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Ladies: Best % guess on growers versus showers?
ABC1234qq 23 Reviews 1652 reads
posted
1 / 25
Ladies: Best % guess on growers versus showers?

Who would know better than providers. Are most guys growers or showers?  Do stereotypes hold true with blacks on one end of the extreme and Asians the other with overall size?  

Im a big, muscular,  athletic guy. Often get mistaken for an athlete and was one in my younger years. Unfortunately Im a grower and have spent most of my civvie dating life making sure the pants dont come off until Im aroused...and then the quick underwear back on afterwards or lay on the bed on my stomach just to try and hide my "irish curse" as I call it. You want to shower with me?(civie world) Cool, as long as its part of sex otherwise no..  Its a part time job trying to hide Im basicly a small,  scared turtle until Im aroused at which point Im average long and a bit thicker than average.  Truthfully Ive always thought it damaged my confidence having a stubby and having to hide it until he was ready to go. I took the worlds fastest showers after  HS football games. My big jock image would be killed if the world learned Im 2 inches flacid...used to give me a lot of stress.

When I started the hobby I was horrified that I was asked to take off my clothes , like at the doctors office, without any adequate warmup (kissing, touching, etc) and just standing there with a tiny, flaccid pecker. Downright embarrassing. Im perfectly adequate once aroused but most of my machoism, tough guy persona, gets a cold reality check when I drop drawers  and am tiny and  flacid. Makes me really appreciate the gfe types who give you sweet kisses and touches to warm you up before the clothes drop . Im 6 feet 3 250 lbs in good shape. I have often debated if I would trade that to be 5 ft 5 150 lbs but have a 7 inch flacid pecker..  
 
Im guessing most providers dont care either was  but what percentage of guys do you think are growers versus showers?  I would give a large amount of money to be flacid and 6 inches. I would walk around like the King of Cocks..instead of the baby prince of turtles, lol.

nobody305 489 reads
posted
2 / 25
Grower

I am also a grower especially on a cold winter night it is totally in it shell then.

rrasha88 See my TER Reviews 474 reads
posted
3 / 25
Whether show or grow…

Ho + dough = blow.

bigguy30 365 reads
posted
4 / 25
The real question is why do you care about other men dick sizes?

Most providers care about the green.
Then most men only care about fucking a beautiful provider.
I am very happy with my equipment and could care less about another man size!
 

Posted By: ABC1234qq
Who would know better than providers. Are most guys growers or showers?  Do stereotypes hold true with blacks on one end of the extreme and Asians the other with overall size?  
   
 Im a big, muscular,  athletic guy. Often get mistaken for an athlete and was one in my younger years. Unfortunately Im a grower and have spent most of my civvie dating life making sure the pants dont come off until Im aroused...and then the quick underwear back on afterwards or lay on the bed on my stomach just to try and hide my "irish curse" as I call it. You want to shower with me?(civie world) Cool, as long as its part of sex otherwise no..  Its a part time job trying to hide Im basicly a small,  scared turtle until Im aroused at which point Im average long and a bit thicker than average.  Truthfully Ive always thought it damaged my confidence having a stubby and having to hide it until he was ready to go. I took the worlds fastest showers after  HS football games. My big jock image would be killed if the world learned Im 2 inches flacid...used to give me a lot of stress.  
   
 When I started the hobby I was horrified that I was asked to take off my clothes , like at the doctors office, without any adequate warmup (kissing, touching, etc) and just standing there with a tiny, flaccid pecker. Downright embarrassing. Im perfectly adequate once aroused but most of my machoism, tough guy persona, gets a cold reality check when I drop drawers  and am tiny and  flacid. Makes me really appreciate the gfe types who give you sweet kisses and touches to warm you up before the clothes drop . Im 6 feet 3 250 lbs in good shape. I have often debated if I would trade that to be 5 ft 5 150 lbs but have a 7 inch flacid pecker..  
   
 Im guessing most providers dont care either was  but what percentage of guys do you think are growers versus showers?  I would give a large amount of money to be flacid and 6 inches. I would walk around like the King of Cocks..instead of the baby prince of turtles, lol.  
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12pointbuck75 18 Reviews 305 reads
posted
5 / 25
Ladies tell me it's how you use it.

If you have 2 inches put it in 3 times as much and you have done the same as the 6" Tool Man

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 350 reads
posted
6 / 25
Re: The real question is why do you care about other men dick sizes?

Posted By: bigguy30
Most providers care about the green.  
 Then most men only care about fucking a beautiful provider.  
 I am very happy with my equipment and could care less about another man size!                            You make good point here.
   
   
Posted By: ABC1234qq
Who would know better than providers. Are most guys growers or showers?  Do stereotypes hold true with blacks on one end of the extreme and Asians the other with overall size?    
     
  Im a big, muscular,  athletic guy. Often get mistaken for an athlete and was one in my younger years. Unfortunately Im a grower and have spent most of my civvie dating life making sure the pants dont come off until Im aroused...and then the quick underwear back on afterwards or lay on the bed on my stomach just to try and hide my "irish curse" as I call it. You want to shower with me?(civie world) Cool, as long as its part of sex otherwise no..  Its a part time job trying to hide Im basicly a small,  scared turtle until Im aroused at which point Im average long and a bit thicker than average.  Truthfully Ive always thought it damaged my confidence having a stubby and having to hide it until he was ready to go. I took the worlds fastest showers after  HS football games. My big jock image would be killed if the world learned Im 2 inches flacid...used to give me a lot of stress.  
     
  When I started the hobby I was horrified that I was asked to take off my clothes , like at the doctors office, without any adequate warmup (kissing, touching, etc) and just standing there with a tiny, flaccid pecker. Downright embarrassing. Im perfectly adequate once aroused but most of my machoism, tough guy persona, gets a cold reality check when I drop drawers  and am tiny and  flacid. Makes me really appreciate the gfe types who give you sweet kisses and touches to warm you up before the clothes drop . Im 6 feet 3 250 lbs in good shape. I have often debated if I would trade that to be 5 ft 5 150 lbs but have a 7 inch flacid pecker..    
     
  Im guessing most providers dont care either was  but what percentage of guys do you think are growers versus showers?  I would give a large amount of money to be flacid and 6 inches. I would walk around like the King of Cocks..instead of the baby prince of turtles, lol.  
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GaGambler 378 reads
posted
7 / 25
Typical SPOTY, you have been calling everyone who makes fun of you "insecure" since you got here

Now you finally get a poster who truly is insecure and you don't recognize it, you truly are TERs dimmest bulb.

As for the OP, he is right, the ladies are the ones who are the experts on this subject, as they see more dicks than any straight guy ever will, but I will add my two cents just for the record. I too am a grower, but fortunately I get aroused just being in the same room as a beautiful woman and after sex, does it really matter is you have "shrinkage" as long as you did your job while hard?

Lea_ThePrivAsst See my TER Reviews 459 reads
posted
8 / 25
CORRECTION: In my experience, less than 10% ...

Are what I would classify as "growers" - someone who looks much less than average when flaccid.  
Most guys are a few inches from fully inflated.  

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bigguy30 269 reads
posted
9 / 25
Why am I not surprised insecure GaG has to answer.

I guess the name calling is just a way for him to feel better.  
Also real men don't care either and focus on themselves.

Posted By: GaGambler
Now you finally get a poster who truly is insecure and you don't recognize it, you truly are TERs dimmest bulb.  
   
 As for the OP, he is right, the ladies are the ones who are the experts on this subject, as they see more dicks than any straight guy ever will, but I will add my two cents just for the record. I too am a grower, but fortunately I get aroused just being in the same room as a beautiful woman and after sex, does it really matter is you have "shrinkage" as long as you did your job while hard?

elainaamhurst See my TER Reviews 327 reads
posted
10 / 25
I agree...

many men really are insecure about their packages. In my experience, the majority of guys are growers. And like GaGa said, after the fact, who really cares! If the lady in question, civi or professional, has already seen it erect and been satisfied, then why hide the shrinkage?  

I think that if you just let go of all of that, you will enjoy yourself much more, not only in your sex life, but the rest of your life as well. Life is just too damn short, to spend time worrying about things that you can not change.

followme 276 reads
posted
11 / 25
Re: Typical SPOTY, you have been calling everyone who makes fun of you "insecure" since you got here

Hmmmm, perhaps to cover up his own insecurities.  

He does constantly go out of his way to say he only sees real women who are born woman.
That alone says a lot.

 
Thank you  
2016 = 28

GaGambler 235 reads
posted
12 / 25
Are you suggesting that FG might have "tendencies"???

It would explain a lot, I wonder what would happen if he and TS Sasha were to get trapped in an elevator together for a couple of hours? Do you think his "real" nature might take over?

the real question is when rescued would he be sucking her dick, would he be fucking her, or would she be fucking him? I'll take a wild stab at this and guess he'd be sucking her cock. Which way do you think he rolls?

followme 214 reads
posted
13 / 25
Re: It is not so much as I'm suggesting he has "tendencies" rather he

Basically admits it in his reaction, actually over-reaction and as I've mentioned his constant going out of his way to say he only fucks real females who are born female etc.

As for your elevator question, especially if a few hours,  no doubt that all you mention will occur. When rescued my guess, especially after a few hours, they will be cuddling DFK'ing and basking in the after glow.

 
Thank you  
2016 = 28

bigguy30 226 reads
posted
14 / 25
FM you talk alot for a man that never met me or can't submit a current review.

I guess this is what a real insecure person does make up things.

Posted By: followme
Basically admits it in his reaction, actually over-reaction and as I've mentioned his constant going out of his way to say he only fucks real females who are born female etc.  
   
 As for your elevator question, especially if a few hours,  no doubt that all you mention will occur. When rescued my guess, especially after a few hours, they will be cuddling DFK'ing and basking in the after glow.  
   
   
 Thank you  
 2016 = 28
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bigguy30 172 reads
posted
15 / 25
GaG again showing why you are so insecure on here.

You are another member of the insecure club that never met me.
I don't have to lie and make up stories on here like you.
Also I wonder why you would care about another man's dick size or compare yourself?

It explains a lot about your insecurity and now you are bringing up TS.
You and followme must really have something for Sasha but I will leave it between the three of you.
Just don't care and it's never been my thing.
Posted By: GaGambler
It would explain a lot, I wonder what would happen if he and TS Sasha were to get trapped in an elevator together for a couple of hours? Do you think his "real" nature might take over?  
   
 the real question is when rescued would he be sucking her dick, would he be fucking her, or would she be fucking him? I'll take a wild stab at this and guess he'd be sucking her cock. Which way do you think he rolls?

bigguy30 178 reads
posted
16 / 25
FM I wonder why you are on here?

It's not for the woman but again that is your business.
Just remember real woman are the best and that is who I enjoy seeing smart guy.
I guess we disagree on this subject but that is your right too.

Also me having issues or insecure?
Well let's just say your still wrong. Lol
Posted By: followme
Hmmmm, perhaps to cover up his own insecurities.  
   
 He does constantly go out of his way to say he only sees real women who are born woman.  
 That alone says a lot.  
   
   
 Thank you  
 2016 = 28
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Greenbacks2 31 Reviews 261 reads
posted
17 / 25
I used to think

I was small but after seeing a number of providers the tell me I have nice big fat dick.

GaGambler 218 reads
posted
18 / 25
I am not the insecure one here, I LIKE Sasha, and I don't mind telling the world I like her

I don't want to have sex with her, but I don't want to have sex with many of my "board buds" that happen to be hookers. The difference between you and me (ok one of the many differences) is that I am secure enough in my sexuality not to care what others think. If you think Sasha and I are bumping uglies in secret, I don't care a bit what you think. You OTOH seem to care a LOT that everyone knows you only see "real women" you might try asking yourself why our opinion is so important to you.

Or I suppose you can ask yourself the other question, Are you trying to convince us or yourself that you don't secretly want to suck her dick just once?

followme 213 reads
posted
19 / 25
Re: Even when I am nice enough to point out to him

that he is over-reacting, he continues to do so again and again.

I guess some people are not smart enough to put down the shovel, they just keep digging deeper and deeper  
and the more they dig shows just how desperate.

I suspect he will not heed my friendly advice and he will continue to dig, dig, dig.

Some are just beyond help, I suppose.

Thank you  
2016 = 2

scb19 10 Reviews 266 reads
posted
20 / 25
absolutely best post ever..."irish curse"

Posted By: ABC1234qq
Who would know better than providers. Are most guys growers or showers?  Do stereotypes hold true with blacks on one end of the extreme and Asians the other with overall size?  
   
 Im a big, muscular,  athletic guy. Often get mistaken for an athlete and was one in my younger years. Unfortunately Im a grower and have spent most of my civvie dating life making sure the pants dont come off until Im aroused...and then the quick underwear back on afterwards or lay on the bed on my stomach just to try and hide my "irish curse" as I call it. You want to shower with me?(civie world) Cool, as long as its part of sex otherwise no..  Its a part time job trying to hide Im basicly a small,  scared turtle until Im aroused at which point Im average long and a bit thicker than average.  Truthfully Ive always thought it damaged my confidence having a stubby and having to hide it until he was ready to go. I took the worlds fastest showers after  HS football games. My big jock image would be killed if the world learned Im 2 inches flacid...used to give me a lot of stress.  
   
 When I started the hobby I was horrified that I was asked to take off my clothes , like at the doctors office, without any adequate warmup (kissing, touching, etc) and just standing there with a tiny, flaccid pecker. Downright embarrassing. Im perfectly adequate once aroused but most of my machoism, tough guy persona, gets a cold reality check when I drop drawers  and am tiny and  flacid. Makes me really appreciate the gfe types who give you sweet kisses and touches to warm you up before the clothes drop . Im 6 feet 3 250 lbs in good shape. I have often debated if I would trade that to be 5 ft 5 150 lbs but have a 7 inch flacid pecker..  
   
 Im guessing most providers dont care either was  but what percentage of guys do you think are growers versus showers?  I would give a large amount of money to be flacid and 6 inches. I would walk around like the King of Cocks..instead of the baby prince of turtles, lol.  

bigguy30 177 reads
posted
21 / 25
GaGambler you keep double talking yourself.

You are the one that keeps saying Sasha in your comments.
Just own it and move on already. Lol

Posted By: GaGambler
I don't want to have sex with her, but I don't want to have sex with many of my "board buds" that happen to be hookers. The difference between you and me (ok one of the many differences) is that I am secure enough in my sexuality not to care what others think. If you think Sasha and I are bumping uglies in secret, I don't care a bit what you think. You OTOH seem to care a LOT that everyone knows you only see "real women" you might try asking yourself why our opinion is so important to you.  
   
 Or I suppose you can ask yourself the other question, Are you trying to convince us or yourself that you don't secretly want to suck her dick just once?


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vantheman666 11 Reviews 270 reads
posted
22 / 25
I'm a grower

That thing blows up like a fucking balloon... and the ladies love it.

12pointbuck75 18 Reviews 184 reads
posted
23 / 25
You don't know.

Transplants will be one day grown in the lab and everyone will have a logger head.      You lady's will think that a tribe of warriors are at hand.   Lol.    We might be the ones that are providing.   Yhoo Hoo.

expat337 60 Reviews 145 reads
posted
24 / 25
And you believe them??!!

They tell me that shit too but I don't buy it for a second. Like they would ever say "ummm yeah your dick is kinda smal"

LillianWest See my TER Reviews 166 reads
posted
25 / 25
huge grower....

I had a friend who was a grower, but when fully erect was a thick as a beer can and above average length. You have a secret weapon!

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