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I was a jerk yesterday to literbike, yesterday and I want to take back what I said about her being disrespectful and being dishonest. It was me being disrespectful. I attacked with out cause. My behavior on this forum towards her yesterday was not excusable. I am not normally that big of an ass, and she did not deserved most of what I said. I was being a hypocrite. I know old post can get buried and over looked so wanted to post this where I know it will be seen. Literbike, I am sorry. I also want to say despite my disrespectful posts toward her she responded with respectful posts that countered every grip I listed about her. She is a better lady than I am a man.

GaGamblerssmarterbrother255 reads

and since I was not the aggrieved party, I don't need to be gracious. lol

That said, at least you realized the error of your ways, sucked it up, and apoogized. Many, if not most here would not have done so. So props for that.

But if any asshole responds with the ubiquitous and annoying "classy post", I will hunt them down and make sure they suffer a slow and painful death.

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MP67289 reads

First off scoed, though the fact you apologized in public like this to literbike, yeah, shows a certain sense of decorum. I might be wrong, but I think she would've appreciated it better if you did it by PM. That's just me.

There's a reason why we don't see her reviews, website, whatever. She's private in that way, and I respect that. Just like I don't call out Gambler or KJ because they don't post reviews. It's none of my business, and if we have a beef, we'll do it thru PM.

Granted, we might fuck with each other, but it's all in good fun. They know I won't call 'bullshit' maliciously infront of everyone else.

Alias', however, when I know it's someone that just doesn't dig me and doesn't have the nerve(I'll say this instead of balls because a 'lady' came at me the other day), I have no respect for. Whether they do for me, I can give a fuck.

When you see me coming, you know it's me. And before anyone spouts off, how much I drank is irrelevent. I don't hide. Not my nature.

So, I appreciate what you're doing, but for future reference, I think it would be prudent if not only you but anyone here would take into consideration if they feel the need to apologize to someone for whatever infraction, ask the intended first what they prefer thru PM.

Might make for a lot less drama, and having some fool like me comment on such a thread! ;)

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scoed165 reads

I read in a post a while back that her "literbike" account is not VIP. so she can't get PMs. But I could be wrong. I was yesterday.

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JLWest170 reads

you see her post somewhere apologize there and refer her to this post.

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scoed193 reads

I also apolgized in two of her posts in response to my attacks hoping she sees them.

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MP67143 reads

That means you can send her a PM.

Her and I are not as good as friends as I would like to be. But I dig her and certainly respect her.

You know what to do! ;)

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GaGamblerssmarterbrother112 reads

it does not necessarily mean that she is VIP and can receive PM's.

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WebTerrorist172 reads

The accusations and admonishments were very public, so why should the acknowledgement of going too far, or being wrong in doing so be private?

If the accusations happen where anyone that comes to this board can see it, why let that be all they see?
Why hide the apology?
Why let the accusations stand in public as "true" when in private it is to some extent recanted?

The other day a guy hijacked a thread about the rankings for ladies with a post about being "stood-up" by a lady (that post and its replies have been removed).  She replied that that was not what happened, I believe you even replied to her post....

Now, do you think if the guy that made that accusation against that lady decided to apologise and admit it wasn't a situation of being "stood-up" he should have done that in private? That he should make an accusation in public that could hurt her reputation, only to spinelessly apologise where those that saw accusation couldn't see his admitting he was wrong or misrepresented the situation?  Should he leave the accusation to stand so that it is a "he said / she said" if he then admits what she said is correct?

If the accusations, admonishments, attacks, or whatever are fit for public consumption, then the retraction of the same and apology are just as fit for the public to see.



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scoed100 reads

Posted By: WebTerrorist
The accusations and admonishments were very public, so why should the acknowledgement of going too far, or being wrong in doing so be private?

If the accusations happen where anyone that comes to this board can see it, why let that be all they see?
Why hide the apology?
Why let the accusations stand in public as "true" when in private it is to some extent recanted?

The other day a guy hijacked a thread about the rankings for ladies with a post about being "stood-up" by a lady (that post and its replies have been removed).  She replied that that was not what happened, I believe you even replied to her post....

Now, do you think if the guy that made that accusation against that lady decided to apologise and admit it wasn't a situation of being "stood-up" he should have done that in private? That he should make an accusation in public that could hurt her reputation, only to spinelessly apologise where those that saw accusation couldn't see his admitting he was wrong or misrepresented the situation?  Should he leave the accusation to stand so that it is a "he said / she said" if he then admits what she said is correct?

If the accusations, admonishments, attacks, or whatever are fit for public consumption, then the retraction of the same and apology are just as fit for the public to see.



I think in a situation like this I think both should happen if possible. Apologies are best done one on one so you can better explain yourself and see how they wish to handle it. Then you need to go public to fix the damage you have done. I could not apologize in private as I do not think she has VIP based on a post she made a while back. So I did go strait to the public apology to fix the damage I have done the best I could. One must always try to fix the harm they have done to the best of they ability, and what is fair given the offense, to truly apologize. Attacks on ones character in public can only be fixed in public.  At leased that is my view.

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Smarty1101127 reads

I followed that thread and yes, you were all over her without her responding until the next day.

People come off as "jerk"s often in discussion forums. That's just the way it is. You risk being looked at poorly if it goes on too much. Board presence and persona follows everyone around and a bad persona can label you for a long time. I disagree with other comments that say this should have been handled via PM.

You might do both, yet I am not sure if literbike has PM capability. Regardless, this open apology returns your credibility and board persona to a higher level among the other members of the community. Sometimes it helps if while getting into confrontational discussions to take note of the number of others chiming in with the same thoughts as you. Then no apology would be necessary. I think if you went back to that thread (and I think you have) you would have seen nobody was chiming in on your view of literbike. That can be very telling.

Again, cudo's to you for the public apology. I am also sure that literbike appreciates it as well.

Carry on sir!!!

Posted By: scoed
I was a jerk yesterday to literbike, yesterday and I want to take back what I said about her being disrespectful and being dishonest. It was me being disrespectful. I attacked with out cause. My behavior on this forum towards her yesterday was not excusable. I am not normally that big of an ass, and she did not deserved most of what I said. I was being a hypocrite. I know old post can get buried and over looked so wanted to post this where I know it will be seen. Literbike, I am sorry. I also want to say despite my disrespectful posts toward her she responded with respectful posts that countered every grip I listed about her. She is a better lady than I am a man.

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literbike278 reads

Posted By: scoed
I was a jerk yesterday to literbike, yesterday and I want to take back what I said about her being disrespectful and being dishonest. It was me being disrespectful. I attacked with out cause. My behavior on this forum towards her yesterday was not excusable. I am not normally that big of an ass, and she did not deserved most of what I said. I was being a hypocrite. I know old post can get buried and over looked so wanted to post this where I know it will be seen. Literbike, I am sorry. I also want to say despite my disrespectful posts toward her she responded with respectful posts that countered every grip I listed about her. She is a better lady than I am a man.
Hey scoed. I did reply but it may have gotten buried as that was a long thread.

Now, my level of respect has risen for you. It takes one hell of a person to come on and apologize and your apology is most graciously accepted and there are no hard feelings on my part. Posting while drunk can have an interesting effect..;).

I can certainly see where you got all upset. And I can see where my true feelings posted on the P&R board got your goat. Those aside, my manner in dealing with clients is very different. I see more overweight guys than not...my choice and they are treated with the utmost respect and caring. I put myself in their position in this P4P world and want to make a difference. As for my non attraction...that makes no difference because I am offering a service and as so, feel every obligation to deliver to the best of my abilities. Hell, there are lots of other types I am not attracted to but see them. personal choice sort of goes out the window in this job.

Maybe I am too honest for this board..can't help it. I know I rub some guys the wrong way because I don't act a certain way and have an opinion and choices...can't help that either. But on the whole, I like what I do and am quite good at it and have no reason to hang up my thong just yet.

Again, thank you for being a stand up person. Before that post I thought you were an OK dude and still do...even more so now. You go have a great day scoed and I'd see someone like you before a few others on this board..;)

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scoed119 reads

I seen you reply but didn't have time to reply back. Thank you for accepting my appology. The one sure way to tell that your out of line is that Jack_Schitt comes to you rescue like some kind of white knight. lol. Anyway, thanks for understanding. I gained some respect for you the way you handled the whole mess I caused. Hope there was no real damage done.

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literbike139 reads

Posted By: scoed
I seen you reply but didn't have time to reply back. Thank you for accepting my appology. The one sure way to tell that your out of line is that Jack_Schitt comes to you rescue like some kind of white knight. lol. Anyway, thanks for understanding. I gained some respect for you the way you handled the whole mess I caused. Hope there was no real damage done.
Absolutely no damage done at all. Will welcome more cyber communication.

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hjbknl153 reads

You said you didn't like the girl for your own reasons. I don't know why you feel you have to apologize for that.

I don't care for her either. Not only can she have two different handles, something other providers are told they can't do or they're banned, she can come on here and say she doesn't want reviews and still post. Again something other providers are warned against or we will be delisted. I'm not fond on those who are allowed to do certain things while others can't.

And even though she's using an "alias" handle, it's not too hard to figure out who she is if you open your eyes.

Bye.

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literbike168 reads

Posted By: hjbknl
You said you didn't like the girl for your own reasons. I don't know why you feel you have to apologize for that.

I don't care for her either. Not only can she have two different handles, something other providers are told they can't do or they're banned, she can come on here and say she doesn't want reviews and still post. Again something other providers are warned against or we will be delisted. I'm not fond on those who are allowed to do certain things while others can't.

And even though she's using an "alias" handle, it's not too hard to figure out who she is if you open your eyes.

Bye.
I have one handle that is not linked to any profile. I have reviews, I just don't like getting them. And I am not using an alias. Hope that clears things up for you. have a nice day...

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literbike207 reads

Of course you do.

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little phil131 reads

Personally, I'd be bummed if you left.  I have no idea who you are, as far as linking you to a website or reviews, but I find your mind compelling.  There is a very small list of women here that I would like to spend time with talking, but you are definitely on that list.

For the jokers out there, I didn't say that it would be ONLY talking.  I'm a visual creature (not my fault; it's the byproduct of a third leg), but if you stimulated my eyes like you do my brain, it might end up being pillow talk.

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literbike128 reads

I have no plans on leaving and I'd find it odd is a few people didn't like my style. I have that effect ..mostly on a very small percentage of men...and throw in a few ladies too. It makes life interesting tho.

A lady loves a compliment and I thank you for yours kind Sir. The feeling is very mutual and there are a few guys on here that I would love to hang with too...have a great day

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GaGamblerssmarterbrother119 reads

Personally, I like your style, and I hope our paths cross one of these days.

and somehow I believe there might be one or two people that don't like my style either. I don't know why, you know I am always a sweetheart. lmao

-- Modified on 8/17/2010 1:25:27 PM

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literbike124 reads

Posted By: GaGamblerssmarterbrother
Personally, I like your style, and I hope our paths cross one of these days.

and somehow I believe there might be one or two people that don't like my style either. I don't know why, you know I am always a sweetheart. lmao

-- Modified on 8/17/2010 1:25:27 PM
Yeah you are..and I like what I see. We had better stop this mutual admiration society or we'll catch shit for it...;)

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dblhappy104 reads

Man!

All this kiss-ass brown-nosing is making my making my head spin.

I personally can't stand any of you ... you all hurt my feelings sometimes - LMAO!!

;)

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GaGamblerssmarterbrother89 reads

after all, I have a reputation to uphold. lmao

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Posted By: dblhappy
Man!

All this kiss-ass brown-nosing is making my making my head spin.

I personally can't stand any of you ... you all hurt my feelings sometimes - LMAO!!

;)

lol...I knew it! We'd hurt someones feelings..hey dude how are you? Nice of you to chime in..Oh and you are one of the guys I'd like to hang with...just so as you know...;)

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quadseasonal99 reads

I could have a drink or two with any of you three, gambler, Phil or literbike, and I am sure it would be worth my time, for the conversation, and some laughs.
I am certain  none of you three, are sexually compatible with me.
Thats the best compliment I'm giving tonight.

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dblhappy94 reads

Literbike said:
"Oh and you are one of the guys I'd like to hang with...just so as you know..."

Wow!  I am flattered.  Although, I'm not sure if I should be excited ... or scared - LMAO!!

;)

I'll buy the first couple of rounds.  I'm not exactly a stud, but I can talk a mean game.

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little phil82 reads

Just saying.

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dblhappy106 reads

haethlingss ahhh eiinnngjhuurkk

*removes tongue from ass*

Uh, sorry 'bout that.  Mmmm.
*clearing bad taste from mouth*

Feelings are being hurt.

:(  :(





;)

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Candid-Fucking-Camera111 reads

when they enter her incall.

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GaGamblerssmarterbrother87 reads

but as you know, I couldn't care less who knows about my hobbying. Even my mother knows what a degenerate pig I am. lmao

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Radcow106 reads

Absolutely nothing wrong with your style. Some people have issues with independent thinkers and even more when a woman speaks her mind. I don't think you are a badass. I think you are someone that knows what she doesn't want and you say it out loud.

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