I can not put myself in the position of a provider.  I have been trying to imagine the feelings and thoughts and sensations of a woman who sees a series of men and has intimate experiences with them.  Perhaps travels.  It was, in one sense, my fantasy as a teen aged boy to be in such a position, kissing, daty, having intercourse with many women for many days for many months, but what is it really like?

I will never know but would love to know.

too much YMMV with me.

but i extrapolate from my past civie experiences. i've always been an "age is just a number" guy and when there have been periods with no SO about have dabbled widely. a number of these civie ladies have been older and a few have been rather more prosperous. (one a musician with an international career). i think that i just would not have been able to compartmentalize enough to maintain a better than YMMV performance.

what it would have been like to get intimate with your fifth or tenth stranger for the week, to be able to figure out where that stranger lives and how to excited and satisfy him and then to do it,

Be very careful of what you wish for; you just never know if you will get it.

Who knows?  If not in this life, there are many millions more in store.

So MrFisher might have something there...You might cum back in your next life as a lady working in a brothel in 2090..

I think it would be the perfect sex education class for everyone. To swap your sex for a few days would be very enlightening. It  could help each and every one of us be a better lover.

Kisses Haley

it is in the genetic makeup.  but that is what makes life a wonderful adventure.

naughty lad. i would usually do 'outcall' so the literal where the stranger lives was no problem. as for the figurative "where they live" also no problem.

the only difficult "client" was she who became ex2. once i figured out that she had a near feline territoriality fetish that needed satisfaction she became the easiest of them all to please. (she was also a wild woman and had an heroic history of conquests. i suspect that she could have become a stellar provider if she had decided to do so.)

i'm going to omit the details of how i sorted it out and what it involved. suffice it to say i actually nedded to get the cooperation of ex1 to accomplish this.

What's that SciFi story where the children change sex every year:  boys to girls & girls to boys.  Until some age (16? 18? puberty?) where they have to choose:  Male, Female, Neuter

Each year after the changing, they spend a lot of time alone ... exploring their new parts!

Even with their screening... I have no idea how the ladies do it just waiting to see what shows up on their doorstep.

We're always the ones meeting with a hottie. The Providers... not so much. Not everyone on our side are 'hotties'. We get to pick and choose, they get to wait and see.

No idea how the ladies do it, but I honestly feel they earn every penny.

Seeing that many people a week would wear me out. Maybe texcat and yourself would be low volume providers.

It really is nice to be appreciated!! Lets just say some days are easier than others. I have been very fortunate to have quite a bit of attraction to the gents i have seen, but i am also very low volume. Alot of it for me is the email correspondance, i can really get a feel for who you are and if it clicks it is beautiful. Cleanliness also goes a long way for me, much easier to be attracted to someone that is fresh and smells nice!! Sorry so long, thanks all, XXX Belle.

for us to switch roles for two or three days, I would do it in a minute.  I would love to know what things feel like for you.

As a male, I would be a very low volume provider. My age and regeneration requirements would dictate that. Were I allowed to be a woman for a short period of time, I think I'd go to the adult toy store, and make the most of it.

my question separately rather than hyjack this thread.