Mainly because men are too rough and it hurts. Ruins the entire experience!
Do you only select providers who offer, 'Touching Pussy On The Inside?'
I've always enjoyed having my pussy touched on the inside, until recently. A gentleman cut me with his fingernail, and needless to say, it ended our intimacy for the evening. Actually, it put my pussy out of commission for several days.
Your answer, to my question, would be greatly appreciated. Thank you very much
As long as I can Daty fingering is not that important to me. All though I always keep my fingernails cut short to insure I don't cut the inside of the lady. Just in case she wants me to, I will only stick a finger inside when she tells me to.
And through the reviews and discussions, I get a sense that many
ladies do not care for it so I do not do it at all on my dates.
No DATY would only be a deal breaker for me Robbin.
Deal breakers for me are no kissing and no DATY...
and I always clip my nails very short.
Actually, my favorite experience with this was with one gal who only allowed touching just outside the labia. It drove her wild, and me as well.
So, not a deal breaker.
There are plenty of other activities to enjoy. It wouldn't give me any pleasure if the girl wasn't into it. (I do keep my nails trimmed.) Sorry that happened to you.
Now if the lady didn't want to DFK, then we'd have a problem...
If a girl has the endurance to BBBJ/DT the whole hour, not even any need to take the panties off.
I always ask & completely understand if she does not like it. Why would I want to do it, if it's not enjoyable to you.. Even if you just "put up with it".. it's no fun at all..
I'm fine with digital stimulation .. one girl I see always reminds me.. I tell her to leave her panties on for awhile if she doesn't trust me..
I've always enjoyed having my pussy touched on the inside, until recently. A gentleman cut me with his fingernail, and needless to say, it ended our intimacy for the evening. Actually, it put my pussy out of commission for several days.
Your answer, to my question, would be greatly appreciated. Thank you very much!
...daty is a must for me. so as long as that's still on the table, i'm good.
suddenly i'm seeing stars and exploding hearts around my head...
Also keep nails trimmed. I'll ask or she'll tell me her boundaries. Early on I tried once while DATY an she just gently pulled my hand away but we continued without FIV.
As long as I can stick 2 other things inside the pussy, I am fine. I don't think I've ever used my fingers inside of a provider's pussy just cause I'm paranoid I might cut her (even though I keep my nails at a reasonable length)
I enjoy FIV. It's one thing I think I'm good at. I'm very aware of how the woman is reacting, and will pull back or stop completely if I sense any discomfort.
I still don't know how to DATY properly, and I'm no longer a good fuck. So please let me do FIV. ![]()
I still don't know how to DATY properly, and I'm no longer a good fuck. So please let me do FIV.
OOOh Boy, I'd love to teach you DATY techniques. ![]()
I've had the hots for you since you joined TER.
My ex would never tell me what to do with DATY, so I never learned in the decades I was with her. I've asked every provider I've seen to tell me what to, but none ever really do.
DATY. Unless, maybe, if she loved and climaxed receiving DATO....though I'M note sure about that.
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I was just saying the ONLY limitation that would be a deal breaker is no DATY unless there was extensive DATO (and certainly not FIV.)
I would check the clients nails before ! I have discovered a hang nail during the session and got up and filed my nails
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I've always enjoyed having my pussy touched on the inside, until recently. A gentleman cut me with his fingernail, and needless to say, it ended our intimacy for the evening. Actually, it put my pussy out of commission for several days.
Your answer, to my question, would be greatly appreciated. Thank you very much!
..... what works for her. Not what I think should work. I usually ask what the lady likes. It is so much fun having a lady get what works for her. They usually get even more motivated to pleasure me.
Nope, not a deal breaker for me.
But I think that sex with a provider is same as with civie in that you explore what each likes and dislikes and work with that
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I am very flexible on menu. I only enjoy sticking things in my sexual partners pussy that she wants there. If you don't want my finger in you pussy, I don't want to put it there. Getting gouged by a finger nail doesn't sound fun. ouch. Anyway not a deal breaker. No hand-job? Now that is a deal breaker.
How Ironic
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I JUST posted how I was filing my nails to see my lovely lady and wondered ;
WHO else does this? (guys)?
Protect the pussy!!!!!!
Not to mention all the other lovely parts that you may scratch
Thon
i hate to be crass, but ultimately i'm about my satisfaction in a date.
if a girl has limits or areas not to be explored, i'm fine with that. in fact i'd prefer a woman who told me honestly what she likes and doesn't like.
but in the end i'm not paying her to make her happy. sorry to be crass but there it is.
i can usually have a good time even if there's no fiv.
Mainly because men are too rough and it hurts. Ruins the entire experience!
Of course I do. I am not a fan of painful sex overall and I am always sure to relay my likes /dislikes as well as inquire about his.