As I read these reviews, I can't help but notice that DFK is very common among hobbyists.. Is it just me? Whats the attraction to DFK when there is every reason to believe that the provider may have had her tongue up some guys ass the hour before? Especially in some of the INCALLS in NYC that are well known for offering BBBJTC. It appears that these places do enormous volume and some of the reviews I've read, these ladies are well known and very busy cum guzzlers. DFK? Does that bother anyone besides me?

before you got home? Or your tongue up some other girls ass? All our tongues have been someplace. Mouthwash and a smile is good enough for me.

I can understand being concerned about DFK. I had a new client recently and asked would he like to DFK? He said: "NO, I've been a hobbyist longer than you've been alive (26 years) and the girls NEVER used to DFK...I still dont do it."  Of course I respected his limits as he respects mine.

This is such an "Intimate" industry that hygiene issues really surprise me.

I've read reviews of women who had dirty hair, or bad breath, or worse...un-clean "down there". Stories of guys tasting "sloppy seconds" or some other guys condom residue....YUCK! ANY woman who doesnt schedule her appointments far enough apart to be able to take a bath (or at least a shower) between clients is just plain gross. Sorry ladies, I know MOST OF US dont have hygiene issues but I've read (and heard) enough stories out there to know that this is an issue. What kind of person doesnt "wash her A**"????? I just dont understand it.

I have read THE MAYFLOWER MADAM cover to cover and strive to emulate the high standards of Sydney Biddle Barrows escort agency Cachet. She flawlessly dressed, trained, and schooled her "girls". Her girl's Hygiene was Impeccable. One of my reviews mentioned that I was "fresh and clean" down there, and I think it's shameful that it even has to be mentioned...it should be "standard" to have good hyiegene, not the exception.

I REALLY think this industry needs "standards".  MyLifeAsMe posted a thread about the different levels of escorts (...I'm still flirting with him! cant wait to meet him!), I think there should be a "Standard" the girl has to meet for each level before she can hang up her shingle and charge a certain price. I just dont think there should be hygiene issues on the $300+ level...

If a gentleman does not want to DFK I "TOTALLY" understand. The mouth under normal circumstances is a pretty nasty place to explore anyway! LOL! :0) As far as DFK goes...I guess the best thing is to check her reviews to see if she has any hygiene issues.

my .02 cents

Sable

I stated in a thread (now probably on the next page) regarding BBBJ and STD's that there seems to be way too much unprotected activity by the girls mentioned in quite a few of the reviews here. While I think that these reviews could also be exagerated a bit, it's smart to just refrain from any activity that you feel you should. Most clients I have do not DFK, DATY or BBBJ and don't mind. I want to keep my healthy sexual relationship with my full time mate and for him to feel comfortable knowing I protect myself at all times. Remember to test too!

If you are going to get so close to a person as to have an "O" then you are close enough to get whatever the other has.

Kissing is less likely to expose you to something icky than many other activities and is just plain fun. I love to kiss. Always have.

I'm with Straightdude. (No, not WITH him, with him as in "agreement with". LOL.)  Anyways, I always ask and make sure that a provider DFK's.  A provider who is a great kisser kicks my motor into high gear!!  Just as long as long as they brush with Arm N Hammer Sparkling White Toothpaste....Damn, I could kiss a great provider for hours.

   PlanetU2

FWIW, I never have my tongue up anyone's ass.

Hope that settles THAT!

I also do not offer BBBJTC.  Altho a pearl necklace is always nice I rinse with listerine between my appt's and I take limited numbers of calls per day... maybe two.  So I don't think this is a real issue unless you are pondering going to see someone who is kinda skanky and gets the guys in and out the door as fast as possible all day long. Most of the ladies I've met do not fit into that category at all! I personally love to kiss and I've met a few gentlemen who didn't... it sort of makes the entire experience much more impersonal (from my experience) and doesn't seem to flow as well for me.  But whatever floats your boat, I have no issues if you don't want to kiss me...  

Hugs*
Nicole

I think the odds are a little better that a provider has been with someone else that day as opposed to someone's wife. After all, that's her job. It seemed like a valid question to me.

Some girls do have back to back appts, don't tell me they all shower, deoderize, gargle, rinse, spit and douche in between appts. But if there is no dfk, daty, bbbj you don't need to worry about who was there right before.

I agree on all counts.....response was rude AND that there is a likelyhood that "production line" escorts do not take all potental hygenie steps between appointments...

Yet another reason to go with one-a-day-Independents....or do your best to try to be the 1st appointment for an outcall agency (and another reason why I haven't done incall....and would NEVER do an incall agency / brothel)

"...I'm still flirting with him! cant wait to meet him!"

And I am still visiting your webpage whenever I find a link to do so. I was just there a couple days ago (not to mention as well as just now). That body....whoa....soft, with curves in all the right places...the body of a woman (not of a 12 yo girl, or worse, like an 17yo boy). Built for comfort, not for speed, as a friend of mine (a white girl, with a very similar build...who likes to remind me all the time that she is still on that very short list of female acquintances of mine that I HAVEN'T yet slept with...she is such a tease...) likes to say.

I *DO* plan to come out to Vegas. I have a condo (timeshare) there, with some open / flex time. I can take whenever I like. But...I gotta work on explaining to New (Old) GF why I need to take a trip to Las VEgas without her...

I'm working on it babe....can't wait to meet you either...  

I *LOVE* to kiss with someone who knows how. Really....in my mind the REAL variety...the "spice of life" that justifies (in my mind) my pursuit of the "hobby" comes mostly from the kissing. Really...sex can come in levels of quality...but at least for me (having had a fair number of GF, and having only seen a small number of "pros", and none who changed a feee that would demand they do some COMPLETELY innovative) nothing has taken place with an ASP that I can't / don't get from my GF.

THe REAL buzz in my opinion comes from the delicious tension in that first kiss shared with ANY interesting / attractive woman. I have had two "dates" that I haven't posted about...one because it ultimately was a non starter (with no FS), the otehr because...well, I have my reasons. In both cases though...along with a 3rd that I did post...the kisses shared...the DELICIOUS...SWEET...ELELTRIC kisses shared...those are the things I remember most.

Yeap....count me in as well re: DKF.....not TONSIL HOCKEY....but soft...tentative....electric...."first kiss" kisses....

I enjoy DATY but am increasingly concerned about the respects.  The next time I do, I will have a dental dam.

I’ve only been reading General Discussion for a few weeks. I’ve hesitated to post on this or similar threads, expecting that my opinion will draw some flames. While I recognize the potential health risks/hygiene issues associated with bbbj, daty and dfk as well as other activities, it seems that maybe some of the posters should consider a safer hobby. I'm waiting for the thread titled, “Is it safe to let her masturbate me? How can I be sure her hands are clean?”

I am disabled. I don’t get as much pleasure out of mish. Physical limitations rule out some other options. If you take kissing and mutual oral off the table, I may as well masturbate alone. I’d save quite a bit of money, less the tip I leave for myself I don’t have someone in my personal life so I especially appreciate the opportunity to spend time with a working lady. However, the last thing I want her to do is remind me that she is working. There is no better reminder than to have her slip on a cover before the bj. If cbj is my only option, I’ve learned to respectfully decline the offer. Save the light kissing for your Uncle you only see once a year at Thanksgiving.

For safety sake, I always use the same agency and try to see the same ladies usually by 10:00 A.M. Far from completely safe, I know. Come to think of it, maybe I should start wearing a catcher’s mitt when I masturbate.

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"I waiting for the thread titled, 'Is it safe to let her masturbate me? How can I be sure her hands are clean?'"

See the link below and read the more of that thread to understand the context of my comment.

-- Modified on 4/14/2002 1:28:44 PM

We all decide what our comfort level and safety level will be. No need to make fun of providers or clients who do chose to be a little more cautious and safety-conscious.

Luckily for you there appears to be plenty of providers who will indulge your preferences for dfk, daty and bbbj.

Wasn't my intentioned to make fun. If you read it that way, I appologize. Just my opinion. If one spends more time worrying rather than relaxing and enjoying themself...there are safer hobbies.