Senario: I set up an outcall for 2 hours for 2 1/2 tokens per hour.
The girl calls at the scheduled time to say she'll be about 20 minutes late.
45 minutes go by and I call her, she says she'll be there in 15 minutes.
She shows up 45 minutes later.
She says traffic and lost and friends called....all the usual excuses instead of just telling it like it is.
I had the usual..a bottle of wine,chocolate,whipped cream and strawberries and grapes.
Needless to say we get down to business quite quickly.
Very good techniques and skills....DATY for 45 minutes with
2 pops and non-stop action.
She definitely made the wait worth it.
After about alittle over an hour of action we fall asleep wrapped together.
I wake up about an hour later an wake her.
She gets up realizes the time and says she needs to get going.
I tell her to take everything with her...the wine,chocolates,etc.
and she accepts.
I had left out the 5 tokens of appreciation.
She picks it up and says I need to give her 5 more for 4 hours.
Not to start an arguement or anything I give her 3.
Question: How would YOU handle this?
         Did I do the gentleman thing?
         Am I the fool?
Any comments would be appreciated!!

Sweetie, where are you - I'll be right over!

Seriously, I think you did the VERY gentlemanly thing.  I'm not so sure I would have been as nice had I been in your shoes.

-Anya

the wine, chocolates, whipped cream, strawberries and grapes you bought.  Did you pay for the room?  Add that back on your bill.  

Then give her an option, take the 5 benjamins or pay me $125 plus all the extras I provided. ($375 for being 90 minutes late, $250 for the hour she slept).

This is one thing that sticks in my craw with SOME providers (notice I didn't say ALL).  They don't realize that we as hobbyist have an "economic cost of time" that should NOT be discounted nor taken lightly.  Of course, one's "economic cost of time" would differ from person to person.

You went beyond the call of duty.  But alas, it is a learning experience.  Thanks for sharing.

Flame away disrespectful providers and ass kissing hobbyist....

-- Modified on 5/30/2002 2:31:18 PM

ok not really, but almost.

Man, what a scam. Charging people for time you're in the car and even better - charging people to watch you sleep! I can see charging a fee for non-sex time - but non-CONSCIOUS time??

So to recap: she was 1.5 hrs late, got 45 minutes of DATY, had refreshments and champagne available, an hour of action, then a leisurely nap for over an hour? And for that she wanted a cool $1000? And you gave her $800? Is that right?

WOW! No, I don't think you're a fool but I think you were more than generous.

and Guido wants his cut no matter what. Tough business

That wasn't very nice of her.  Being that she was late and you were kind enough to wait and still be in a good mood, you were very generous.  It makes me wonder why I work so hard for my reputaion...I mean when there are girls running around making more than me and not being kind.

I would suggest posting a review that tells what happened, it is only fair that her future clients know what they are in for.  

I think the $$$$$ would have been all she got from me.  In the future, pay her for the time scheduled, unless you are both awake and agree that she is staying over for extra.  Or, just be who you are and do what you want.

You gave her 8 tokens for 45-min. works. WOW when are you coming to NC? I would not have been able to live with my conscience knowing that I took 5 tokens from you yet 8.
As I see it the first hour was her loss. The second hour she gets paid maybe 3 or 4 of the tokens sense you really enjoyed yourself.
The 3rd, and 4th hour should have been her fault also she fell asleep.
She also should have aloud traffic and getting lost into her meeting time.
I always try to get to an outcall 15 min. early I would rather wait in my car then have a client, wondering if I'm cumming or not.
Better Luck next time.
Hugs,
Tammy

Dude?! What would I do? I would have given her the first 5 and thats it. I make sure they know when time is up. If they would like to stay longer, it's not on my dime. If I ask them to stay, it's on my dime. Did you do the gentleman thing? No, you did the foolish thing. You let yourself get taken. The right thing to now would be to let others know about her.

Ventana

I agree 100%...

I would pay ONLY for the money agreed. I didn't ask her to stay the extra time - that's her problem and not yours. I've had several sessions where the providers stayed way beyond the time booked (and it was their choice). If I asked them to stay, then of course I should pay...

The clock starts when the provider arrives though the door - YOUR door, not the car door or her dwelling ...

You did the gentleman thing, but most of all, you spoke out which is another good thing.

"A fool and his money are soon parted"

Can I get a Homer Simpson sound effect "OHHHHHHHHHH" right here. You paid her 3 bills to sleep?!?!?! I wish I worked for you, there is no telling the overtime you would have to pay me. LOL

Seriously though, being a gentleman has nothing to do with allowing yourself to be taken advantage of. It does not have to be in this situation either.

If a plumber came to your house, worked for an hour to fix the problem, then lets say had to call in for whatever reason and stayed on the phone for about an hour. Then as he is about to leave, writes you a bill for two hours of work. Would you pay it? If you think being a "gentleman" makes it okay, then I'm sure he will be happy to fix anything in your house at anytime. Trust me, you would pay him for an hour of work and tell him to pay your phone bill for the other hour.

And they say women are the weaker sex. Damn!

I'm Out!

Now Hit my Music!

Being a 'gentleman' gets him what? He wasn't being nice, he was allowing himself to be taken advantage of.

Here is a hint for all guys.........

A WOMAN WILL NOT RESPECT YOU IF YOU CAN'T STAND UP FOR YOURSELF.

That is why Anya and anyother woman would say they would be right over. Not because the guy is a gentleman but because he was a sucker in this instance.

Hell man or woman will not respect you. I hate these "new age" guys. Call me crude I guess, but I would still have $$$ in my pocket. Nobody says he has to be an asshole about it but there are ways to say no or hell no without causing a scene but getting your point across.

I'm Out!

Now Hit  My Music!

And how is that his problem? Next time she wont fall asleep. If she was with a service, she would not have been late for the service probably would have had all her other appointments backed up. Typically if a service girl is late, she will try her best to get things over with ASAP in order to get the money and get back on schedule.

Nope, she was an independent and hustled him.

I'm Out!

now Hit My Music!

Amen brother!

I looked it up in the dictionary and gentleman does not mean sucker.

Love your fresh take!