A provider that I find very very attractive, and I've wanted to meet for some time, told me this week that I was too high volume of a guy for her.  Say what  ????     I've been told some funny stuff before, but this stunned me. I thought high volume was reserved for chicks???  

Any guys ever get "dissed"  by providers for seeing too many girls?  I'm bummed. I like this girl.

I hear the train from the land of make believe coming..
And if in the low possibility that is true...  Get a shrink. Get Help.
You are loosing it brother.

Have I been turned down before?  Sure, by several women who I wanted to see.

But whatever...you move on.

That have seen many many ladies can be seen as too involved or hardcore and possibly too hard to please . I have heard about this and been told by one lady that she finds guys who are way too invested in this too much trouble to deal with.

As CS put it, you might not know the real reason she decided not to see you, and that was one that seemed pretty innocuous or at least she thought so.

I was just turned down for not being attractive enough. LOL, as if I'd be here if I was good-lookin' stud... At least she was honest about it.

Who is delusional enough (provider or hobbyist) to assume everyone involved is/should be low-volume???

Evidently some rumor was recently started about me being high-volume, Hmmmm...(looking into my pocketbook) Not so much.

hey Doo Doo..how big is your crock?

If they appear to be too high-strung or whatever...yep, it's just a reason to take them off the list.

What we do here definitely makes it onto the radar of providers and others.  I'm sure that some providers will look at me and say, "Wow, he's too short-tempered or too rude."  And that's fine, because I definitely can see that as a legitimate reason not to see me.

The amount of money she could charge wasn't worth the headache, evidently.

Just guessing he meant "cock" as in she may have rejected you because you are too (pick one - large or small).

They don't want to be w/ someone who seems high volume, or the higher # of reviews, the more exposure on top lists or to LE if they care about that.

& like what SS, the more high volume, the more it seems like u approach this as a hobby, are a life-timer (this is your lifestyle) & may be jaded or expect favors b/c ur an "important" reviewer. or maybe the higher volume, the higher STD risk.

I'm surprised she told u the reason she wouldn't see u. I'd just say I was too busy for the next year!

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perhaps maintenance should be sub'd for the word volume....some friends have told me they were rejected for HM comments on the bds.

He wants to know how big Honey Doo Doo's CROCK is, because he thinks it's full of shit.

Or honey, I'm not sure...