It is true in life as well.. not JUST in the hobby.. but if you walk into an appointment expecting us to fly around the ceiling for you and to be off the top amazing.. it is likely you will end up disappointed. Nobody is ever what you have expected entirely.. sometimes the experience is better and sometimes not so good but always different. Expect to have a fun time and then hopefully the door of possibilities will be cracked open for magic and miracles.  It is true that the more you both bring TO the dance, the more the setting becomes ripe for the transcendental yumm stuff.

I know my intent every time is to rock your world if I CAN.. as well as have my world rocked... but I am lucky because I get off on being used. I eroticize the whole spectrum of sexual encounters.. from the being adored and taken care of, to the sweet and romantic, to the dirty and rufffff, to the just being a piece of sexual meat to be used used used and cum dumped on and then kicked to the curb.

Cause I get off on using men. I can't deny myself.

I have had a string of such high level experiences by carefully using the tools TER provides to find ladies who will likely be a good "match". I have not had a regrettable experience using TER. So I have a very positive and hopeful attitude going into a sesison with a new lady.

I hope for good communication, mutual comfort, and an honest and caring effort on the part of the lady. I hope to receive pleasure and to be able to give to her satisfaction as well. I present myself the best way I can  for the appointment.

I do not "prescript" a session in my mind or have a checklist of acronyms that will decide my level of pleasure, nor do I condition my response to a lady based on her appearance. If I have learned anything from hobbying here in the US, it is that ladies with a wide variety of physical characteristics are able to "rock my world".

If there is any one thing that "does" it for me, regardless of all other factors, it is if the lady is able to express (well, or mimic) passion. The exchange of passion is what "gets me off" more than anything else.

I get off when women use me like a piece of raw sexual meat. They beat it bite it knead it and gnaw it. Eventually, I growl like a primal beast and everybody is happy. Who wants to deny anything?

A squeaky clean attitude is all anyone needs to make their fantasies melt into reality.  Throw in a twist of naughty, dirty kink...you're there baby!

Warmly,
Reagan

the quality of open and positive attitude you invest into another person is often repaid. A sort of karma of social interaction.

I have found that most providers are highly sensitized to client attitude. I suppose this is both an important relational skill and a survival adaption. Providers are more likely to consistently sense and return my positive and relaxed attitude than are "civvies".

Based on conversations I have had with providers over the years, skepticism is very difficult to deal with in the hobby context.....  and of course hostility or disregard is totally untenable.

I go into a new date with few expectations...  no preplanned agenda.  I want to have a good time & finish what we start.  How & when that happens is immaterial.
skb

I have learned to use TER to find what fits me best. Also I love it when its the first time I've seen the girl and to see the joy in her eyes when I drop my pants Yeah Baby lets Rock and Roll. LOL

falling in love over, and over, and over, one evening at a time. So far, so good!

You were reading my mind.

The pressure sometimes that we are supposed to be ALL things to ALL people is unrealistic.

Not to mention, fantasy rarely translates to reality exactly as imagined...in almost anything...no matter how good or accomodating anyone is.  You have a better chance of that happening when two people know each other fairly well I think, but on a first time meeting??  Doubtful...

But if anyone is going to TRY to do everything in her power to be what someone wants her to be, I know that girl is you...

Much love my sister,

xoM

Are these kind of posts for real or are they just attempts at veiled self-advertising?

The best way to get what you want, is to want what you get.

Nice post Bebe.

GTM,

I've read quite a few of your posts, and many times, you have a way with words.

When that door opens up, I really don't have many expectations.  What I hope for is that we have enough mutual comfort that we ease into things, and let things go where they're going to go.  If she's in an animalistic mood, I can accomodate that.  If she's had a bad day and wants a more soothing, comfortable time....I'm there for that, too.

If the lady trusts me enough that *I* can fulfill whatever her needs are at the time as well (and she'll fulfill mine in that time, too, believe me), then I am a happy man.

probably no good way to separate the two without excessive moderation of the board.

I walk into an appointment with a great deal of curiosity and I am never disappointed with what I find.

I'm sure there is quite a bit of pressure to pull off the impossible and be everything to every guy. But some folks are okay with a wide range of possibilities as well.

Speaking only for myself, I know my imagination is vivid and hurtles onward like a runaway train. But even if the engineer shunts the train onto a spur of track the passenger hadn't expected, the scenery can still be just as pretty and the trip just as fun. And sooner or later, the engineer is still likely to make that old whistle blow.

... so to speak...

In doing thorough research before setting up the date. I feel I have an idea that my lady of choice offers what I am after. Once I arrive or she arrives I don't think about what was in the past, or what maybe in that specific date.
I trust my decisions and I trust the lady to be a lady.

Would a date be different if I ask (pre Script) for this or that? Yes. Would it be better? Who knows.

Most definately...

Certainly that is a quality I appreciate in you.

It may seem cliche, but I agree that the real treasures lie in the unexpected.

xoM

Bebe is one of the very best providers in the business. She's a great person too

And to think I was practicing my triple backwards flip from making a perfect martini and not spilling it while I land on the bed, as well as doing the splits up and down on his hard member while pumping, and . . . changing the look of my face and body with just a twinkle of my nose. Bewitched I am not. But I think I provide a memorable experience. I hope.

Thanks for the post.

Hugs,
Ciara

But shoot! I'll do a script. It's fun role playing, as long as the expectations are not already there, only to be diminished with just an "excellent" rating.

Hugs,
Ciara

First off, I am picky. I'll tell what I'm told. I'm 41 but look younger. I get carded for booze and cigs where they don't know me.

Well, and the fact that I might be getting older but refuse to grow up, might figure into the equation?!

But the fact of the matter is, I want to feel young again. And if that means spending time with ladies I'm used to being with when I was in my 20's, then since that's choice and my $, then who can fault me?

Don't get me wrong! There are quite a few ladies I would LOVE to be with that can remember where they were when John Lennon or Ronald Reagan got shot.

But if they could tell me what they did when KENNEDY got shot? I draw the line!

Anyway, I'm sure you think I'm a piece of work by now. But I'm trying to be honest, to the best of my abilities.

I can't speak for everyone, but when I go to Vegas, I try to spend time with a younger lady than I.

Just personal preference, and a few levels.

Does this help?

Mike