I think it comes down to your interpretation of what "bi" is.

To me, "bi" indicates a sexual attraction, to the same, as well as the opposite sex. In THAT connotation, I have to disagree with your statement.

I believe it is entirely possible for two heterosexual males to be in a sexual situation with a solitary female. No judgements here and I speak entirely for myself only, but if a man is secure in and about his own sexuality, then it ceases to be an issue entirely, and the focus can be on the intention, which is pleasure at its most primal and carnal levels.

Homophobia is a puzzling mindset to me... I compare it to when kids worried about "cooties".

It's a shame really... so many people deny themselves the full measure of the pleasures available to us on this planet simply because they are afraid to embrace the totality of who they are. And typically, its all in their mind.

Some years ago, I was visiting with friends and the subject of fantasy lovers came up. One of the women mentioned Sean Connery, and of course the ladies all cooed and gushed while the husband rolled his eyes... and my comment:
"Yeah, I know what you mean... I'm straight, and even *I* wanna sleep with him!"

The party got into full "swing" after we all stopped laughing.

Rock On!

the OP said nothing about two men having sex, it asked about a sexual encounter between two men and one woman. i have participated in many MMF 3somes (and moresomes!) and everyone has always been 100% heterosexual. it's a very intense experience that many men enjoy. personally, i feed off the challenge of it...having to please two men simultaneously, make sure that neither is being neglected at ANY time, and pushing my body to its limits. also i've observed that when men are in groups, even a small group of just 2, they tend to be much more aggressive than normal. they are feeding off each others masculine primal energy, and what do they release all that tense, aggressive energy on?? my poor pussy, mouth, throat, etc...it's a beautiful thing. it's a lot of work and a heck of a lot of fun!

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I agree with the general consensus here, MFM (or any abbreviation with 2 or more "M's") doesn't imply bisexuality.  I've spent tons of time in locker rooms and a MFM encounter is no different.  I do not intend to engage in any activity with the other male so to me its just two guys naked in a room with a woman.  For that matter, it is inevitable that "swords cross" in some situations, I suggest if that happens and a guy freaks he may have some latent homo-sexual feelings he hasn't dealt with yet.

I know a fave of mine has done MFM and MFMFM in the past, I recently wanted to see her and gave her the choice of me alone or a MFM...she opted for me alone.  I've asked some other providers and civvie females as well and every one of them said they prefer one on one...I honestly expected it to be more of a female fantasy than it seems to be.

I did it once because my partner (F) suggested that it was a big turn on for her.  But from speaking with other F's (provider and civvie) it isn't that big of a deal to woman in general, in fact most prefer one guy at a time.  There are many variables...FMF, same room swap, swinging, etc...that would entail a straight male being in a room with another straight male and having sex, be it with the same woman or a different woman.

It may not be your thing; you may be homophobic (see your alias), you may be embarrassed by comparison (size or performance), or it just isn't something you're into...whatever the reason there are plenty of guys that have done it...and more that would if given the right opportunity.

Yep..well said! As I have always said...me hanging around completely heterosexual people will do nothing to curb my insatiable desire for women...hetero, bi or homosexuality is not catching.