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I actually agree with you on this, and that's why I am conflicted here
rtuminus 15 Reviews 5791 reads
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Last week in Utah, a provider outed her client, a state legislator.

The legislator, a devout Mormon, had a reputation for pushing through tough prostitution and porn laws. His now-deleted website said, “I am a strong advocate for conservative family values. I am pro life, as well as for traditional marriage.”

In an interview, the provider said, “I was surprised when I found out that he voted in favor of stricter laws ... he is a john. It is hypocritical because he is supporting laws that make it stricter for other men who do what he does.”

(Humorous side note: The legislator declined the provider’s offer of alcohol because Mormons aren’t supposed to drink. They’re not supposed to have extra-marital sex, either, but who am I to judge his priorities?)

I am torn. On the one hand, I’m glad he was outed. On the other, the provider violated an unwritten confidentiality rule. I don’t know whether to cheer or damn her.

Though she went public, I have omitted her name (and hope you will, too, but of course that is up to you). I’m hoping the conversation will be less about her and more about what to do when the enemy is also a client.

Your thoughts?

-- Modified on 2/20/2018 6:55:20 AM

trex44 9 Reviews 99 reads
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Or is that the deacon's rule? ;)

Yes, he's an asshat but that doesn't mean his confidentiality should be violated. ALL of us, provider and client alike, depend on that confidentiality for any number of reasons. There are a great number of guys in p4p that are "cheating" in some fashion or another -- should they all be outed?

I'm not here to judge anyone else's life -- my hands are full living my own.  

I've been in sales/customer service/retail ops for a LONG time and have had hundreds of thousands of customer interactions since 1969. Has every customer been a perfect example of goodness and light? Nope --in fact, I've had two customer interactions where one pulled a knife on me and another who tried to draw a handgun out of his waistband to rob me and my store.

Point being that she should have kept her pledge of confidentiality, the money he gave her and gone on about TCOB.

GaGambler 91 reads
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I am usually in the camp that unless a client commits a crime against the woman that outing should never happen, but I am having a hard time sticking to my guns on this one. This POS reminds me of Elliot Spitzer and at least Spitzer used his own money.  

 
I think I am going use the loophole that since he was using taxpayer money to pay her with, he was in fact stealing from the public, and she being part of the public did her civic duty by reporting the theft.  

 
So, by split decision I vote "cheer her" lol I just can't muster up even the slightest bit of sympathy for this guy. NONE.

JakeFromStateFarm 68 reads
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Neither did NY Gov. Elliott Spitzer.  The rules against outing don't apply to people like this.

BiancaB See my TER Reviews 93 reads
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If you are purposely and actively attempting to make my working conditions unsafe and dangerous, and criminalizing a private agreement between consenting adults, you get no sympathy from me.

You can't tell the world I'm a dirty criminal and then turn around and purchase my services. Just doesn't work like that.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 78 reads
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In front of a bullet for family or close friends, but falling on a grenade like she did for the public in general is just plain stupid, IMO.  She is finished as a provider.   There are ways of handling things like this without ruining yourself in the process.  My only opinion of this is that she is a dumb shit.  

 
With that said, once I am King, hypocrite politicians like this guy will get the death penalty.  

Madison_Ohare See my TER Reviews 86 reads
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where they get the money.  She chose to see him, then out him over politics.  That's fucked up.  The end.

TheBoogerMan 1 Reviews 68 reads
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I totally agree.

 
Any lawmaker who tries to limit MY freedom by passing moralistic, puritanical and intrusive laws, yet think /they/ are above said laws needs to have their career go down in flames.

 
Burn baby, burn.

mrfisher 111 Reviews 77 reads
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he should not have been outed.

It's a double edged sword to play around with stuff like this.

TheBoogerMan 1 Reviews 81 reads
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That hypocrite deserved exactly what he got.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 100 reads
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Outting someone is NOT something to be taken lightly. Granted, the guy was a piece of shit, but outting someone could quickly be abused like the National Blacklist. I can see providers outting clients because she thinks he voted for Trump or he reminded her of her ex. It's a slippery slope.

TheBoogerMan 1 Reviews 90 reads
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People in postions of power who then abuse that power, such as hypocrite lawmakers and dirty cops, deserve NO consideration what so ever.

 
Burn them all.

GaGambler 103 reads
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I didn't answer this question lightly, but I finally decided that she should get the "Elliot Spitzer exemption"

 
The guy is trying to put her in jail by day, and fucking her by night. This guy was doing everything in his power to make the penalties as harsh as he possibly could, all the while committing the very same "crime" I could have given him a pass if he was simply a Republican politician in a conservative district who was simply going along to stay in office, but this POS wasn't just "going along" he was leading the fucking charge to both persecute and prosecute consenting adults not doing any harm to anyone. As someone who has been outed myself I  TRIED to muster up some sympathy for him, but I failed at it miserably. I just can't shed a single tear for him or Spitzer, I wish they were both rotting in prison somewhere getting fucked in the ass on a regular basis.

 
All that said, I fully concede it's a slippery slope and I too can see certain BSC hookers thinking they are justified in outing clients simply for being Trump supporters.

ROGM 78 reads
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Says he's against the very thing he does. Typical politician talking from both sides. Now he can use all his Tax Paid Salary to play with hookers. What else is new?

Madison_Ohare See my TER Reviews 56 reads
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after the fact.  She should have declined the date for a conflict of interest.  Smells of blackmail and bribery to not keep his secret safe with her.

If she wanted to do something, she should have talked to him about his stances and might could have made some positive changes.  

JakeFromStateFarm 48 reads
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What the hooker in this case did was NOT the same as a regular cop, attorney, preacher, etc. did when he sees a hooker. In this case he also has been actively trying to pass laws to go after people EXACTLY LIKE HIM.  I say if you go that BIG extra step you give up any right to privacy about your whore-mongering.

JakeFromStateFarm 105 reads
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Nothing in my posts suggests I do. Also, your comparison of this incident with the National Blacklist fails.  This was MUCH worse than putting someone on the NBL, which is actually much less of a big deal than people think.
PS: The NBL has been shot down for months, pending a rebuild and says when it returns it will no longer let just anyone post an entry.

Senator.Blutarsky 95 reads
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...as to what prompted her to out him.  Being a victim of false allegations myself, I was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt until I read how he reacted, which was guilty as charged. He was not only an ass for trying to legislate morality, but a stupid ass for leaving proof of his hypocrisy. It just goes to prove, you don't need to be intelligent to get elected.

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 83 reads
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Hey this is a good article. I am just wondering since he would be breaking the law would it be a good move for her to distance himself from him.

micktoz 43 Reviews 96 reads
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......... the people he frequents.  Politicians are the most susceptible to blackmail.  Who knows who the two faced bastard was answering to.  
Glad he was outed. took a lot of guts for the woman to do the right thing.  

I could get all political here, but i won't.

As Douglas Adams said "Anyone who can themselves elected, shouldn't be."

impposter 49 Reviews 95 reads
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First, I haven't found or read the news account. GaG: He was paying with public money? How did he do that? EDIT: Never mind. Found it. Anal, too! Sodom and Gomorrah! Mormons do that?
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But I also choose to construe his deliberate, positive actions to cause CRIMINAL harm as an out-able offense. He didn't short the envelope (not out-able); he didn't overstay (not out-able); he didn't NCNS (not out-able); etc.. To that extent, I disagree with Melissa: a cheating husband (not out-able); a hypocrite preacher (not out-able); etc.. They may be cheating but THEY are not threatening her livelihood and her life by their actions outside of the room.  
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THIS GUY IS TAKING ACTION TO PUT HER IN JAIL AND RUIN HER LIFE WITH A PERMANENT CRIMINAL RECORD AND IT AFFECTS EVERYONE ELSE DOING SUCH BUSINESS IN THAT STATE.  So, back at you, Asshole.
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But I also imagine another course of action: Ask to provide public comment / testimony before the legislature and expose this guy as being a fully qualified john to explain to his colleagues just how harmful it was to enjoy an hour pleasure with an attractive consenting adult companion.  Will his legislative colleagues impeach him or censure him?  Not likely!  I'll bet that several more are playing around in that area!  
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I see Spitzer differently.  As Attorney General, he could have chosen to subordinate prostitution cases (there is plenty of OTHER big time shit going on in NY!), but he did pursue and prosecute them. (But he also nailed a lot of mother fucking White Collar Financial Criminals.)  When he was caught as Governor, he folded like a cheap suit; he resigned and didn't contest anything.  
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eliot_Spitzer_prostitution_scandal  
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He did manage to avoid being charged with transporting gulls across staid lions for immoral porpoises (he requested and paid the expenses for someone from NY to come down and visit with in DC).  http://www.etsy.com/forums_thread.php?thread_id=6672728
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A reminder: the whole thing was triggered by FINANCIAL transactions. Spitzer was moving thousands of dollars between accounts and taking out cash. There were the usual suspicions of wrong-doing: terrorism, bribery, politician being blackmailed, etc..  IF "THIS" WAS LEGAL, all these philandering politicians could just pay for play and go about their business without the legal scandals. (Divorce and acrimony is a separate issue.)
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Spitzer is one guy who has the legal savvy and the money and the know-how and the connections to have challenged the prostitution laws in NY or DC and did not.  I think there is still a chance that he might do it. He is only 58 and probably still horny enough.  Come on, Elliot! Take it on!  

-- Modified on 2/20/2018 8:51:46 PM

impposter 49 Reviews 85 reads
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I say that he WAS being abusive and putting her in danger. He was abusing the power of his position -- not a gun, not a knife -- to INCREASE the dangers she experiences every working day. She is supporting a child and his actions might actually cause her to lose that child. He might cause her to lose other important contacts in the community: a regular job, her FREEDOM (cf., prison), and so on.  
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He IS dangerous to her and to all other providers in Utah.

JakeFromStateFarm 87 reads
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To your posting a photo that was not of an insanely hot chick. I will try to make up for it, but please promise never to do this again.

janelan486 See my TER Reviews 100 reads
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It’s a dangerous move for the lady as the Mormon church has long documented duplicity as well as violent methods of retribution. As a provider, I’ve enjoyed the company of many high profile clients and will die with their secret. I myself have been outed by a scorned wife, and I can assure you, it’s the absolute worst.  
**only God can judge, and as he is a man of the lord I’d just wait for his personal karma.  

Xox jane

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 71 reads
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happened.  What do you think the odds are that he will ask for another appointment with her?  Lol

Senator.Blutarsky 116 reads
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...but, as a conciliatory gesture, here is your hottie.

Onerealhotmomma See my TER Reviews 85 reads
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.....to gain someones trust enough to obtain any personal info on them whether freely given or gleaned in some other fashion from or through a personal relationship with them and then divulge that information solely in an effort to cause harm..........2 wrongs never have and never will make a right.
Who has the right to become the decider in cases like this......hypocrite no doubt he is, but who among us here is not in some fashion, with maybe the exception of GaGa who has made it very clear he has nothing to lose and doesn't give a rat's ass, maybe.  How many who feel this is  right have jumped on the bandwagon with the oft repeated threads about disclosing personal info, more than maybe a few before this thread goes to the archives I'm sure??????

RandyJ1000 1 Reviews 99 reads
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Everyone is a hypocrite in someone's eyes. Outing in the hobbying world over politics is just plain wrong.

micktoz 43 Reviews 79 reads
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And that arsehole ,immoral ,hypocrite politician is making life worse for the women and men that he is one of.  Politics by it's nature corrupts all of them in some manner but the only way that the residents of a country can have any confidence is by removing the duplicitous bastards as they are caught. And if nobody speaks up, they are not caught.  
I said previously that politicians with secrets like this are the most susceptible to black mail. And that is very dangerous for the residents of a country.
And at the least the prick was probably making worse laws to solve his guilt problem. Just to misdirect attention away from his actions. A real fuck you to the sex workers ! That in itself is reason to remove him.

And i don't care if you out me to my family or work colleagues  ........... they know

Onerealhotmomma See my TER Reviews 107 reads
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....about corruption and politicians and their inherent dangers to those they allegedly represent.....power corrupts absolute power absolutely corrupts..  If he had been discovered otherwise, I would have been in line to applaud his well deserved just desserts.  However, I personally view MY responsibility with others info as sacrosanct .....small minded I am maybe, but my principles are what I live by without them I have not much substance....there are those of us who have principles and those of us who can afford them, I have always been one of the former never the latter yet I do exercise them, just who I am or  really more of what I am.  Oh, and before the balance of the peanuts gallery chimes in just because some may not feel the same way does not mean I find them unprincipled, just different principles other than the ones I live by.
Suzee

GaGambler 79 reads
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I REALLY want to feel the way that you do about this, and I also agree with what Drew said on the subject, but I just find this mother fucker so fucking vile I just can't bring myself to feel bad for him or to condemn the woman who outed him.

 
Don't think your honorable committment to keep your clients info safe is going unnoticed, I just put this POS into the Elliot Spitzer category and feel he deserves anything bad that happens to him in life.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 142 reads
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And Southern Baptists don't recognize each other at the liquor store.

RandyJ1000 1 Reviews 83 reads
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Don’t you know, GaGa? “We all got it commin”

ValdostaKid 17 Reviews 87 reads
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I agree that he deserves what ever happens to him.... I just don't know who has the right to bring his issues public.... his wife? I imagine so, that relationship should be built on trust.  His provider?..... I would say no, that relationship is also built on trust, although it is different than a spouse.  Me?  Certainly not, I subscribe to the theory of letting the innocent cast the first stone.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 90 reads
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Dude! Read and understand before you try to respond.

 We get it

. You were butthurt because you were shown to be wrong.

 May I suggest cream ... work it in real good.

John_Laroche 77 reads
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...give a provider your real ID. That's lesson one.

 
...underestimate someone's political viewpoint. That's two.

 
...be an ass-fucking bible-thumping (or Book of Mormon thumping) hypocrite. Three

 
He got what he deserved.

 
Anyone else think this is an offshoot of the "Me too" movement? I bet there are pastors all over the bible belt shitting themselves over this and already working on their I'm a sinner speech.

Dicksfureel 79 reads
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I pay to have a great time, then have someone forget me when I’m gone. Refuse his service if you don’t want to see him.

theoldcavalier 2 Reviews 85 reads
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and have expressed the same conflicted reactions I had. So since I'm tired and need to get to bed, thanks for writing it out so well so I don't have to!

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 129 reads
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Never.  Even if the client is a giant ass hole like never seen or experienced before you walk away.  I have never outed a client and never will.  I have always said providers are half hookers, half shrinks.  We are trusted with our bodies and also with things that are discussed. Coming to us should have the same amount of trust as going to a priest, but we are much more fun!!  

TheBoogerMan 1 Reviews 29 reads
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I most certainly disagree.

 
He was pushing laws that would directly affect her in a deleterious fashion; making her life more difficult and dangerous.  And yet, he was willing to break those same laws /with/ her, counting on his political power to /shield/ him.

 
I say she’s a damn fine whistle blower, a patriot and an American Hero.

 
Don’t tread on me and Death to Tyrants.

souls_harbor 81 reads
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... providers.  I'm sure something about me is going to piss a few of them off.  

Tippecanoe 83 reads
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If you were my 'priest', I would have seen you everyday and twice on Sunday. ;)

I'm torn on this one, as its a slippery slope once you open the door. Not like it hasn't happened before, but there is an unspoken Cardinal rule about confidentiality.  

The politician could have had a moment of moral righteousness and outed the provider, too. Especially in Utah with the Mormons, would have gone very bad for her.

Still on the fence.

GoddessEmmaLove 92 reads
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I treat his views politically.  I would exercise my right to vote against his propositions for harsher laws.  I would vote against him if he decided to run for governor or God help us... the President of the United States.

datsyuk86 83 Reviews 89 reads
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On one side I think he got what he deserves. You can’t go around actively trying to pass laws against the women that you’re fucking at night.

On the other hand, I would never see this provider either. I think the guy is a pos and I’m fine with him being outed but I don’t know that this provider also respects the line of trust that is required for this world. She may be the ideal vigilante but I personally wouldn’t risk finding out.

JakeFromStateFarm 89 reads
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Your entire post is a fine example of your lack of reading comprehension.  Try K-Y.

JakeFromStateFarm 59 reads
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You're really not up to joining Jake's Stalker Club, scooter.  Were you born without game or was it surgically removed?

micktoz 43 Reviews 91 reads
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Hah, the mongers say no, no, no... Because they're scared that they'll get outed because of their duplicitous lives. The sex workers say no, no, no.........   so they don't look like they will out the mongers because of their duplicitous lives.

Probably the smartest sex workers didn't say a word and the only mongers with some moral fortitude don't have or care about having something to personal to  lose.  

Moral discussions are pretty useless here.

cajunman 100 reads
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She should be identified and outed herself!  At least let us know who the sanctimonious, judgemental bitch is so we can protect ourselves against this nut-job!

Did she use the RL info he provided?  Another reason to NEVER give it!

What's going to be her rationalization NEXT time?  How he voted, his skin color, religion, she had a bitchy day . . .  ?  YOU could be next.

Anyone excusing this is a damn short sighted fool!  

What the fuck is wrong with you people?  Isn't there enough distrust here already?

Rickshaw17 28 Reviews 92 reads
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I’ve struggled with this one.  I do not think he should have been outed but I definitely understand the sentiment behind supporting it.  We need to decriminalize what consenting adults do in the bedroom and focus on obvious crimes like human trafficking, sexual slavery, child pornography etc.   This guy was either a hypocrite or truly conflicted.  He might be trying to purge his guilt by supporting stricter laws curtailing this activity, who knows.  

Analias 100 reads
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Allstar 9 Reviews 107 reads
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I don't know why anyone thinks a politician in Mormon country can possibly openly support anything his constituents are against, including other elected officials in his party, regardless of what he, or they think personally. Even if he wanted to change the laws, he was elected to do what the electorate wanted, not what he wants. To some degree, we are all guilty of having to uphold a public persona and keep our illegal vises to ourselves. A married man who sees prostitutes is not openly telling people in his circles that he wants the legalization of prostitution anymore than an elected politician, who is also most likely married with children is going to take up that cause publically. Why would he? Unless the public wanted that, why would he? Not unless there was a movement to legalize prostitution supported by the voting public, putting pressure on lawmakers in their state to change policy.

I've smoked marijuana since 1988 and have always privately attended local Norml meetings (to reform marijuana laws). I voted for it every time it came on the ballot, I got involved and signed petitions. Ultimately that's what started the change in AZ and other states. It happened at a grass roots level from people who worked for change and it made its way onto ballots. I couldn't talk about any of it openly within my circles for 20+ years without risking ruining my life. I love cannabis, but not enough to give up my employment for it.  

You don't snitch on people! Period. In this case, you vote...you get involved. This is the same fucked up mentality I see everywhere now days. Why talk to people who disagree and advocate for change? Why vote for politicians who will go into office and fight to pass legislation you want when you can just anonymously out someone on social media? Why not just wear a mask and a hoodie and shut down speech all together and riot? With the current me too movement, a woman can ruin a mans life with just an accusation of rape, because the social justice warriors are so quick to pounce, what difference does it make if its true? All this woman did my outing a politician is ruin a mans life and that of his children, and ruined any credibility she ever had as a provider. Though she may have been well intentioned, her actions were ignorant and foolish and in the end, it changed nothing. Or maybe she was paid to do it and it changed everything...like who will win the next election. There seems to be a lot of women who come out of the woodwork to accuse men of sexual abuse around elections. We do have less than a year before midterms and a lot is at stake.  

VincenzoG91 5 Reviews 81 reads
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Perhaps the Utah state legislature should require her to wear A Scarlet Letter.

micktoz 43 Reviews 106 reads
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Didn't you read that the provider was interviewed?  
I read a couple of the articles. She spoke up out of principle.
She didn't hide, she came out and spoke out.  
She took responsibility for herself.

GaGambler 152 reads
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and the women here make their living by enabling them. How do you really expect a "moral conversation" with people who make lying and cheating a way of life?

 
That said, this one is not a black and white case, It's not like outing a guy for committing an act of violence, OTOH it's not outing a guy for his political "beliefs" either. She outed him for leading the charge against "all of us" PUSHING for harsher penalties and PUSHING to make what goes on BCD between consenting adults a "public health crisis" This goes a lot further than simply going along with what the voters in his district want done in re to prostitution. This makes this POS a hypocrite on the grandest scale, and like Elliot Spitzer before him someone who should be put up for public ridicule.

 
Now OTOH she did accept his money with the implied promise of discretion, I can understand why no client would ever trust her again, but IMHO sometimes you can make the "greater good" argument, That's where I finally found myself on this issue.

 
I agree, it doesn't make a lot of business sense for a provider to agree with her actions. Not saying a word on this subject is probably the best course of action for the ladies, but I am happy to hear a few chiming in.

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 90 reads
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Agreed!!! But She's a bitch!! This is the reason why it's so damn hard to screen/verify clients these days cause incidents like this!! Situations like this makes this line of work harder & harder!! No one wants to give "real info" to  verify. What men do is on their free time is their perogative ...   If it was the other way around and a girl got outted-Oh Lordy all hell would break loose!! I know I want discretion regarding my private info/life so give the same respect to the gents!!  

Sad just sad whats becoming of this lifestyle !!!!

Allstar 9 Reviews 94 reads
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Didn't you read that the provider was interviewed?
I read a couple of the articles. She spoke up out of principle. She didn't hide, she came out and spoke out. She took responsibility for herself.
 

She sells sex illegally and outed someone who buys sex illegally. What did she really speak up against? How is a politician who plays a straight arrow role publically and breaks the law privately any different than the rest of us who do exactly the same thing regarding prostitution? Her personal feelings about this mans public life and political career is irrelevant IMO. I comprehend the issue just fine...I just came to a different conclusion based upon the facts. You dont voluntarily snitch on people when you're also involved in the crime. Period. That is my principles. I would have had more respect for a woman outing him who wasn't involved in the illegal activity. At least they would have a moral high ground to stand on. This was a social justice warrior form of activism aimed at a politician based on her personal feelings towards him. Whats next? A prostitute that has something against a man who works for "X" and he should be ashamed of himself because of "X" so I'm going to out him because....  

If its okay to out a politician today out of principle, maybe it will be okay to out one of us tomorrow out of principle? I stand by what I said; this is not the way to change things you disagree with politically, and frankly, nothing she did changed anything except for her personally and the lives of this man and his immediate family. No one else is losing any sleep over it, and it will be forgotten in no time by everyone except this mans family. She's a real winner. Psht

rtuminus 15 Reviews 76 reads
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For those who didn’t track down the article, I’ll add:

• The provider knowingly outed herself when she volunteered the story to the media. She certainly knew the risk to her business.

• The legislator immediately resigned, due to, he said, wanting to spend time with his out-of-state father who has terminal cancer. I believe his father has cancer. No one believes that’s why he resigned.

Followup story: A few days later, another legislator reported that an uninvited escort showed up at his hotel. He told her he hadn’t ordered an escort and sent her away. Out of several possible explanations (like, maybe she just had the wrong room? maybe the guy made it up? maybe he ordered a date and had second thoughts after his peer was outed?), the president of the Utah Senate decided that providers are out to entrap legislators, and warned his colleagues to beware. See? It’s not about hypocrisy. It’s about those poor legislators who are targets and victims.

rtuminus 15 Reviews 101 reads
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Having read and pondered everyone’s thoughts (thank you all), here’s where I am at the moment, as if anyone cares:

• I wish she hadn’t done it, for four reasons:  

1) It’s a bad, even dangerous precedent for the hobby.  
2) It will make no difference. The legislature will not convene a special session and say, “Gee, if even our own are doing it, maybe we should legalize it.” They’ll decide that the devil ensnared their poor colleague and then talk about how they need stricter laws to keep the devil in check.
3) The harm done to his family was cruel and needless.
4) I’m afraid that all she accomplished was the punishment of one man for hypocrisy. I’m not sure I like the part of me that responds positively to that. As others have admitted in this thread, there’s plenty about ME that I’d prefer no one know.

BUT:

• I don’t condemn her. Though overall I disagree with her choice, it appears she did what she felt was right.

VincenzoG91 5 Reviews 95 reads
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Our hobby is illegal because of hypocrites like this outed politician. Remember, he wants you, me, and everybody in this discussion thread in prison. That's the specific principle that he stands for, and you take his side anyway, probably out of blind party loyalty.

micktoz 43 Reviews 83 reads
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souls_harbor 81 reads
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Do any of you think that someone who speaks out against murder, but then in an act of passion murders someone, should be called a hypocrite until he switches positions and starts favoring murder?

Someone's mere failing to abide by their own moral code (actually I think that is almost everybody) needn't chuck that moral code merely due to the failing.  A moral code is a goal.  If it was easy, there'd be no need to set the goal.

Someone with a moral code who falls from perfection is not obligated to reject that moral code -- instead he might seek to redouble his effort.

I don't agree with anti-prostitution laws.  But the "hypocrisy" attack which is deployed in the usual knee jerk fashion is profoundly illogical.  

SensualShai See my TER Reviews 80 reads
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I am from a very religious background. I went to church my whole life. It's how it was. To have your business put out like that would be terrible, for anyone. Are there hypocrites in this business? Of course!! I think many of you guys would be amazed to know of the many police men that are hobbyists!!! Let's not forget Kathy Willets and her longtime regular that was all about cleaning up the city, getting rid of strip clubs and all about family unity lol! Even televangelists have been busted repeatedly for not just visiting strip clubs but Jimmy Swaggart was messing with street walkers!!  

They are "holy" men but men nonetheless. Did you all know that many religions say that sex is ONLY for procreation??? So what happens when you get married at 22, and your family is complete at 30. No more poon for you! The wife holds fast and won't relent. WTF is the husband to do?? Masturbation will only get you so far and you must do that in privacy as wife reminds you that doing such a thing is a sin!  

I know that I have clients that are married, some are religious and love their families but that urge is strong, yall!! Wife no longer puts out and he gets that aching. He needs that scratch to be itched. Just saying, yeah he is wrong to do this but I could not do that just because of who he is and what he stands for. I couldn't.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 91 reads
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...I'm kind of thinking this leaking/outing of that guy was to boost her profile in a way.

GaGambler 99 reads
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Same working name, different woman.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 134 reads
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...I didn't pull what I said out of my ass.
Amateur porn stuff.
Most are still up but her twitter.
 I knew her from another board and saw it all before you call yourself correcting somebody.
Most of her links are still up.

-- Modified on 2/21/2018 8:36:30 PM

GaGambler 83 reads
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and when I Googled her, there were all sorts of pics that looked nothing like her.  

 
I am way too lazy to try to actually research any of her porn, so I will take you at your word that it's her. She not hot at all, I guess anyone can be a porn star nowdays.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 88 reads
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I don't follow porn per se but again I know of her from other boards and her links were not hard to find.  When her twitter was up all of her links were there.  There is another Brie Taylor who does porn but we're talking about 2 different people and not the Brie Taylor I assume you found who still has a live Twitter.  The one who outted that Utah politician has plenty of amateur porn and again all of her stuff is still up but her Twitter. You don't need to take my word for it when her amateur porn links are still live.

impposter 49 Reviews 90 reads
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And in most places, doing porn is LEGAL sex work. Or it can be worked around legally. Film private vids at your home in Utah; post finished, edited product out of a legal jurisdiction.  
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But I wouldn't be surprised if the legislators have their own private stash of porn tapes and DVDs and passed a law criminalizing possession. (Didn't I read somewhere that Utah is the largest per capita consumer of porn?)

Posted By: TrulyMsMocha
Re: Well she's some kind of porn star now ...
...I'm kind of thinking this leaking/outing of that guy was to boost her profile in a way.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 112 reads
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...yeah at one point it ranked #1 for the most adult entertainment subscriptions.

Sheila Starr See my TER Reviews 86 reads
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Its  like fatal Attractions..that sucks..Girls just want to have fun 🤹‍♀️and money💲💲💲💲💲🍅

tankbinding 16 Reviews 98 reads
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If a provider found your social pages - decided she didn't like your political views or that you were "a piece of shit" for any reason she chose and outed you because you were "a piece of shit"...  

Or you labeled her that and did the same?

It's a violation of something sacred - that excuse / justification is so weak and once you label someone "a piece of shit" - you can justify doing all kinds of terrible things to them!!!

Tippecanoe 107 reads
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Jake, while we appreciate the photo, and its quite nice, the Senator has just thrown down a Full House to your pair of queens.

eroticspirit 27 Reviews 121 reads
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I have to agree---WOW!! (Man if that beautiful woman in the Senator's photo is an actual provider I'm travelling to wherever she is to make a date---I don't care if she's in Iceland---STUNNING!!)

JakeFromStateFarm 135 reads
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I was merely teasing him, not trying to supplant him.  But tell me, does this make you and erotic spirit “a pair of queens?” LOL

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 82 reads
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GaGambler 77 reads
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I found a bunch of porn for a different Brie Taylor and erroneously assumed ALL the porn belonged to the other Brie Taylor.  

 
I have no idea about either Brie's Twitter page, as I don't follow Twitter, what I did find was archived web pages of the "Utah hooker" Brie Taylor that I found when doing a web search on the scum bag politician she outed.

 
Again, I fully admit I got one wrong, I was too lazy to follow all the links to see that at least some of the amateur porn videos were of the Brie Taylor in question, and if she does indeed try to capitalize on her 15 minutes of fame, I will most certainly change my mind about her motivations in outing this POS.

 
Please remember, I too have been outed by a woman that I did NOTHING to. My allegiences should be to the guy she outed, but he is so fucking vile and doing so much to turn consenting adults into criminals who may end up in prison that try as I might, I just can't shed a single tear for him.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 81 reads
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I don't know of this other Brie Taylor who still has a Twitter up tho. Only the one whose Twitter was taken down that has all the amateur porn that's from Utah who is the subject who outted the Utah politician (me talking about a diff one in the first place would make no sense).  
I don't "follow" Twitter like that either. Again I know of her from 2 other boards that are popular for Utah (and other midwest/west coast areas).
And since that Brie Taylor's amateur porn is still live and kicking after this scandal is why I think she might have been looking for a profile boost.  She already is capitalizing.
The timing out of the outting is why. I don't think she did was for noble reasons at all (even tho he's a hypocritical douche). I'm not a fan of outting even if the person is a giant sack of garbage.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 95 reads
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GaGambler 87 reads
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How do/did you feel about Elliot Spitzer being outed?

 
Keep in mind not just what he did for a living, but the zeal in which he pursued people doing the exact same thing as himself.

 
I don't see this as a black and white issue, I have serious misgiving about what she did, but if you got word that a "law and order, anti drug prosecutor" was secretly a junkie buying drugs off the street, don't you think the public has a right to know about his secret life considering he is supporting his drug habit with taxpayer money while putting other people in prison for lesser offenses?  

 
As I said, I don't see this as "black and white" there are an awful lot of gray areas here to consider.

 

Lastly, if she really did this to catapault her own career, I will immediately backtrack what I am saying and condemn her as strongly as anyone else here.

-- Modified on 2/22/2018 1:50:26 PM

impposter 49 Reviews 87 reads
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Posted By: GaGambler
if she does indeed try to capitalize on her 15 minutes of fame, I will most certainly change my mind about her motivations in outing this POS.
That means getting into her head. Maybe she just thought she was doing the right thing by exposing the hypocrite. It surely hurt her ability to do any more Hobby work (economic self-harm).  It might have boosted her amateur porn stuff, but that was a RISK, not a guarantee.
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Consider other examples, such as the POTUS.  Most PsOTUS put their financial interests into blind trusts or otherwise divest their private interests from their government work. Most PsOTUS avoided profiting by hosting government events at their personal for-profit properties. I can only think of one who was making money selling MAGA hats and America First T-shirts by promoting them in his news conferences and public speeches.  
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Her 15 minutes of fame does her a little bit of good (money for the kid). If she can't make ends meet doing legal SW, she may have to go back to hooking using a new name, new pics and new persona.

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Posted By: orientalsin
When a stranger gives you info that gives you the power to destroy that person
That stranger used HIS power to try to "destroy" (harm, penalize, incarcerate, ruin the life of) that Provider and all other Providers in Utah.

Seductrix4u 74 reads
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I am a believer in outing clients to other providers via PM if:

1. They are determined to be LE or cooperating with LE  
2. They are abusive during a session

I think in those instances, it's important to use RW information because handles and emails can, and do, change frequently. So a provider having RW info, versus a handle or email, is imperative. It could save her life, financial livelihood or keep her out of jail.

I would hope that another provider would have my back and do the same for me.  

In the case posted by the OP, I do not believe it was a justified outing, unless she was of the belief that the client was using his time spent with her to gather information which would be used later to sting her.

As a rule of thumb, I believe spending time with clients who work in positions with high visibility or liability (politicians, cops and former cops) is never a good idea. Not all money is good money.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 103 reads
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Copying and pasting for your convenience (there you go):
I'm not a fan of outting even if the person is a giant sack of garbage.

About the Utah politician I don't think his outing should've been up to her.
He was a pos but I don't see much noble in what she did.
I don't see her presence in amateur porn and her outting of him as coincidence.
Ok bye.

LoveSashaEvans See my TER Reviews 113 reads
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While it is unarguably against integrity to out people in this industry, there is a sense of obligation to stand up to unethical behavior. She felt her culture was threatened by his actions and did something about it.

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Eliot Spitzer wasn't outed by an escort.  His bank reported him for suspicious transactions.  Which started an undercover investigation of his activities including a wire tap.  Ashley Dupre was granted immunity to testify against Emporors Club VIP which was shut down after the Spitzer scandal.  There were some arrests but I can't find anything online about the disposition of their cases.

eroticspirit 27 Reviews 118 reads
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If you can get me a date with that smokin hot chick in the Senator's photo you can call me any damn name you like LOL!!

cajunman 121 reads
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They are as dangerous as she is.

Now threatening her "culture" is a valid excuse - what the fuck does that mean?  This one is clearly a DNS lady!

I won't put my safety in the hands of someone who thinks that it OK FOR ANY REASON to out someone.

This reply is the best reason to NEVER GIVE OUT PERSONAL INFORMATION!!!!!!!!

What the fuck is wrong with you people?

-- Modified on 2/23/2018 8:22:19 AM

tankbinding 16 Reviews 93 reads
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This position is the ultimate expression of entitlement and disregard for mutual anonymity and respect...

This is the type of person that would actively seek your personal information and hold it dear to "use it to defend her culture" in the future if she ever deemed it necessary... Boys, if you do decide to see her and you care about your real life anonymity - you best watch your wallet and ID when you are using the bathroom...

tankbinding 16 Reviews 72 reads
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What a ridiculous position...

You should post this on the wall of your incall and see what it does for business...

GaGambler 76 reads
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I still don't feel even the slightest bit of sympathy for the piece of shit politician she outed, BUT after further reflection and reading some of the very valid points on both sides of the argument, I have to say those of you condemning her have won me over.

 
Here is the fact that put me over the edge. "She took his money" If she were honorable and doing this for purely on principle she never should have accepted his money. She took his money, provided him service knowing full well who he was, only AFTERWARDS did she supposedly get an attack of conscience and outed him.

 
Did she do this to advance her porn career? I don't know, but whether or not that was her motivation what is clear is that her intentions were not "noble" in nature and she did all providers a disservice by breaking the unwritten code that all private information gathered on a client is supposed to be sacrosanct. She violated that trust and even though he is/was a hypocritical piece of shit, it didn't give her the right to play God.

 
I still completely despise the guy she outed, but if she were going to out him, she never should have accepted the session or the money. That makes her a hypocritical POS as well.

tankbinding 16 Reviews 89 reads
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I also think this guy in Utah is a POS but... I hate the precedent that this sets...
Hobbiest sees Provider
Provider finds out Hobbiest IRL identity
Provider makes the subjective determination that the Hobiest is unethical
Provider "outs" Hobiest (no problem because Hobiest is unethical right)
Now replace Hobbiest with Provider and Provider with Hobbiest above and repeat - just as bad...
Maybe the provider had a boyfriend that doesn't know she's a part time provider or maybe the Hobbiest is married and his wife doesn't know - very unethical in some peoples opinion
See what a slippery slope this is GrandPa - will you do me a favour and write a "Providers hypocritical oath"?
That would be just super SenPai...

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This is an easy call.  Get the flag out.  It's not about hypocrisy.  It's about legislative hypocrisy.  As a number of posters have said, this guy is trying to put her in jail as well as all of us Johns.  It's time this stopped.  It's time that providers were granted legal status in a country that likes to think we have freedom of expression and the pursuit of happiness.  It's time to stop wasting taxpayers' hard earned dollars on enforcement and court time for nothing more than sharing emotional and physical passions.  What two people do in the public or behind closed doors should be up to those two people.  Legalizing this profession would make it safer for all.  I hope other providers drop the flag on more of these sanctimonious Puritanical legislator hypocrites.  Perhaps weeding them out would also weed out some of their other tainted hypocritical political views.  The other hypocrites (i.e. priests) can just go to hell.

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END OF MESSAGE

HappyChanges 78 reads
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There's a certain level of trust when seeing a provider and only certain instances deserve outings like rape and violence. I think it's BS that she outed her client because he was a politician who thinks prostitution should be illegal which was different from her political views. I hope her career is over.  

Spitzer didn't get outed by the hookers and agency he was dealing with at first. They folded when confronted by LE.

zorrf 80 reads
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Though I wouldn't advise an SW risk her life that way.  Fucking with sociopathic motherfuckers in power is dangerous.  She's a brave soul.  I hope for her sake that he was relatively insignificant in that regard; or that this move neutered him such that he can't call in a few dark favors.

 
It stops being *just politics* when you're actively marginalizing people and subjecting them to persecution.  If this were a disagreement over how transit funds were allocated or whether or not to raise sales tax rates, then yea, you motherfuckers screaming about how she shouldn't have outed him over his "political views" might have a point.  This wasn't that, though.  All bets are off when you're fucking with people's lives from on high.

-- Modified on 2/23/2018 11:54:21 PM

TheBoogerMan 1 Reviews 111 reads
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Damn right, zorrf!  That’s /exactly/ right!

 
Bastard got what was comin’.  These jerks need to remember who elected them; that they’re held to a higher standard.  That, and if you push The People far enough, they /will/ rise.

 
I only wish we could somehow make her an icon; the Patriot Provider.  Have her smiling face minted on coin or something (not joking).  It’s time these outmoded, puritanical, moralistic, intrusive anti-sex worker laws went the way of the dinosaurs.

 
Give me Liberty and Power to the People!

souls_harbor 64 reads
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1.) Every law marginalizes someone.
2.) "Persecution" is a subjective term and therefore can be used by anyone.
3.) All laws "fuck with people's lives."

zorrf 154 reads
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1.) Every law marginalizes someone.
What libertarian 8th grader's twitter feed did you copy this from?  Cuz it's not profound.  It's wrong and it's dumb.  
2.) "Persecution" is a subjective term and therefore can be used by anyone.
Persecution could be used or misused as much as any other word could, yes.   Bigoted white dudes whine about being persecuted for their hateful notions all the time, for instance.  All of that has exactly shit to do with the circumstances of this very specific subject, though.
3.) All laws "fuck with people's lives."
That laws affect people is a given.  You want a reacharound for making obvious observations now?  That's just lazy. Do something impressive at least.  

cajunman 112 reads
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What's your point?

You are just trying to reply to his "faux philosophy" with liberal dogmatic word-salad gibberish.

Fucking spare us your distinction without a difference nonsense.

Fool.

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Let's just stick to cases.  You said this guy deserved to be outed because his voting record on prostitution.   Let's look around the USA a bit.  Liberal California ... liberal democrats run against liberal democrats because republicans don't even make it through the primaries.  Is prostitution legal in California?  No.   Please out all California liberal democrats who see prostitutes.

Liberal New York.  Same.  

Which liberal democrat stronghold in the USA has legalized prostitution?   Anyone?  Anyone? Bueller?

I get it.  You don't like people who aren't in your tribe and you want to destroy them.  That seems to be the liberal temperament these days.  It's tribal, no logical, because otherwise you'd be destroying each other (well that happens on campus a bit these days when some ultra-liberal professor has a logical thought, and they star eating their own.)

As for libertarians, we're the only political organization that consistently across the board favors the legalization of prostitution.

You might have few liberals who favor it, but as you can see by actual results, the majority of liberals oppose the legalization of prostitution.  Have fun outing them all.

eroticspirit 27 Reviews 64 reads
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If I could give this post 10 "likes" I'd do it---could not agree with you more!! Every word you say regarding this issue is spot on!!

tankbinding 16 Reviews 138 reads
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So if a prostitute determines that her client is a prick she's good to out him?

I can't believe that some clients here are stupid enough to agree with this bullshit...

Heads out of your ass boys - now squat and PULLLLL....

zorrf 100 reads
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Posted By: cajunman

What's your point?  
It's pretty clear unless you've been chasing opioids with bathtub gin all day, Cletus.

eroticspirit 27 Reviews 108 reads
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But this is more than just "he's a prick"---he has power to influence legislation that can adversely affect this woman's livelihood and safety---yet he partakes freely in the "forbidden fruit" he's so much against!! A guy like that is dangerous to ALL of us---clients and providers alike. He needs to be exposed for the well-being of everybody that participates in this activity.

zorrf 91 reads
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The only tool you dumb ass righties have in your rhetorical toolbox...So prostitution is illegal in California and NY.  You wanna tell me what the fuck that has to do with a creepy ass family values rep getting his comeuppance in Utah?  

Listen, you shit the bed trying to make a point and now you're trying to deflect with unrelated bullshit.   Stay the fuck outta my threads if you can't stay on topic.  If you want to to talk about liberals and prostitution, start another post.  

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"...what you’ve just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul."

GaGambler 93 reads
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You are simply his uninvited guest on HIS thread. Next time ask for permission before posting on HIS thread.  lmao

 
And libs wonder why we call them "entitled"  

 
Now let me go wash my mouth out with pussy juice to get the taste of agreeing with you out of my mouth. lol

souls_harbor 116 reads
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Perhaps you'd like to explain why there is NO liberal state or enclave in the USA the has legalized prostitution.  You like to bash and destroy religious folks, but hands off liberals who continue to support and enforce criminalization?  How so?

GaGambler 112 reads
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Most of Latin America is controlled by the Catholic Church and they have found a way to co-exist quite nicely. If you look at any of the countries in Latin America where there is an effort to criminalize prostitution that is perfectly legal today, you have no further to look than the mostly liberal soccer moms.  

 
I am as anti religion, or more specifically anti church as anyone who has ever been on this board, but even as easy a target as they are, and as hypocritical as I find them, "religious folks" are NOT the biggest enemy of legalized prostitution.

 
Fuck, I just back from getting laid, and now I have to wash my mouth out AGAIN after agreeing with you. FUCK FUCK FUCK!!!

zorrf 95 reads
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zorrf 98 reads
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Two cousins fucking the same cousin?  Good ol redneck sibling rivalry, huh?  I knew it.  You dumb fucking hicks are all the same.  Glad I could bring you boys back together, though.  Have fun jerking each other off on the boards now that you're besties.

-- Modified on 2/26/2018 3:08:02 AM

tankbinding 16 Reviews 93 reads
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and I often change their world-view with a couple of stokes of my penis...

So let's talk about the contradictory government that is Costa Rica (where for a very long time prostitution was legal and in vitro fertilisation was illegal)... Weird Shit...

oohga 92 reads
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Bad analogy, I trust providers much more than any priest.

GaGambler 119 reads
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I told Souls that you were a bitch ass punk and he took exception

 
He insists that you are actually a punk ass bitch.

 

Maybe you could settle this dispute for us? Which are you, bitch ass punk or punk ass bitch?

Allstar 9 Reviews 95 reads
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It has nothing to do with politics to me. I’ve never snitched on anyone in my life. If someone gets busted, especially for something I was involved with, it ain’t going to trace back to me. That’s drama I don’t need. Outing politicians for infidelity doesn’t change the law. It just makes him look bad and exposed the the woman for being a prostitute. Since she did nothing to change opinions toward legal prostitution, another anti prostitution politician will be elected to take his place.

I don’t think she is very intelligent for doing what she did because it changed nothing. I’ll keep repeating that. I certainly would not Create that kind of turmoil and drama in my life to accomplish nothing.

cajunman 82 reads
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Who got beat up on the playground.  They're all growed up now! LOL

Sanctimonious little hypocrites!

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