Ladies, if you have seen a client for a couple years (about 15-20 times) and no longer wish to see him, how do you tell him or handle this situation? Is there a proper way to do this or just ignore him in hopes he goes away?
You can say you're moving your business into a different direction. Tell him you don't think you two are a good it anymore. you can tell him you have a new minimum time requirement or increase your rates for him. You can be busy overtime he wants to book or just tell him you don't think you should see him anymore. Never do this in person and try not to turn him BSC because of this.
Many ladies try not to do this because you never know when you will need to see him again to make ends meet. or if you would change your mind. Some of these are better than others, but they all work more or less. lolI would just let him know and move on. Easier and more polite than dragging things out and having him email me over and over and having to ignore him.
And why would you not want to see a client again?
I can see being dumped in a civilian relationship, have had it happen all to often, but this? One more thing to worry about ... :-/He is kind of a clueless guy most of the time, but a guy nonetheless. lol
As for his query, from what I have seen most providers take the least painful approach to "dumping" a client, they simply ghost on him, and while part of me wants to argue that approach as being kind of cold, I really can't argue that strenuously against it. Clients are dumped by providers for a myriad of reasons, not the least of which are boundary crossing and/or "clinginess" and rather than get in a drama filled and never ending discussion/argument about "I can do better" or "you're a bitch" with this kind of guy, I have to concede simply not returning his calls/emails is the least drama filled way to get her point across.
Hey sex addict. How's it going? Talk about being clueless, you been a walking atm how long now? Don't use too much Bengay before your next appointment. Ladies hate that
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Talk about a loser, just how repulsive, or needy, clingy, stinky et al do you have to be to get FIRED as a client by a hooker?
and THEN you double down on your cluelessness by broadcasting it on a public board. lmaoClueless, how much of your 401k have you cashed out to pay for pussy? How many credit cards racked up or maxed out? You delinquent on a bill now because of your habit? Wait till Jake chimes in and sucks your ter board posting dick. Its going to happen. He always rushes to your aide.
Get a life you master of the board posts.-- Modified on 4/26/2017 4:57:16 PM
Come on Rookie, fess up. What did you do to her to get shitcanned as a trick?
a Master poster than a masturbater, which is what you are until you can find another clueless hooker to feel sorry for your Newbie ass and take you on for a bad time.
She probably dumped you because she couldn't remember your name in between appointments. OR, the most obvious reason is in your handle. When providers want to whittle down the client list, the first ones to go are the cheapskates, second are the guys that can't get them off orally. I guess I am suggesting if you tip them even, some, but not all, will even put up with YOU.
Daty, Change your handle, it's hard to take you seriously.
Back to your question. It does not matter. It's a hobby. Move on. Some girls don't feel like dealing with drama. In the end they owe you nothing. Learn from your mistakes and go have more fun. She worth the time or effort? Really?dumped by about five gals, and I've dumped about five gals, so it all balances.
The way is always the same: You just stop contacting them and stop responding to their communications. Life then goes on. It's the rule of this game.
she needs to see your sorry ass. Oh, maybe there is a sign, it says "closed".
I'm at work right now. Just before I looked at this post, I had a phone call from a customer rejecting a bid we had submitted.
Just after I opened this post, I got another call from another customer awarding a bid to us, without even a chisel! Even Steven, it is.