I absolutely LOVE when my BF sticks his cock in me RIGHT after I cum from DATY. I definitely can cum from vaginal, it is not as intense, or as satisfying as oral, but it still feels really great. Esp when I am having sex with my BF and doing our dirty/role play talk... this makes me GUSH and makes me so wet I have BUBBLED inside my pussy...
As for anal, I cum from that too, but is a different O. Anal O's start in my toes lol.
I also can cum from my neck being kissed, and sucked and bit HARD lol
SO I disagree that women can not O in other ways except by their clit...
I do however prefer DATY...
I dated a guy once who was SMALL! but he was sooooo good at DATY, he made up for any "short-comings" lol
I will add here, that for me, especially with my bf, a huge percentage of the sex and arousal is MENTAL!!!