As you well know many people see/do not see us ladies based on our board persona.  

Whilst that is a great technique if you want to meet girls who wear their hearts on their sleeve it is not always such for gals who like to shoot the shit on here and (while they may be more serious BCD) just plain goof off.  

For example Cosette is a great gal, she comes off as inquisitive and occasionally sends out a jab or two but still looks super cute doing it, bcd she may be the most articulate person you've ever met or the opera know it all.  

Julia - ah my Machiavelli of the boards. My personal favorite tied with my cajun wife (cough cough LR). She's kinda balls to the wall, hey fuck you type. I love it. Behind the curtain she's supportive and sweet just as she is on our regional board. I daresay she'd let me cuddle her after she whipped my butt round one.  

The list could go on but you get the idea.  

Our board persona only shows but show much. Some fact. Some fallacy. Some just there to entice you into coming to se us. Some are 100 percent them. Some not. It's personal preference.  

Read the reviews yeah blah blah blah.  

My point is lately (ahem yeah this one's for you honey) some people have expected 'their' providers are a carbon copy of their board persona. I for one am not. I can be on the fence about a lot of things. I tend to take a gents side for petty things because I grew up with dudes. But BCD I'm not missariarocchi. I'm simply Aria. Don't expect me to spout off about my gun collection and how many bear I've kiled in my lifetime as soon as you walk through the door. Don't think that my beliefs are 100 percent firm and set in based on what you've read. I'm 20 for chrissakes I'm going to change my mind, political views, etc.  

This is my anonymous personality, someone I can be online to goof off with others who don't want to be themselves either.  

Like a fucking WoW chatroom. Except World of War craft kids are way meaner than you shit dicks

Argue on.  

I'm out til after lunch. Over.

This tells me you are already ahead of the game, or me anyhow.

I am not a lot different in person than I am here on the board. I don't suffer "stupid" willingly, I am likely to tell you EXACTLY what I think, and I am not one to "suck up".  

As for the ladies, there are a few that I would love to meet, even if they are not my type, and I have no desire to "book" with, simply because of their board personas, and there are several that I have ZERO desire to meet, for the very same reason.

You are one of those that I would enjoy meeting some day, although I doubt I am on YOUR "must meet" list, but a large part of my deslre to meet you is based on the fact that I simply love young, hot Asian women. I have a feeling that if I lived in the Carolinas, I'd be knocking at your door rather frequently.

What I do find ironic is the number of women who are definitely NOT my type that I am friends with her, I have lost track of the number of PM's I have received that start with "I know I am not your type, but if you ever want to grab a drink", some of those PM's have led to lasting friendships, contrary to popular opinion around here, you don't have to want to fuck a woman to be her friend, but I will concede, it doesn't hurt either. lol

.. you can even meet Cosette.

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I've only dated 2 TER'd girls. One was a worthless fatass and the other's in the pokey. I have never planned to date anyone I battle with here. For some odd reason the girls I meet on other boards have panned out as better bets.


I also intentionally come off as a callous, judgmental, persnickety asshole here. Its fun and not meant to distance me from others but thank God it does lol

One thing I'm NOT is a doormat for women. They desire to be equal so I afford them every opportunity to be just that. I don't offer gender-based concessions or handicapps

I'm not sure what you are saying there.
Anyway...
I never judge a girl based on what they post here...
Who the fuck am I to judge??

Plus I like the fact that a girl would put her biz on the line to say what she thinks is right..
It's honorable.. I guess I respect that.. So don't worry ladies...
Tell us to go fuck ourselves.. You will all use an alias though..  
I don't blame you...

I'm reminded of dealing with shithole customers when I was a waiter.

Or maybe she's pissed at you for being such a pussy?
As for me, my board persona is pretty much who I am, for better or for worse.  Why in God's name should I care enough about what anybody thinks to invent a separate persona and invest enough energy to stick to it.

On the board I come off as some serious drunk who attends AA meetings and show up shit faced at a girls Incall and blow chunks after chunks. While the blowing chunks part does happen from time it's been a couple months since I blew chunks. Mostly cuz I still hang out with 20somethings and their parties can get a bit wild.  

In person I'm the most gentle nicest kindest warm-hearted considerate selfless caring and somewhat Sober guy a lady would ever meet. And My dick is slightly  bigger than one/10th inch too.  Lol

that he is just as big a pig in person.

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I definitely haven't tried to create a persona and can honestly say my beliefs shown here are my beliefs in real life, but it's in the attitude that I'm different. Like you, if someone expects a carbon copy of Cosette the first time meeting, that may be an issue. I'm quite shy in person, I need time to get to know someone, read them, find them interesting, etc.  

Also, I'm not as combative in person, and I'm quite funnier I promise!

p.s. never been on a WoW chatroom, but agree, these guys have nothing on some weirdos out there - Reddit commenters, oy, I'd borrow a gun from your collection just to go pay them a visit.

Short and sweet, some 'regular' decided I was a hypocrite based on my board posts because I called him out on his bullshit.  

When I went on hiatus (without announcing it) and apparently received reviews while I was away, he tried to pull the ol' well you say you don't do this but your reviews and board posts say you do.  

So needless to say he is no longer an esteemed friend of mine.  

TER Aria is a much more abrasive bitch than BCD Aria, because why? Because when you're with me, it's about us and OUR time. These boards will wait, they'll be here tomorrow and the next day so when you have my time and attention, it's you and me. Not you and me and Julia (which I wouldn't mind) and ADJ and GaG and Drunken Asian, it's just us. In that span of time fck the boards for all I care, to hell with em, don't bring that shit up to ruin the time you have to spend with me. Just don't. It's stupid and pointless.  

For two years I used this board strictly for the ad board and to see how everyone was doing, a lot's changed in the hobby the few years I've been in and I'm damn sure not going to let one guy who's just as 'morally corrupt' as I am make me feel like a slovenly piece of work. I'm a well sculpted piece of psychotic bitch thank you.  

PS Hound baby, I never use an alias, why? Because I don't have VIP and I don't want it. I don't want to read other girls' reviews, I don't care what guys write reviews about who, I don't care about the numbers or the rankings, I'm here to have fun.  

 

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I was writing you a sincere answer.
But now I'll have to rethink it since your bottom line post here came across differently in tone.  
FWIW, I like your board persona.

But apparently different situations of a similar scenario are popping up

I'm going through a stage in my life where my priorities are not really about leisure. This is my 'fun way out'.  

& it seems like there are some people hell bent on ruining that for me.  

I don't do Facebook, Twitter, social media IRL. Most of missariarocchi is a part of me, but I promise I'm much nicer in person.  

I didn't come to the GD boards to get more clientele, if they came that's an added bonus to be able to spend time with people I respect

I for one, think you are interesting and funny. The other day I think you took my response to your funny post other than how I meant it, and I apologize if you did for not being clear. I'm not always as articulate as I'd like to be, I'm a Scientist, not a English professor.

Oh, and by the way, I'm not an alcoholic (Alcky as you so eloquently put it) I don't go to those meetings, they cut into my drinking time. I am however, admittedly, a drunk. I don't drink and drive and I don't let my drinking affect others, except perhaps when I post while drinking but nobody has to read my senseless babbling. Just sayin.

I'm a poker player, I've won more than I've lost, and so I feel that I'm pretty good at reading people. When I read between your lines I think I see a woman who I'd enjoy the downtime with nearly as much as the action. To be a little more clear, I think I'd enjoy hanging out with you.

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I became enamored of your open and inquisitive style, and as far as I'm concerned WYSIWYG.

Sarcasm in writing - it can be meant in fun, but can piss a lot of people off.  

Oopsie! Lol. I've begun to proofread my texts significantly since I read that.

Great post.

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and nobody around here is EVER sarcastic, are they???

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by some dipshit trying to convince us that his/her "board persona" is a complete fabrication and in no way depicts who they are in "real life"...  

I've been playing on chat boards since they were "dial-up" access on Unix operating systems (pre-GUI), and I am personally convinced that long term consistent posters cannot maintain a fake persona. It's extremely difficult to stay in character consistently and tell the same lies and keep the stories straight. Difficult enough to be beyond most peoples capability. It's one of the reasons why some of the folks here that actually give a shit about alias' and try to sniff them out are successful.. it's just too damn hard to create and maintain a persona that is not reflective of your core..

There may be the odd sufferer of multiple personality disorder or academy award winner class actor/actress that could pull it off, but for the bulk of us, our real personality is going to bleed through sooner or later.

Just kidding. I just don't want people to expect me to act THE EXACT SAME bcd that I do here

I responded, so the response would have been different...  

as for your position, I certainly wouldn't expect you to act the same way here as BCD.. it is entirely different context, but I would expect to see elements of who you are here when BCD..

I think I am safe in stating that I am not the exactly the same at REI as I am BCD.. which is probably a good thing or I would be wearing pink long johns at tent city..

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