In either civilain life or in the hobby, what's your preference in terms of partner "sound effects"?  Little gasps of pleasure/surprise, long slow moans of pleasure, loud talk along the lines of "ef me baby, ef me harder,harder, baby"?  something else entirely?

Do you perfer different types of "sound effects" with different types of partners?  In different circumstances?

I'm partial toward the long slow moans. I can't explain it but they seem  sincere.  The over-the-top dirty talk has never done much for me

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I like the fact that whatever comes out of your mouth is brought on by me.  And vice-versa. I would rather hear you than not hear anything. It's all about participating.

Sometime I used to think some guys might say certain things to get you to react a certain way!! Who woulda thought. What one girl likes might not work with the next lady. Pretty much though I like all the stuff. You can tell if you look at what I write.
If you let what comes out of your mouth be natural

how can you lose?

The spontaniety of it all has value for me.

Originality get high scores with me!





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I like my ATF's long purring hhhuuummmmmmm's punctuated by, "I really like it when you do THAT!" Any loud racket is distracting and I worry if the neighbors are calling LE.

do it for me. I'm not real big on talking dirty, and the "Oh, yeah, Baby, Baby" screams and screeches just sound too fabricated to me. Just some genuine soft moans, and some heavy breathing are all I need.

The best time I've ever had was one provider friend who became more than a friend-  I can still here the moan's echoing in my mind as she said over and over again for over an hour while arched back over an ottoman... "It's never been this good".

She had wonderful effect on me too- her touch all over my body just mesmerized me, and I'd spontaneously laugh or giggle, which kind of freaked her out.  Never had that with anyone else, ususally I vocalize in other ways, not a laugh or giggle.  Sadly, a few weeks later it ended.

I too as someone else said am not in to the "Oh Baby"....  "Come for me Baby" crap- sounds too contrived and just distracts me.

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Oh yeah, now I get it.

You're talking about things like:
"That's it?"
"That was ... nice ... really ..."
"It's ok, I almost never orgasm anyway."

or my favorite:

{YAWWWNNNNN}

Whew, I was a little worried there for a second.

But any non-contrived noise they make is great!  I like hearing little gasps of pleasure when I do something, breathless "Don't stop,"  also right before a man comes and his voice sounds strained, very sexy.

But the best, BEST, best, happens when he moans while kissing my mouth.

I prefer them to be loud, but also want it to be real. I also like it when they talk dirty, cause I do that as well

I am very much the moaner, gasper when I am getting licked and fondled but when I'm getting pounded I tend to talk dirty I just like it like that.

I also tend to talk very very dirty when I do hj's for some reason. Nice dark room, my warm hand and lips against your ear while I stroke....

I don't care as long as it's REAL and not faked or enhanced.  I've gone down on a woman and as soon as my lips brushed her she started yelling and telling me how great it was.  OK, I am good at DATY, but come on now.  You can't possibly be in so much ecstacy from me just barely touching your labia that it causes you to immediately scream how good it is and you are about to cum.  That just drove me away as I KNEW she was faking it.  You can tell when it's real.

One time I was with a provider at her place and she had to put her hand over my mouth she made me come so hard.  She said I was going to wake her neighbors.  

In general, most people I have been with have not been comfortable making noise if they thought someone could hear.  One ex-GF of mine and I made so much noise that the next morning the 16 year old daughter of my neighbor commented to me about how much noise we were making.  That was interesting.

I had a GF who would speak other languages to me at times when we were having sex.  For some reason it was really hot.

Baby, I'd fuck you for free!

Just after they stick the envelope in their purse.  LOL

Had a fling with a waiter in Evian once.  He spoke English, but I really liked it when he spoke French.  

I enjoyed visualizing and imagining the sounds during my morning run. In my fantasy you were also gently licking my ear: I hope you don't mind my addition, after all it's my fantasy

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Anyway it comes. I like moans, groans, panting ,huffig puffing , but I love dirty talk when i am hot.The key here being when I am hot . I love to feel your lips up against my neck and ear , feeling and smelling your breath in my face and on me  , the man smell coming from you. I love to get lost in a moment...I love the instuctional type of talk and I consider it real if a man says something dirty he wants I assume he is in fact for realand wants it and isn't faking So HOT, tell me what you want, let me give it . I when I am very excited have been known to say somethings that it would appear some of the guys here don't like according to their responses, although I haven't met those guys in the real world .Or maybe it's that if it is real , a mutually shared moment , not contrived or fake the boys here would feel differently too? Talking in sex or normal conversation is an exchange if both people are on the same page the convo can be quite hot.It clearly isn't for everyone. Oh and btw , I won't fake it for you. Why would I? You might stop trying thinking mission accomplished. Hell no Kendall

I'm very confused! I clearly remember reading many many times that any currency that might be exchanged is purely for time and companionship only and anything else that might occur.......

Unless you have an occasional drunken moment or feel especially feisty, it becomes too comical to me to have someone spank me and say, "Who's your daddy?" and "Do you want my hard cock in you?" However, I do like communication and someone to honestly tell me what he likes and vice versa.

Now, I'm not saying I don't enjoy free speech and it can be fun at times; however, the majority of the time I'd rather have panting, moaning and a big release at the end. It's so much sexier.

Hugs,
Ciara

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