So I finally met my first provider, needless to say I was a nervous wreck! Knocked on the wrong room number and all, the meeting went well but I could've done better. Any advice to providers or hobbyist what you do prior to meeting someone (i.e) rituals.

Maybe I am jaded after all these years, but a session is "just sex" it's not like I am meeting my future soul mate. Just relax and enjoy yourself. and yes, do make sure your hygiene is taken care of. She might not be your future wife, but she deserves fresh breath and clean junk.

One thing I do or rather one thing I avoid before meeting someone is I don't eat spicy foods if you want to kiss her. I stick to bland foods the day of the event. I may have eggs or peanut butter.

The only time I ever sit around in a nail shop with a bunch of women is hours before seeing a provider.  I've received many compliments on my nails (especially when it's time for FIV), so it's worth it.

Cleanse the Vag, backdoor & rinse the mouth with peppermint wash.

dress in my suit, gather my refreshment for the session (and any other fun things for our time together) and head out.

...and even though I'm always freshly showered upon arrival I will take another quick shower at her incall to be super fresh & ready to go.  

I hope 7 is still way off.

Suburban Hotel a little early... drive around.. Make sure I don't see any vans that may look like a police communications vehicle..  park.. take a blue pill.. mouthwash  then go in..

It kind of works against the whole idea of keeping a low profile, you know!

My "go to" ritual is a good 15-30 minutes of meditation. It lets me be more spiritually clear and commit more to the moment!!

Like others, I might shower if I'm really dirty even though I expect to take one at the appointment. Shave, basic hygiene and that's about it.

Posted By: thediscman001

So I finally met my first provider, needless to say I was a nervous wreck! Knocked on the wrong room number and all, the meeting went well but I could've done better. Any advice to providers or hobbyist what you do prior to meeting someone (i.e) rituals.  
   
 Do you...  
 (1) Take a jog  
 (2) Take a shot of (insert your favorite alcohol drink)  
 (3) Take a shot of (insert your favorite sports drink (monster, redbull, etc)  
 (4) Mastubarate  
 (5) Exercise (I normally do a few push-ups to get the blood flowing)  
 (6) Hear your favorite tunes  
 (7) Take...ahem...my favorite male pills.  
 (8) Smoke the green stuff (then shower to smell fresh but have the high,  
 (9) None of the above, I just wing it!  
   
 Any advice will be much appreciated. The provider was awesome IMO.  
   
 UPDATE: Just added to the list number (8)

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Thats a lie

You are not seeking an audience with the Pope – you are indulging in an activity that has been practiced for at least the past 5,000 years of recorded history.  Just do your homework, take a shower and exercise a common sense level of discretion. It’s no more complicated than that.

Take a shower, get dressed, make sure I have all of the necessities, and go...

Wanna split?

once there I usually wing it especially when I'm  
too distracted by the object of my intentions.

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But I'm really just a flying monkey on loan from the wicked witch of the west.

I think relaxing your mind can really do the trick. Me personally I think having a conversation before the meeting would be helpful, it is a way to break the ice between the both of you but I understand that may not always be the case for a new hobbyist, sometimes having a conversation just isn't enough so you must tell yourself it is just a date, make sure you have done all your research and once you know you have done all your homework on the provider when the day comes just let it flow.  This is your first time and you will gather your thoughts a lot better the more often you choose to hobby

I too google map the location so I can plan ahead and not be late. Clip my nails. Do a thorough mouth cleanse (multiple brushes and mouth wash treatment).

Posted By: thediscman001

So I finally met my first provider, needless to say I was a nervous wreck! Knocked on the wrong room number and all, the meeting went well but I could've done better. Any advice to providers or hobbyist what you do prior to meeting someone (i.e) rituals.  
   
 Do you...  
 (1) Take a jog  
 (2) Take a shot of (insert your favorite alcohol drink)  
 (3) Take a shot of (insert your favorite sports drink (monster, redbull, etc)  
 (4) Mastubarate  
 (5) Exercise (I normally do a few push-ups to get the blood flowing)  
 (6) Hear your favorite tunes  
 (7) Take...ahem...my favorite male pills.  
 (8) Smoke the green stuff (then shower to smell fresh but have the high,  
 (9) None of the above, I just wing it!  
   
 Any advice will be much appreciated. The provider was awesome IMO.  
   
 UPDATE: Just added to the list number (8)

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to ensure I am daisy fresh and clean.  A happy escort makes for a happier client.