i find it difficult to remember say more than a month later the actual intercourse experience with a girl.    i can remember before and after,  but during any stored memory just blurs out.   over the years, just a couple times, when with a particularly exceptional woman   ( ie true 10 or playboy model)  during missionary i will just stop for a moment and look at her face for a few minutes.    she will go "what are you doing"   my response i want to lock this moment in my memory forever.  

just me ?  or do you find that you dont have solid memories of times during actual  coitus ?    thanks.

But I usually can recall most sessions.  

At least you remember the highs and lows (if any)?

I remember the amazing sessions vividly. Sex is extremely addictive and when it's amazing it's a highlight.

to 12-15 most recent sessions.  After that, I can't always remember the details.  I keep a small notebook in the console of my car, and as soon as a session is over, I will make some notes about the session in case it takes me a while to get the review written.  The notes will refresh my memory and other details that I did not write down will come to the forefront of my memory as well, allowing me to replay the session in my head from start to finish. thus allowing me to write a review two months later and still be clear on the details.  With the notes I make, I would be lost 12 girls later in remembering who did what.  Once the review is completed to my own satisfaction, I shred the notes because reading the review even a year later will refresh my memory about a particular girl.

So not only am I detail-oriented, I have a very good memory...even for an old dino

Also, I'm a review-writer, so within a day or two of a session, I will write a review; let it "marinate" for a day or two, then review it to make sure I have it all correct.

Then I'll post the review and it's there for me to review any time I might need to.

Usually, I can recall most of the details and it serves as an ongoing memory check. Use it or lose it! (applies to other things as well

We talked about this before but I'd say I remember most of my encounters going back years ago. It's funny in that I won't remember what I had for dinner last night, but meeting Jacky 7 years ago, or Juliette 18 years ago I remember. i guess it's call "selective" memory. What interesting is, If I see someone 5-6 times, I don't remember dates 2-4. The first and last one seem to stand out, In between???.....Selective memory??