I'm wondering what you all think - and before I start I better state my position; yes, late 30s, way fit and not lacking for a hot young companion any night of the week...
I'm looking through ads and I'm seeing an awful lot of older escorts, and I don't think it's just the poor economy that's bringing them out.
In fact, just last week a very good friend of mine asked my opinion of an older lady who was coming to town and he was interested to meet her. I said yes, go for it - on the basis of her site - and I noted his revolted way of saying she wasn't one of those young things so popular on the market in Miami.
My friend is an ultra-charming, hot looking guy in his 50's. He can get a lot of women. I was surprised he was so not interested in younger women (although he likes me of course).
When I go out socially I note that guys are getting crazier and crazier for older women. Are you seeing that too?
Tamara G x
20 's are great but 30's are much more viable. : )--. well . Demi moore seems to be hotter than ever !!47
oh shoot .. try Sophia Loren!!she is 70 I believe;;
thanks for your insight Tamara g..
with age comes wisdom and well lets say a bit of tact and couth...
sincerely
Lovely Lorena
and let me tell you....every guy in the place would have loved to make love to her. She was just beautiful even at 70 with an awesome smile. She was wearing a simple black dress with cleavage showing and had every guy looking at it. But then we men are predictable aren't we???!!! LOL
All the gals I see (save one) are younger than I am, but that's not saying much as I am 57.
I enjoy gals of all ages but I find myself intrigued with older women; I guess I can relate to them much more easily because of shared cultural experiences, etc.
Like Mr Fisher, I find that I enjoy spening time with providers that are 35 and older more than the 20 year old hotties. I am 50 so I think it is just easier to relate and the older gals are more experienced usually which leads to a very enjoyable time!
I'm finding I have two distinct niches: the over 50 men and the under 30 men. The first like me because I'm not a threat to them (I don't want him to change his life or wife for me) and the second because my bio-clock isn't ticking anymore. Both get entangled in the sheets w/ me w/o getting the heart entangled too.
And by older, I mean OLDER (I'm 54). That doesn't seem to stop the men from calling. On top of that, I know what I'm doing by sheer experience!
That said, I began because the timing in my life was perfect. I was partner-free, parent-free, kids-grown-and-flown and on my own. Wonderful time to begin something I'd wanted to do in my twenties!
When I started hobbying, I prefereed 30 yrs old - and up. I enjoyed their skills a lot - great with experience. After awhile I became confident in my own skills, and tried younger providers (below 25) who were not so experienced. I like the challenge and also 'directing' the young ones what to do.
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Mature ladies with their act together and that continue to love sex and having fun will never go out of style. I was attracted to older women in my 20s and they in 30s and 40s because they knew that they wanted (and didn't want) and love to do the nasty. Show me a very cool older woman with all of the above going and I'll show you someone who gets laid.
I think it depends more on the provider's performance ability. I wouldn't think twice about seeing a mature provider as long as she had good performance scores. Even guys who don't like seeing mature providers will do so if they know they are in for a good time.
the economy went south or started to in the last 6 yrs, many ladies here with age as a factor were already established before the shit hit the fan.
The ones coming into this lately are the younger ones with no job experience and no job history.
Mature women are layered, they are experienced, life experience. They have grown into themselves and have gained a different perspective on life sex sensuality passion and intrigue.
I myself have noticed I am more interested in the whole person from their smile to their laughter, their points of view to their intellect. So much more than the way they fill out their jeans.
Passion and sensuality is sexy and that is something that only time teaches you, it needs to be grown into with experiences in life. Women over 40 have those life experiences, time has given them that.
There is a great deal that can be taught but some things only time and experience will teach you. Growing into yourself is one of them.
The ones coming into this lately are the younger ones with no job experience and no job history.
Mature women are layered, they are experienced, life experience. They have grown into themselves and have gained a different perspective on life sex sensuality passion and intrigue.
I myself have noticed I am more interested in the whole person from their smile to their laughter, their points of view to their intellect. So much more than the way they fill out their jeans.
Passion and sensuality is sexy and that is something that only time teaches you, it needs to be grown into with experiences in life. Women over 40 have those life experiences, time has given them that.
There is a great deal that can be taught but some things only time and experience will teach you. Growing into yourself is one of them.
Well said Nicole!! I started 6 yrs ago.. and was then a young 24... now I'm 30 and exactly what you said, lol!! "Grown into themselves".. I like how that sounds, and that's sooo true... I'm also much more interested in how someone treats me, over how they look. I've also heard that a lot from guys, that they prefer "older" because there is less drama, and they have more to talk about... BUT, that does depend on the girl, as there are younger gals who can deliver just as well as the over 30s crowd, and older gals who still act like their 20, lol.
I do well at 36 both in the hobby and in porn. MILFs and even GILFs are very popular and are a fetish.
I went to see a mature provider who claimed to be 40. Her pics were hot and she had long blonde hair.
When I went to see her, the photos were her ... only 5-6 years older. Ok, she was still a bit tone, so why not.
Here's the turn-off. When she smiled, she had 4 missing teeth on the side (not the front 4). I guess she couldn't afford dentures. What made it worst - was when she kissed me - tasted like she just smoked 10 cigars. Augggh. If she had minty fresh breath, I would have forgotten about the missing teeth. And then she rushed the session.
I'm much older and NOT in great shape and I have found that men of all ages really like me. I believe a lot of it has to do with experience and just the idea that I actually like them for being them. And not for the funds.
Also, women are coming into their own these days. It's not so out of the norm for an older woman to admit to her sexuality. Men find that very enticing and sexy. Younger men will visit me because if they ask, then yes ... I'll teach them.
It seems as if younger women don't have the patience that an older woman has, either.
The post above that mentioned the older woman with teeth missing and bad breath could have happened to him with a woman of any age. It's too bad that he had a bad experience. Fudging on age is common. Again, not specific to older women. Most older women play up to the age factor. It's a plus.
Good topic!
Sincerely,
Elisabeth
And I could not be more pleasantly surprised at my clients age range and comments. I am 34 and just been a provider for about 8months. I could not imagine being in my 20's and doing this! I am so much more knowledgeable, confident and sexually aware! I truly feel ANY woman can screw anyone, thats the easy (and fun) pat! I can hold my own with any man I meet, I can tell by just conversation what he is seeking, and knowing sometimes, its not just sex. I could never have provided the full "service" I offer now. I actually have much respect for MOST of my clients, more so than I did before I started this. All of this I attribute to being "Older"...oh and LOVING SEX! lol
into younger gal...if I am looking for a milf I just go to a local bar and pick one up..
Yes, I am in my late 30's and people dont realize my age. Maybe I need to post my age on my ad just to see how many hits from older gentlemen I really may get. Not only are the older gentlemen attracted the the woman in her 30's or better, but the young ones are as well. I takegreat pride in keep myself fit. So I say lets keep up the good work and go for the gusto....