I want to bring a really great lady that I meet here on a vacation. Any other guys have experiences with that? I have the money, I just want to know if you could really enjoy her company the way you'd enjoy a girlfriend's or wife's companionship.

I do not know how so many escorts just hop on a plane to vacay with a guy they have never met, but I guess money and acting skills talk. I would never do it, without spending some time with that person for at least 4 hours prior. There are many things that need to be understood with such an extended trip, such as alone time WILL be expected!

Total fk'n disaster.  Before TER days, took a lady I thought we had something going to a conference at a resort,  She ended up hooking up with some other guy and came home 3 days later.  Doubt I would ever do that again.  Of course, I eventually learned she was a total head case--sort of knew it before but damn, was she hot.  Live and learn.  the conference wasn't that good either,.

I have been on several weekend or longer trips...but as London stated make sure you get along well!!
Have a long visit...maybe a couple...and at least one overnight first!!!

It can try you both if you don't get along superb!!!

Suggestion...
Have a little bit of space for both if you....allow the time to break from each other not huge time maybe just an hour or so to breathe!!!

Not as the poor gent who got ditched...in that case get your money...or don't give her all the money upfront for sure!!!

I have had some awesome trips!!  Longest was 12 days in France & Italy!!!

Trips can cause the best of friends to get on each others nerves if smothered just remember that!!!!

Have fun!!!

It was fun.  He had a conference to attend, so I got plenty of alone time.  It gave me time to return calls and emails, go shopping, shave... you know, girl stuff.  I would never take other appts during that time.  I was making plenty not to have to do that and it was nice having time off and just being relaxed.

We had a blast the time we were together.  Went out, drank a little, ate way too much (turns out we are both foodies - not good!!), bar hopped.  It was fun.

We knew each other already so we both knew what we were in for.

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I've only done this a few times, and each time but the first has been an amazing experience. My very first vacation was with someone I'd been seeing on a weekly basis for about two months, but we only spent a couple hours together each time. He invited me on a weekend getaway, and I said yes ASSuming that because we'd gotten along so well over the last two months, a weekend should go just fine. WRONG. After hearing his side of an unfiltered conversation with his friend, I realized we couldn't have been more incompatible. I let him know how I felt and why during lunch after the first night, and although he was surprised, he understood and agreed that we both may have jumped the gun. Even though we no longer play with one another, all is well between the two of us and we're still friendly. Unfortunately, it doesn't always end up that way. It's a lot more complicated than making sure everyone has a little alone time.  

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i was down in Costa Rica with my wife. This guy walks by that was pushing 400 pounds and was as white as a beluga whale. A few minutes later this total hottie walks by in her tiny thong and lays down beside him and starts to slather on some much needed sunscreen. My wife is speechless. I said hony she is a pro. She said a pro what?

I have been hobbying for over 30 years and never considered traveling with a provider until about 3 years ago.  I met a provider who was not only a sexual dynamo, but also highly intelligent, quite fascinating and a real entpreneur.  Before taking the overnight step, I thought we should try afternoon dates where we would have lunch, do an activity, such as a massage, museum, horseback riding, etc, and then play.  These worked out great, and we really learned a lot about each other.  I felt truly that we both enjoyed each others company.  I then felt comfortable enough to try an overnight.

Since then, we have taken numerous trips, usually 2 to 4 days.  Based on my experience, I would suggest the following:

1.  Never forget that no matter what the "chemistry", it is always p4p.  You must discuss her fees before you go.  You must also be prepared to pay all expenses, such as massages and hair salon.

2.  You should also plan what you will be doing during the day.  I'm 70 years old, so 24/7 sex is not an issue (once per 24 is an achievement)!!  Both of us explore on the web what things there are to do wherever we are going.  We then decide what looks good, and I try to make the necessary arrangements before we go.

3.  Private time is very important, and you should definitely respect her needs in this regard.  I always try to book a suite that has a separate bedroom and living room.  This way, after we return from an active day, we each have privacy until we get ready for dinner.

Good luck to you.  If it works, I believe you will be a very happy camper.  For me, it has been great, and I am hoping to try a week or more soon!

I've been with guys who were so hot I was actually nervous to get naked, but at the same time...after the sex, I wanted to pull my hair out because they had the personality of a green bean.

The worst trip I've ever taken in my life was a 10 day trip to Hawaii with a provider that I had been dating for a few months, we got along well at home and had spent a few nights together and had planned this for a month or two for her to take a vacation. We had originally planned a cruise together, but I had a one day business meeting in Oahu and I client that I wanted to meet in person on Maui, so we planned a ten day vacation around it.

Let me just say it was the longest ten days I have ever spent in my life. It started out from the moment we checked in and I got upgraded to a beautiful thousand dollar a night suite for three hundred bucks and she told me "Her friend" could have done better, and it all went downhill from there. The first night we didn't even have sex, which I understood since we had just got off from a 12 hour flight, but the next night she made some comment about "rewarding me" and started to give me a "session" and the most mechanical one I've ever had at that. It was some of the worst "hooker sex" I had ever had in my life and we'd been dating for months.

Needless to say, the relationship ended the minute we got off the plane at home.

OTOH, I have had some wonderful vacations with other ladies over the years, but just try to make sure it's someone that you really have some chemistry with, or you'll be like a coyote in a trap trying to chew your own leg off in order to escape. lol

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"...shave.."

That was hilarious

A few lessons learned.

I have traveled with several professional ladies over the years.  Here is some of what I have learned in the process.

First, let’s get the whole “She is getting a free vacation so why should she charge for anything beyond the sex” thing behind us. It is not just about the sex. Beyond the lost work and other personal inconveniences already mentioned many times, she is being “hired” by you to act like she is your girlfriend continuously for days. Actually, she has to behave far better than a girlfriend would. She has to be constantly on her best professional behavior. No grumpiness. No disagreeability. No pouting. No whining. No snapping at you when you do something she does not like. She has to stay in-character the whole time, and pretend to agree with you about pretty much everything. This is what you are really paying for.

Watch out for a “cash and dash” even with someone you think you know well. I had spent multiple overnights with one lady a while back, before taking her on a three day business trip. Hell, I had been to her house and taken her and her daughter out to dinner. Anyway, less than 24 hours into the trip, I came back from a meeting to find her packed up and waiting for a cab to the airport. Her daughter was sick, and she had to go home with my three-day fee in her purse.

I really think that the key to a successful trip is the full participation of the lady in every detail – starting with decisions like where and when to go, where to stay, and what to do. Make sure that it is her trip as much as it is yours. I give my friend my full business travel schedule, from which she is welcome to pick anything that interests her. As for non-work trips, she has always been the one who made the proposals as to where and when she would like to go.

Picking the right accommodations can make a huge difference. Spring for an apartment or suite instead of a hotel room. A fridge and minimal cooking facilities mean not having to go out or do room service for every meal or snack. Separate bathrooms will work wonders. She will also appreciate a private spot with a door she can close whenever she wishes. A washer/dryer will allow her to pack less. Unlimited internet access is mandatory. Waking up next to a beautiful woman can be over-rated. Beautiful women maintain their beauty through overnight regimens that you may not find visually appealing. You both may find it more comfortable to sleep separately. This is not a sex-filled overnight. This is a longer trip with full days of activities ahead. Sleep is important.

Since the lady is likely to feel uncomfortable telling you if she is uncomfortable with arrangements, you have to be especially diligent in looking for signs. Having taken a lady out to a first class restaurant on a night when she really would have preferred to stay in, I can testify that you will suffer if you fail to notice the signs. Also, do not go overboard with making everything the finest, most expensive, dramatic, etc. The simple, unplanned, serendipitous moments are often the most memorable.

Enjoy!

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i dont take vacations however after a few house, apartment maid cleanings with my
weekly la, ca regulars have gone on some half whole day maid cleaning packages
its alot of fun they get to choose where theyd like to go for half day since they are
the ones taking the day off work only years maid service veterans like us know how to treat our
wonderful clients thats why they keep it low and know very few or only one two at most whyspoil a good thing

This sounds lovely! There's a girl I've seen somewhat recently that I would love to try ALL of this with!