I have one bf... He leaves crazy messages. "cant wait to see you sat. Balls deep!, ATM!"  
he jokes when we are together and says things like remember what I said your working for me now!
we joke around back n forth pretty hard. I smack him repeatedly in face when we fuck and I am on top!
    The way he does it all his tone he is so funny! The messages are so funny. He loves to say "balls deep."  .. I had another fuck buddy civvie. He at one time would pick me up and drop me off to hotels in a black leather jacket and he is this smokn hot tony soprano esque italian stallion.We discussed how it made him look and us feel like he is a pimp and how he figured that probly makes me all horny. Sometimes there s something hot about the guy being in control and you are his little fuck toy sex slave whore cum slut just the thought and role playing a bit in that way.  
 Then sometimes its just fun to smack a guy across the face while your ridin him. and say how you like that huh? huh? you want to get knocked around little bitch? then bend his legs behind his head and fuck him like a bitch with your strap on.  
 The balls deep guy he is also  full blooded italian and smoking hot.  
I like being the bitch in charge. But i like the scenerio where i am a cowering frightened little girl getting taken advantage of by this overpowering alpha male thats gonna just come n take me.  
ok now your fav scenerios!
I bet alot guys will say school girl scenerio. i hate that one . its boring.  
The balls deep guy only likes  hard core pse .

Bet you'd like to slap The Dungbeetle this hard.
PS: Based on this post and the ones below, you are as horny as a rutting minx today.  Wish I was there.  Sounds like you need to make a booty call.


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WOW..i think the roles should be reversed..you write dirty shit better than most of the reviewers on here..i would love you to be my " fuck toy sex slave whore cum slut "..most of the guys i know cannot bring it like you do..love you Angel. you have cum a long way..

It's kind of a very sad back story, but she told me it was the only way she could come.

I'm not a real dominant kind of guy, but I am warming to the idea of being smacked around or whipped myself by a stern mistress who will reward me with some kinky stuff in due time.

She secretly posts all that dumb shit he says (his posts are ads).

There is a lot to the type of "power play" you are talking about.  For some it can be a fun play time.  For some it is a lifestyle choice.  For some it can cross the line into abuse.  The key is two consenting adults that have fun together.  In the escort world it is difficult to move beyond "play time" as deeper levels of play require much deeper levels of trust.  If you have built that with your regulars...more power to you! (pun intended)

by how one can switch from a dominate position to a submissive one?

I see that switch as someone having a preferred position(either dom or sub), but then, depending on whom they are with and the dynamic, feel comfortable switching. Kind of like bisexuality, the grey area between heterosexuality and homosexuality.

There are many people for whom switching is a natural state! I'd get bored being in the dominant role all the time or being in the submissive role all the time. (Although there are definitely people out there who do pick one role and stick to it). Kink is so much more than just the D type and s type interaction- the dynamics between two (or more!) kinksters are incredibly varied and subtle, and can sometimes change at the drop of a hat.

For reading this. Angel's stream of consciousness is both oddly entertaining and makes my head hurt.

I don't understand why a person would want to switch?

Some people are bi but have a leaning toward one sex in particular. I would hesitate to say many ladies who are bisexual in this game lean more toward men but if a type of woman that they were attracted to came along, she would happily indulge.  

is just that.  A preferred way of approaching something.  It does not mean I ALWAYS approach something the same way.

Robin,

Was an intricate part of the experience.

you can't use analogies to explain something, it never works

It is, if power exchange is the experience you're talking about. It doesn't *always* have to be the same dynamic, unless you're talking 24/7 TPE- and that type of interaction is pretty nonexistent in P4P situations. With good reason.

Maybe I'm confusing domination and submission, with a session leaning on the kinky side?

and chat a bit before as foreplay. HOT!

that you should have said "dominant."  The word "dominate" is a verb, as in "to dominate."  The poster doesn't get off on being dominant.
You're Welcome, and don't disturb Conan again.

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It is forbidden, or at least that's what Bigvern said, all in good clean/dirty fun. There is included those who like clean and those with a preference for dirty

in 'that' tone and only 'he' could pull it off...........

What if I said, I get off on being a fuck?

They just distract me from the topic at hand?

I don't think the intent is to inflict irreversible bodily harm.

The word "fuck" can be a noun or a verb.  Dominate can't be.  So says Conan.

I've been pretty dominant and to describe me as a sub would be huge mistake.  

However, some of my favorite encounters involve me being somewhat sub, i.e "topping from the bottom"

School girl scenario seems creepy in my opinion . To each their own .
  No school girls outfits in my closet .  
   Angel you sound like fun .  
  Did you let him choose the strap on size ?  
 I got slapped a lot harder than that when she found out I did her sister .  
 Good post Angel .

(I haven't read every post, so someone else might have said this.)