storm? Is that how you came up with that moniker. The one with Mr. Clooney (who BTW got married, I heard).. Hmmmm Clooney....
I would like to be friends with you Mr. Storm, but can we please not use harsh language such as "fuckhead" and whatnot...
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I think u mean skull fucking. That's when the woman lays on her back with her head hanging upside down off the edge of the bed, and the dude is standing and fucks her face. Skull fucking;p
If u call a guy your fuck buddy, he will probably want to kick your ass...or, if he's gay, then he might want to do other things to your ass. Hehe.
I don't really like the term, but everyone chooses the way in which they speak. I try myself to avoid vulgar language in my day to day life so I can't imagine enjoying the phrase. I would rather be your secret lover, or your "lady of the night"
Why would any girl want to be used by a guy like that. The ones I know who have done it eventually feel used. May be younshould stick to married women whose hubby's don't fuck them anymore and looking for only that in their life.