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I am working on switching from girlfriends to providers.
CptnKirk 141 reads
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I am working on switching from girlfriends to providers.  They are so hot and not psycho. (I think) Thanks for all your advice.  It just seems wierd not to take a girl in and show her a part of my life beyond the raw physical side.  I am used to sharing adventures and it seems odd to pay for a woman to do something with me that she really would want to do anyway. Or do I just skip everything but the sex?  
    Oh, and on the Green chick - she was hot but I really want Uhura.  You never know until you try a green one.

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Here is a weird one.  I have a wife that I love, two girlfriends that I like, and I still see providers.  Is this common among clients?  I think I prefer the providers to the girlfriends because they are hotter and they don’t go psycho.  Sorry for the alias on this one.

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charlottesweet182 reads

Yeah, really? How was she?

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GaGambler203 reads

your point about the girlfriends vs the providers makes your own case for you.

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eyeluv2look134 reads

wife (too expensive to get rid of) but why bother with the girl friends? Pay as you play thats the best way!:)

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johngaltnh131 reads

Indeed!  Girlfriends=drama. Drama ultimately equals MAJOR trouble!

This is one part of the "girl friend experience" that one could definitely live without!




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Blarharse173 reads

What the dilly?  If you're banging providers on the side, why put up with any bs from any girlfriends on the side?  If they're (a) not as hot as the providers and (b) not providing the raw transactional sex as well as the providers, why continue to cheat with them?

If you're married and still in the hobby, I can't imagine any reason to risk your marriage by cheating with less attractive, less sexually-available civilians.  

In other words, your risk/reward ratio is higher than it needs to be and I.don't.get.it.

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MarkusKetterman122 reads

other than that, I have been in exactly that situation quite a few times, though now I am between girlfriends altogether...... I say between because that state of affairs has never lasted very long in the past.

Rock on!

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belindabell135 reads

Many guys are in the hobby for the variety!  You are not so weird.

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CptnKirk142 reads

I am working on switching from girlfriends to providers.  They are so hot and not psycho. (I think) Thanks for all your advice.  It just seems wierd not to take a girl in and show her a part of my life beyond the raw physical side.  I am used to sharing adventures and it seems odd to pay for a woman to do something with me that she really would want to do anyway. Or do I just skip everything but the sex?  
    Oh, and on the Green chick - she was hot but I really want Uhura.  You never know until you try a green one.

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Dr. joe145 reads

I love my wife, and adore my GF.  I have a lot of friends with benefits and love seeing providers, but my GF is jealous so I have not seen any friends with benefits for a year and a half and only one provider, but it is getting hard (no pun) o refrain from providers.  

This should all calm down pretty soon: I am 67, though my fsther ws frisky until he died at 80.

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StripclubPatron125 reads

who may be willing to give it up...   all work the same club... sheese... ever since I quit worrying about if they would date me, it just is a lot easier... heck, I just want the sex... it is sooo hot.

I really hope they don't accidently stumble across the connection.  I could be toast.  Please excuse the alias... but it was necessary for obvious reasons.

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