Unless I (or we) had done something totally out of line, I much prefer the whole fantasy be maintained from start to finish (and like you, I do know that it *IS* a fantasy, no emotional attachments here other than fond memories of a really good session). I simply can't be one of those dismissive "wham, bam, thank you, ma'am" types (you know who you are).
I'm fortunate in that I've never experienced anything like #1, but I've encountered #2 many times (the rest were somewhere in between). If I had experienced #1, that girl would have been off my list no matter how great the session was, as blowing off a client like that (no pun intended) is simply bad business. If a girl wants to see me (or, more specifically, my money) again, she'll make me feel welcome and wanted from the time I walk in until the time I walk out, otherwise it's "so long and thanks for all the fish." It's simply good business.
This may sound a little nit picky the final minutes of a session do count, at least for me.
I had two sessions this week.
Provider #1 sat at her computer and answered her emails as I was about to exit. No kiss goodbye, no thank you.
Provider #2 gave me a sloppy DFK as I was about to exit and said she hoped to see me again. That was nice.
Both sessions were probably 8's in performance and both were fairly equal in appearance. Provider #1 will never see an envelope from this john again. Provider #2 will definitely see an envelope from me again.
Anyone else care about the final minutes?
How does she make you feel? Its not so much about "getting off" as about getting connected and sensing mutual enjoyment, or at least being allowed to believe that you sensed it. I feel you...100%
Peace
Hobbit Giorgio
I think it depends on if your "final minutes" where before or after the scheduled time.
If you're appointment is over at 12:00 and your "final minutes" are you leaving at 12:05, then why would she need to still be with you other than to show you the door? I make $8.33 cents a minute. Those extra 5 minutes would have equaled $41.65. If your "final minutes" are you getting out the door by 12:00, then I'm not sure why she would have been on her computer unless she just wasn't interested in ever seeing you again.
To get blown off at the end is like saying she really doesn't care if you come back or not. Isn't it "|good business" to leave the client wanting more??
I am at the door and my companion for the moment gives me a nice DFK, hug (maybe runs her hands thru my hair or across my back or buns) and tells me she hopes to see me again.
That is a great end to a session.
You are WAY too "nit picky"!
Interesting how your handle is the COMPLETE opposite of how you feel.
Yes...you are "just another". It's the nature of the game.
Sorry that you didn't get the GFE you were expecting right up until the last minute of your "session".....but don't kid yourself. It was a session. You paid for sex acts....you got sex acts.
If it felt good...do it again. If not....don't. It's just that simple.
Re-visit whoever you want....but don't fool yourself about what this is.
Interesting how your handle is the COMPLETE opposite of how you feel.
Yes...you are "just another". It's the nature of the game.
Sorry that you didn't get the GFE you were expecting right up until the last minute of your "session".....but don't kid yourself. It was a session. You paid for sex acts....you got sex acts.
If it felt good...do it again. If not....don't. It's just that simple.
Re-visit whoever you want....but don't fool yourself about what this is.
Nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong with that at all. I'd share the same preference.
Matt
ps~of course, it's a whole different story if he had overstayed his time, which might've caused the provider to hop online to 'send a signal' to the guy to get the fuck out. but he didn't mention anything about that, so i'm assuming he left on time.
I was with a girl who was in a rush and said 'omg, I have to pick up my daughter and then rushed out room before I even got dressed'. It sure does not feel right. She did make it up to me the next time.
I had one who really needed to smoke after the session. It was just a habit. Since she didn't want to do it in the room, she went out and then got back in.
Well, I agree that the best mannered ladies will say great goodbyes and say 'when I can see you again, baby?" - now, that's good for the biz. But others are just, "I need to do something and our time's up." Well, the fantasy ends when the hour ends. On the flip side, it's good that you realize it was just a fantasy and the time you paid is up.
Start to finish, looking for the full package. Ignore me in the final few minutes and it puts a big dent in my overall feeling about the session. A goodbye hug and a kiss and attentiveness throughout make big points and leave me with the feeling like I'd like to come back.
In the final minutes I'm checking for my wallet, my keys, and my cell phone. Kiss goodbye, sure, that's nice. You got shit to do? No problem, me too.
Lady #1 maybe didn't like you that much. Hell, maybe #2 didn't either, just more commited to the role. Maybe #1 did, but didn't think your feelings were so fragile.
I'm not hell bent on keeping up the illusion of genuine affection/admiration/attraction/whatever. If it's not there we don't need to go through the motions. The session is over. Bye.
Ours is always tender.
Hugs and kisses.
Talking about how much we enjoyed the night and when will we see each other next.
On one occasion, she glanced down and noticed I was still bulging. She reached down and gently cupped my package. She looked liked she was gonna genuinely miss me.
After, we always exchange a text about the night.
If you make a good impression, it makes the lady all the more inclined (and, often, enthusiastic) to see you again, and after all, that's what you both want, right?Unless I (or we) had done something totally out of line, I much prefer the whole fantasy be maintained from start to finish (and like you, I do know that it *IS* a fantasy, no emotional attachments here other than fond memories of a really good session). I simply can't be one of those dismissive "wham, bam, thank you, ma'am" types (you know who you are).
I'm fortunate in that I've never experienced anything like #1, but I've encountered #2 many times (the rest were somewhere in between). If I had experienced #1, that girl would have been off my list no matter how great the session was, as blowing off a client like that (no pun intended) is simply bad business. If a girl wants to see me (or, more specifically, my money) again, she'll make me feel welcome and wanted from the time I walk in until the time I walk out, otherwise it's "so long and thanks for all the fish." It's simply good business.
Making someone feel welcome and wanted can be done with great passion and enthusiasm and still not be what you are looking for. what they consider will make you feel that way may be different or short of what you have in mind. Communication is the key and brings good sessions which means good business.
...is how he seems to have felt. How many times have you been treated in a similar manner in your everyday life when in a store, making a purchase, trying to get decent customer service? We should remember that this "hobby" is the ultimate in customer service and many of the lessons from the world of sales and customer service can be borrowed by the successful provider.
Make your customer feel good about their purchase; it's the best and simplest way to insure that they will *stay* satisfied with their purchase ("buyer's remorse syndrome" is named for a reason) and that they will return for future purchases (assuming the provider of the service wants a return engagement).
How many times have you been treated with disregard or blatantly abused in a retail/sales setting by a clueless salesperson? Do you feel as though you would return to that establishment for further abuse? I vote with my dollars and the place that goes out of their way, even in the slightest degree, to make me feel as though I'm a valued customer will earn my loyalty.
Take a number. Now serving #XXX.
I would agree #2 was more in line with my way of ending a session.
I really don't get why guys bitch about things or want things to be different when they themselves could more than likely remedy the situation on the spot. If you wanted hand holding to the door, say something. You don't say something, how can she know THAT is important to you. COMMUNICATE yourself into the session you want.
You are in a service business, no different from retail sales. If the salesperson wants repeat business from a customer, the salesperson will do everything they can to make the customer happy and coming back for more, otherwise they ain't gonna see big numbers on their commission check. (Of course, if the customer makes things difficult for the salesperson, then that's another situation entirely.)
If you think it's the customer's job to tell salespeople how they should provide good customer service, and that they're merely "bitching" when they don't receive it (implying that it's their fault they did something wrong)... well, let's just say that I disagree with you and leave it at that.
If a guy goes into a shoe store, he says he wants shoes and leaves it at that, he's going to be shown a lot of stuff while the salesperson tries to figure out what the guy wants out of the shoes. So if the salesman doesn't get it right in the first few tries he's Frustrating the client? Not a good salesman? Now if the guy says I want Brown shoes, lace up and a leather sole, he will be much better served.
If you go into a hotel and say you need "a room", and you get a room with the kindest, quickest service possible but the room itself might not be to your liking or suit your needs.
Yea, we are in the service industry but not every customer coming in the door wants the same service or values the same aspects of service as the last client or the next client - Period. If you aren't having every one of your needs met, ask for what you or let her know somehow. THEN if you don't get it, and it's reasonable, you have reason to bitch. But don't bitch because the provider doesn't read your mind. It's not as though they are sent to Hooker school or offered OJT. YOU might think something is standard practice but, having been in room for 6+ yrs, I can honestly say that very little here is standard. Different customers value different things and it's as much your responsibility to put it out there as it is for us to follow through when we figure out and the customers want different things
If you think it's the customer's job to tell salespeople how they should provide good customer service, and that they're merely "bitching" when they don't receive it (implying that it's their fault they did something wrong)... well, let's just say that I disagree with you and leave it at that.
Having met you for a date, you were definitely GFE all the way till I walked out the door. But not every woman is as thoughtful as you are. (Damn, thinking of our date again, I need to take a cold shower. I got to make time to see you next time you in Tysons Corner LOL)
If a guy is shy (like me LMAO) or a gentleman then he will not make an issue about leaving and interrupting the lady, if she is on the computer typing furiously, just to say to her that he wants to be escorted out the door in GFE style. It would just seem rude, awkward and embarrassing. Yes, we should let the lady know what we want but some things just seem to require common sense like walking us up to the door to say goodbye. Common sense isn't something that all of us possess sometimes.
No, we providers aren't mind-readers, but it doesn't really take a mind-reader to know that it's polite to tell someone goodbye before they leave, especially if you just received several hundred dollars from them.
(And hell, even if you didn't really like the client, you can at least give him a polite good-bye, then refuse a future session or just keep making up bullshit excuses until he gets the hint. As I said, politeness and courtesy costs nothing.)
Yes...and presumably want them to come back!
#1 in my book. I have had numerous ladies share PM's and e-mails AFTER our session. They don't put you on "ignore." A few have and I have not given them repeat business.
I've emerged from the bathroom to find the provider's GF has returned & they're having a smoke. I don't get a kiss or anything. Not been back.
Yes a lady should do her best to in however she feels comfortable to show the guy a thanks for coming gesture .... rubbing on the back while walking and talking, long hug and cheek kiss something is good but a gentleman should know when to leave .... whether it's the last few mins within the session or just out make them feel like hey come again but he should know when to go, don't just hang around to just hang around. But again I don't think you should make someone feel like okay i'm done with you (even if you are).
Everyone is different on how they interact with people.When I am about to leave I always give a hug and kiss say thank you I had a great time.If the gentleman is from out of town I wish him a safe trip home and if I had a wonderful time I always send an email just saying I had a wonderful time.You can always tell if someone is interested in seeing you again and one way to make sure that does not happen is to act like Provider#1.It basically says I saw you now get the going if she does not even look up or say thank you when it is time for the gentleman to leave.
Providers call these guys "campers"....
After the fun is over. The best part for me is the after. yeah I am a girl.. I like to snuggle. I am so tempted to say from time to time. Lay you butt back down I am not done.. I keep hearing from the gentlemen that you like the get to know each other part at the end. But, When I go to get something for you to drink and freshen up with.( I even say, Hey, I will be right back, I am going to get) More often then not we end up meeting in the bathroom....
Then I walk you to the door, give you the hug, kiss, keep in touch, speech, make sure you have your coat, keys etc..
what more could you want..
Lay your ass back down I am not done.....
Trust me when we are done I will let you know...............
Then I walk you to the door, give you the hug, kiss, keep in touch, speech, make sure you have your coat, keys etc..
what more could you want..
Lay your ass back down I am not done.....
Trust me when we are done I will let you know...............