What is the etiquette about an open door policy when either client or provider has to pee?

I allow her to pee on me!

probably because no one else has cared enough about this question to post about it.

Come prepared.

That's my mind of guy

Unless it's a fetish session and that's somehow involved. For some reason, that just seems too . . . Something to me.

.of when the honeymoon was over was when the new bride came into the bathroom to pee while you're brushing your teeth...

Close the door during sessions SO I asked a friendly provider why it was so common for providers to leave the door open. She said at out calls its because some guys worry that girls will take things like prescription med's, etc.  and the rest of the time because it just seems silly. I shut the door because I consider it kinda rude to use the toilet in front of others. I actually had a provider go #2 with the door open. I had no clue until she asked me not to watch her wipe because she said that doesn't do that in front of people. I was kinda grossed out by it and never called her again. It was too ... The honeymoon is over, for me.  

...closed!

I miss McDonald000

on two different occasions.

I am thinking they might have been familiar with you...hopefully???? Sucks to have just one bathroom. I like to have two, one set aside for number 2.

mmmm kinky

we know each other pretty well.  And if that is the case, we are most likely pretty comfortable with each other's bodies.   On the other hand, it is not silly close it either.   Just being able to be yourself with a lady and not even have to think about such a trivial thing is sort of comforting.

Or just the one you talk about here?

Problem solved

Reminds me of this beautiful civi I was dating back in the day. I had a pocket door in my bathroom off the master bedroom and she didn't slide it the whole way closed. I thought about getting out of the bedroom quietly because of the water "Plops" and other noises it was clear she was going #2. She was very skinny and a size 00 so there were some eating issues and I obviously caught her coming off of some constipation. The noises that came out of that girl astounded me. Loud machine-gun Staccato, splashes, and grunts & groans. It went on for several minutes until I decided I'd open the bedroom door and close it loudly while I called her name, asking if she wanted to go out for dinner or stay in. Brilliant! She opted to go out for dinner and I could hardly look at her without feeling an unstoppable fit of laughter coming. I can't help it. Being 12 or 50, Farts are funny and bathroom humor is still hysterical in my book. 😎

you know what I mean, and the lady was greatly offended that I left the door open even though she understood I was going for gold. It's one of those mysterious zones where men and women pass like ships in the night, like why do wives get so pissed when husbands fart.

I pee in shower, because I usually still have a hard on after(the gals I see are hot). If I tried to use the toilet I'd end up getting urine all over the tank.

I always close the door. Guys always seem to pee with the door open.

God! You're such a little Freak! I really like that about you. 😜😘😍

Another example of male/female disconnects. I bet most guys would think it's cool or funny or harmless. Or am I that twisted? I mean, what's the big deal, you're in the shower for crying out loud.

That's usually an up charge.

It was the same lady twice, and yeah she did know me, and it was longer dates (not one hour things). Winding up the date, laying in bed together, and she says, "Let's jump in the shower!" So I get up walk to the bathroom with her following, step into the shower and turn on the water setting the temp, and she says, "I need to use the bathroom first," and sits on the toilet.  
I assumed she was peeing, until she wiped and flushed! Anyway, like I said I didn't care. I just found it odd that she was that comfortable around me, and not embarrassed. Hey shit happens!

Ya know, girls wipe after they pee as well, just different areas

He can leave the door open...I always close the door for myself because I don't want to assume my client's tolerance level.

It wasn't the fact THAT she wiped, it was WHAT she wiped and flushed, and BTW the stubborn turd that was still floating in the toilet when we got out of the shower was a pretty good tell too.  Is that enough info for you?

#1 and #2 are understandable and may be excusable. However, what to do if you are feeling sick to your stomach and the clam chowder with spaghetti marinara you just had for lunch is about to come up shotgun style? If there is time, it may be best to excuse yourself and leave the premises, that will for sure ruin a date and the possibility any future ones!

Perhaps TMI there, but I can see you were traumatized by the experience so I won't bring it up again. My sincerest apologies    

Posted By: perfectstorm

It wasn't the fact THAT she wiped, it was WHAT she wiped and flushed, and BTW the stubborn turd that was still floating in the toilet when we got out of the shower was a pretty good tell too.  Is that enough info for you?

I dated a girl who said her ex husband would routinely take a dump in the shower while showering. He assured her that all guys did it and he learned it in the Army. And to think, the only thing I learned was to blow my nose without a handkerchief and beer and cold pizza made a perfectly acceptable breakfast if you were hung over. How many of you have taken a dump in the shower?

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hen a girl can dig her nose, fart, and pee in front of me I take that to mean she is really comfortable with me, and doesn't have to be pretentious. When she can take a shit in front of me, that's just a whole other level of comfort!

Lots of my clients pee in front of me, and I turn away so I don't have to see it, cuz I think it's icky to see people pee.lol

Funny but gross!

Good Gawd! Maybe TER should add that to the gal's profile. Takes a dump during a session.

If you wouldn't have started the shower, when you mistakenly thought a ladies bowl movement as an invitation for shower fun. Her turd wouldn't have been there waiting for you, once the two of you got out of the shower.

Posted By: perfectstorm

It wasn't the fact THAT she wiped, it was WHAT she wiped and flushed, and BTW the stubborn turd that was still floating in the toilet when we got out of the shower was a pretty good tell too.  Is that enough info for you?

Knowledge is power  hahahaha

He has you on ignore. He can't read that, so I copied it for him.

and talk to me through out...  I guess I'm the shy type, I close the door at least enough to block the view.

Assuming you want me to stay turned on and give you good service.

Before embarking to the provider.  I personally have no interest in doing anything bathroom related with or on behalf of a provider unless it is a shower or bath.  I can do without nos 1, 2 and 3 and encourage closed doors for this

How nice ...☺

Just be happy that Tobi hasn't posted one of her scat videos 😱

You're too kind P

Never heard puking called #3, but I like it

I mean, c'mon.   Let there be a little bit of romance and mystery left in the fantasy of a P4P date.  Sure, we all have bodily functions, but it just seems more polite to be discrete about it.  

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To watch me pee or pee on you, then this has become a fetish session and it would be best that this was previously discussed.  

I much prefer to stand and pee, but that causes some splash onto the toilet rim, and I'm told that's gross, so when at a gal's place, always sit to pee.

I hate washing off pee from the toilet seat, around the toilet on the floor. I almost want to find out where these dicks live and stand over their toilets and let it fly and NOT CLEAN IT UP AFTER!!!!

if a guy with a residual flagging hard-on tries target practice from the standing position there is likely to be collateral damage.  Separate issue from general purpose morons who simply spray down the joint. Come to think of it, quite a few women over the years have complained to me that public women's toilets are also soaked in pee.  Have heard tell that savvy women when traveling squat on toilet seats so only their shoe soles get wet.

I have never had to pee during any of my sessions, feels weird. I always escort the dates to the bathroom and close the door behind them for privacy. I even do that with my Fiance, maybe I'm weird. Something you just have to do in privacy and that's one of them.

Just have some manners and clean it up. Grab some TP and wipe. Dirty people make me sick.

But I wouldn't think less of someone who leaves it open. I have many who do. But I always close it when I visit the loo.

but I'm glad you agree.

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and you decided it was ok to piss in front of me like it was a stadium urinal, I'd open the hotel room door and ask you to leave.