It’s literally the laziest way to contact a lady so why would she even take you seriously.
Ladies on tryst get bombarded by tryst email scams every day, hackers trying to gain access so any thing like this is most likely getting bulked in with the scammer emails. Not saying you are but being black listed isn’t the end of the game. I see black listed guys all the time. Of course the have minor offenses like time wasting , refused to pay cancellation fee etc. I see them but I require a deposit. My friends don’t always right off ever BL’d guy either, we know there are crazy ho’s out there that BL for BS reasons. I think it’s because you’re messaging them with the least effort.-- Modified on 9/15/2023 2:15:21 PM
Several times in the past few weeks I have responded to Tryst ads by clicking on the phone number and filling out the pregenerated generic form which pops up. “Hey xxx I saw you on Tryst. My name is _____, and I’d like to see you on ______ at ____ for 60 minutes.”
Most of these responses are the “cheaper” escorts who don’t have websites and forms on their websites to fill out, so texting them is the only way to contact them.
But several of these escorts never get back with me. It’s crickets. There’s no response from them.
If they are paying to put an ad on Tryst, you would think they would want business and would respond to ads guys leave them.
Some of these ladies are drop dead gorgeous (if their pictures are accurate) and I would like to see them. This happens with the local women’s ads, not the touring ones. I never have an issue with them getting back with me.
I have tried to figure out why this happens and have a list of possibilities.
1. Maybe they’re having phone issues, their phones were disconnected, and can’t get my messages.
2. Maybe they are scammers and aren’t real escorts. But what would be the purpose of this?
3. Is there a “black list” of some kind that I have been put on with some providers (because as I mentioned it doesn’t happen with all of them). I have never violated any providers’ cancellation rules so I don’t know why I would be put on a “black list” but this could explain why I don’t get responses.
Does anyone else have any ideas why this would be happening?
It happens on other ad sites also. Who knows. They are busy or didn’t like your inquire. I just move on.
I’d say that the providers on tryst respond when they become available or when they are planning for a trip to your area.
The site works well and the providers on there are more of the type that you can have an actual conversation and connection with.
In other words, are you doing no research on them at all either here or other review sites? Not knocking you if you are a take one for the team guy, but that may be the root of the problem in addition to placing yourself at advanced risk.
As to whether why they dont get back to you is anybody's guess. If your sample size is only a few ladies, they could just be on break or not active right now.
Maybe you arent giving them everything they ask? And yes, maybe you are on some black list somewhere.
When I get no response, I usually wait 3-4 days and reconnect them, nicely and softly, as maybe they just missed or skipped over your text/email.
I submitted several times with no response it’s weird.
I think anyone asking for recertification is trying to scam you, I know how scammers operate.
I would look into that account if I were you because I know girls who have said scammers send them the same emails and they do it with any site they know your on to try and get your account info.
That’s why you it’s best to never click any links, just go straight to the website yourself and check it out.
I could attach a link to a site that you can copy and paste a link to and it’ll tell you if it’s malicious, but even that is risky because you still have to click, right click or hold down on the link but still you could make a mistake and end up loading that page, which could then turn on you camera and microphone, load gos coordinates or more.
Scammers use the “curl” command to copy an entire website sending you to a site that is an exact copy but when you out in your credentials nothing happens. They can do the same with legitimate email templates.
I just got back into the business and I can’t get on tryst. Been going back & forth with Eros to get approved love them very clear communication. P411 always kept me. Didn’t even know I was on slixa. So is Tryst even worth it? I’ve been around longer than them and they won’t approve me. What do you think?
Most have contact info beyond the tryst contact link.
A simple "hey, I responded to your tryst ad, please let me know if you need more info..."
If you still don't get a response, move on.
A lot of providers are poor communicators and even worse time managers. Probably nothing more than that.
I feel it's pretty typical. I don't think it's a Tryst only experience. I think when any person is fielded dozens of queries, some of them get forgotten. I've had at least 3 providers message me almost 1 mo later asking if I was still interested.
Might be a supply-demand scenario where they are picking through the best and longest bookings at the time.
Conversely, I've had a provider message me almost instantly after my message, even upon later finding out one of my references was telling people she didn't know me. I got to see that provider anyway, but that was awkward.
I am on tryst and just so you are aware they do have a free option to post a basic ad. I am not sure if you have any way to tell on your end as to if they have the free option or not. If you pay for the ad you can post more pics and also post touring ads, so if there are not many pics, no website, nothing else you might want to double check they are real.
BE SUPER CAREFUL with sending deposits/gift cards before you see them. My account got hacked and this is how they were scamming gents from my account.
He should double check they are real regardless. I’ve run across many a fake or scam website that claimed they were legitimate providers
I’ve been trying to get an AD up on Tryst and it’s been under review for 12 days now. Did it take you this long ?
It’s literally the laziest way to contact a lady so why would she even take you seriously.
Ladies on tryst get bombarded by tryst email scams every day, hackers trying to gain access so any thing like this is most likely getting bulked in with the scammer emails.
Not saying you are but being black listed isn’t the end of the game. I see black listed guys all the time. Of course the have minor offenses like time wasting , refused to pay cancellation fee etc. I see them but I require a deposit.
My friends don’t always right off ever BL’d guy either, we know there are crazy ho’s out there that BL for BS reasons.
I think it’s because you’re messaging them with the least effort.
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received those pre-filled emails I automatically assume is either a scam - spam, trying to steal my account, info or password... OR is a men that is filling the same pre-filled message with other 50 people. So, kind of a turn off TBH .
Hello Maxvan68...What time are you sending the messages? I advertise on Tryst, and receive generic messages...I will respond unless the message is sent late at night or in the middle of the night. Hope this helps😊
Maybe the girls aren’t even getting your messages, contact them directly. Tryst has been having bugs on their site.
My first account got hacked and scammed clients out of deposits, I created another one and they won’t approve me Or help me get the first account verified. Very horrible customer service
the amount of those prefilled messages are spam / scam and they just try to steal our passwords.
reason why I rarely respond to those. I reply thru my booking form, it's just little extra safety for me. We get so many thryst emails, just yesterday I received about 150? or so, spam, scammers.
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" IF " They don't have TER reviews or a P-411 account you should move on to another provider. Why waste your time on a possible scam. Even if you do jump through all the hoops and meet you will probably end up feeling like you got ripped off.
What do you expect from a site that was made by people who are anti-TER, anti-review?
Those sorts of people, they're not excellent, never were.
I`m hearing a lot of complaints lately from my hobby friends about Tryst. Also, my ATF provider told me the other night at dinner that they banned her for some stupid fugasi protocol misstep and now she hates them.
I thought Tryst site was finished? It has not been working for more than 3 weeks now...end of August or middle of August it stopped showing results? Any feedback?
I log onto it every day, like all my other ad sites. It is up and running, no issues. It is one of the most popular ad sites right now.
Hello Team,
I think respectful Robert's response says it all. Yes, I've experienced the no-call back thing, but unusual for women with good reviews on TER.
One thing I might add: If you have a good relationship with a provider, ask her to refer a friend. This way, you can usually skip the verification thing and meet a known quantity. P.S. Always get a picture. Has worked well for me! With this approach, I just saw a UTR Brazilian woman who was outstanding!
Rock on!
Tryst has a lot of scanners or being hacked. Most of us on there get at least a few bs emails from tryst a day. I am thinking you might be getting ignored for nothing you are doing. I would suggest you answer the way you have but also try to email or find her website. Or just do the text thing more than once. It may help. Good Luck.
You should know by now that providers are a flaky bunch from low end to high end. There are black lists out there and most hobbyist are probably on them. Like someone else said, they black list you for little to know reason. Mr. Number is a common one that providers use. You can download it from your phone. It's like 3 bucks a month or 24 dollars a year. The app is supposed to be for telemarketers but they use it for us. I firmly believe we should use the app as well to expose scammers and bad providers. This site has too many restrictions on exposing providers but Mr. Number has none. All you need is a phone number and you can write and say anything you want about the person with no proof or verification. There is a black list for the emails and a National List but I do not know the name of it or how to gain access to it as of yet. I was receiving mailers from providers then all of a sudden I stopped receiving them. Mailers are what providers send you when they are coming to your city and tell you because you have the mailer, you don't have to screen. I loved receiving mailers. I have to find a way to get them back.
As far as the UK goes its not a site to use. You are always better off to find a well establlished Agency.
It is very difficult in the US for many agencies/brothels/massage parlors. They fall under the grey bull shit "trafficking" category so they are unfortunately shut down pretty frequently.
are a waste of time. Before I turned off this option I would get multiple emails a day just like the OP described.
98% of these messages do not include the clients name,email.phone.no appt details/.
I have forwarded many of these options back to the client to ask him where is his screening info.
A template messages with no screening info being received multiple times a day is quite annoying,
I would suggest reaching out to a provider by her preferred method of contact. Or look on her tryst ad for a phone# or email.
are a waste of time. Before I turned off this option I would get multiple emails a day just like the OP described.
98% of these messages do not include the clients name,email.phone.no appt details/.
I have forwarded many of these options back to the client to ask him where is his screening info.
A template messages with no screening info being received multiple times a day is quite annoying,
I would suggest reaching out to a provider by her preferred method of contact. Or look on her tryst ad for a phone# or email.
That’s unfortunate you’re having trouble reaching providers on tryst. I’ve found all of the worthwhile providers on tryst. The usually girls on the other sites are all addicts and not even worth the review
No question it has both better content and also higher prices but without using this site to cross reference is still a crap shoot. The difference with the sites you are alluding to is you know most of them are not worth the risk , time , or money. Yet somewhere there may be. “That Unicorn”
I would make sure you are doing your research on the ladies you are reaching out to, to make sure they are legit. Sometimes if you are not sending the information they are asking they might not reply. I reply always but it is times I maybe a little busy, so maybe they are as well.
Supplying all info asked (for) and all info that can be comfortably given. This is where the process breaks down.
Yep, you're spot on. Often times, I'll have questions I want to ask *before* sending my screening information. Most recently, I was sort of "duped" into sending screening info. On this companion's website, I was trying to find out what the screening info actually was. I was "led down the path" to providing it and when I got the info I was after, I had pretty much already sent the screening info. That's a function of how the site was designed to function.
So, I received email from the booking asst telling me she needed more info and that the info I had provided was insufficient (paraphrasing).
I told the booking asst we should just terminate the booking process then and if I had known what the screening requirements actually were, I would not have contacted the companion, in the first place.
So, the "chasm" you describe is very real. lol