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Sugar Daddy vs Hobbying escorts pro's and cons
Panthera12 265 reads
posted
1 / 23

That didn't work that well with some of them. I am open to more ideas.

rtaylor104 760 reads
posted
2 / 23

So since I have been away from the escort game awhile and just dabble in the sugar I thought I would
do the pro's and cons for comparisons of both genre's( note this is coming from a 29 yr old perspective so it could be different for others) Being sugar daddy and a hobbyist have some similarities but vast difference. I will start with the pro's of the sugar.

PRO'S
A. price you can get a good looking sugar baby in most markets for 1500 a month
for multiple meetings so 4 meeting averaging 2 to 4 hours with multiple pop
thats 187 hr- 93.00 per hour with the same quality of chicks that charge 250-400 in the hobby.

B. wider net because of media attention and the fact that being a sugar baby does not have the same
stigma as the hobby more girls are willing to do it especially more woman from normal backgrounds.

C. less legal risk because LE does not police the sugar bowl like the hobby or atleast to the same degree.

D. less downside risk if someone found out I was a sugar daddy it will be less damaging to my reputation then if I was outed as a hobbyist,in addition to since this attracts more normal girls
these woman have more of an incentive not to let anyone know or cause any trouble that could lead
to exposure.

E .performance is generally better beyond price,you talk and text and maybe have a drink/dinner
to  make her feel comfortable,in addition to most these girls dont have more then 1-3 daddies at a time so their performance is not mechanical as even a low volume escort,also girls are more selective with SD's then escort with clients.  

CONS
A. girls are picky in the hobby all you have to do is pass a screening and with exception of some girls discriminating against certain ethnicity's or ages a escort will see you sugar babys are more picky if you inquire about seven sugar babys you probably will only hook up with one and they flake alot on first meets

B. Since they want some baseline chemistry, you have to do more legwork(texting and a platonic meet up or two to feel comfortable)

C. They may want your time in the form of dates as part of the deal especially the higher quality ones
so if you are more of a homebody hit and quit guy this may not work.

D. no formal procedure with rules like the hobby sugar arrangements can range from a booty call with her phone bill money in her backpocket when you are done and she doesnt even know your real name or it can be as serious as a real relationship where you meet her friends and even family members and everything in between.

E. Their monthly allowances can eat up your budget for other things.

Conclusion if you like going on dates or want something less formal where the girl doesnt reach for
pants right after you are done. or you like the feeling of a friendship and less rigid structures and you are willing to put in extra leg work in addition to atleast having a budget of 1000-2000 to spare it might be for you. If you are of the hit and quit it guy and you need something on demand that day with minimum social effort then the hobby is where you should stay. If you do proceed to sugar dating make sure you are clear what you want a do research. You can end up with best of the civilian dating and escort world a girl who screws you with minimum emotional maintenance for low cost and actually kind of likes you,or you can end up with the worst of both worlds( theres a guy on the sugar blogs who is paying his sugar baby a monthly allowance,but they arent banging because shes mad at him right now)

Dr Who revived 316 reads
posted
3 / 23

Where the hell is zangari?

Unless you want to give me the monthly update on "sugarland"  (hint...that's the buzzword).

Thanks for playing  :D
Posted By: rtaylor104
So since I have been away from the escort game awhile and just dabble in the sugar I thought I would  
 do the pro's and cons for comparisons of both genre's( note this is coming from a 29 yr old perspective so it could be different for others) Being sugar daddy and a hobbyist have some similarities but vast difference. I will start with the pro's of the sugar.  
   
 PRO'S  
 A. price you can get a good looking sugar baby in most markets for 1500 a month  
 for multiple meetings so 4 meeting averaging 2 to 4 hours with multiple pop  
 thats 187 hr- 93.00 per hour with the same quality of chicks that charge 250-400 in the hobby.  
   
 B. wider net because of media attention and the fact that being a sugar baby does not have the same  
 stigma as the hobby more girls are willing to do it especially more woman from normal backgrounds.  
   
 C. less legal risk because LE does not police the sugar bowl like the hobby or atleast to the same degree.  
   
 D. less downside risk if someone found out I was a sugar daddy it will be less damaging to my reputation then if I was outed as a hobbyist,in addition to since this attracts more normal girls  
 these woman have more of an incentive not to let anyone know or cause any trouble that could lead  
 to exposure.  
   
 E .performance is generally better beyond price,you talk and text and maybe have a drink/dinner  
 to  make her feel comfortable,in addition to most these girls dont have more then 1-3 daddies at a time so their performance is not mechanical as even a low volume escort,also girls are more selective with SD's then escort with clients.  
   
 CONS  
 A. girls are picky in the hobby all you have to do is pass a screening and with exception of some girls discriminating against certain ethnicity's or ages a escort will see you sugar babys are more picky if you inquire about seven sugar babys you probably will only hook up with one and they flake alot on first meets  
   
 B. Since they want some baseline chemistry, you have to do more legwork(texting and a platonic meet up or two to feel comfortable)  
   
 C. They may want your time in the form of dates as part of the deal especially the higher quality ones  
 so if you are more of a homebody hit and quit guy this may not work.  
   
 D. no formal procedure with rules like the hobby sugar arrangements can range from a booty call with her phone bill money in her backpocket when you are done and she doesnt even know your real name or it can be as serious as a real relationship where you meet her friends and even family members and everything in between.  
   
 E. Their monthly allowances can eat up your budget for other things.  
   
 Conclusion if you like going on dates or want something less formal where the girl doesnt reach for  
 pants right after you are done. or you like the feeling of a friendship and less rigid structures and you are willing to put in extra leg work in addition to atleast having a budget of 1000-2000 to spare it might be for you. If you are of the hit and quit it guy and you need something on demand that day with minimum social effort then the hobby is where you should stay. If you do proceed to sugar dating make sure you are clear what you want a do research. You can end up with best of the civilian dating and escort world a girl who screws you with minimum emotional maintenance for low cost and actually kind of likes you,or you can end up with the worst of both worlds( theres a guy on the sugar blogs who is paying his sugar baby a monthly allowance,but they arent banging because shes mad at him right now)

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 196 reads
posted
5 / 23
CaitlynKennedy See my TER Reviews 399 reads
posted
6 / 23

I met him thru doing this... the problem is he fell way too in love that it was suffocating me.  

Yeah the money was nice, he gave me like $3000 and we did a overnight every fri night...  

the problem, he wanted more... he called me way too much, emailed me 20x a day, wanted me to consider marrying him, being with him... etc

all of this would have been fine, except I truly in my personal life didnt like him, he was kind of creepy, and the sex was awful...  
I was not truly even attracted, and he was way too clingy and needy..

I had to end it....  

I could do this again but many of the things I dont vare about with my escorting clients, would have to be there in a SD relationship for me...
Like real attraction, chemistry, and loving the person's company..

rtaylor104 302 reads
posted
7 / 23

I hadnt been on here in awhile thought I had an original take on it
proceed to flame lol

rtaylor104 255 reads
posted
8 / 23

I see your point, I think if you do the sugar thing, you should avoid people
who hobby escorts and hobbyist together,because coming from that world of boundaries is complicated
I avoid escorts in the sugar,and I would advise to avoid guys who are hardcore hobbyist. You have to be more selective with your SD's. You cant expect boyfriend material all the time,but you have to be able to tolerate them or it will be not me be as beneficial relative to the hobby.

CaitlynKennedy See my TER Reviews 265 reads
posted
9 / 23

I liked your post... well written, very good theories, and well thought out!

CaitlynKennedy See my TER Reviews 232 reads
posted
10 / 23

mine was weird, I mean he had never hobbied before me, and he was not cut out for seeing escorts, he was looking for a wife/gf..

he was a not in a good place emotionally to be able to separate the fantasy and real life...

I was not actively looking for this.... but I tried it....

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 394 reads
posted
11 / 23

The lines certainly get blurred because you simply can't expect not to feel "something" for a guy you're spending 2-3 days a week with, every week, waking up to him some mornings, etc. It's certainly not for everyone, but I am glad I at least met a friend.

Panthera12 237 reads
posted
12 / 23

It's down to about $3.35 a gallon, but there is too much shit to burn and the retards won't keep still.

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 238 reads
posted
13 / 23
rtaylor104 257 reads
posted
14 / 23

Yeah I think maximum of four times a month usually keeps the distance and regulate
the overnights to one night a month. Its also healthy to have some civilian companion even if it just casual dating dinner movie etc and not going to turn into much. having all of your romantic interaction come from the hobby or the sugar probably will weigh on anybody man or woman

mrfisher 115 Reviews 247 reads
posted
16 / 23

I've heard enough stories both in the hobby world and without of such nasty breakups.

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 296 reads
posted
17 / 23

Don't sell yourself short, you are a great person. Everyone has room to make improvements, except for me of course LOL.  

True friends will always be there to help in any situation, faux friends type you back and "say that sucks, if I could help I would..." You know how I feel and I have a ton of memories, *edited here* I had a bunch typed in but deleted. These board persona's have already heard about most of them. There are a few private ones that I will keep close to me.  

"found those pictures I took that you were looking for. If there's one memory I don't want to lose that time at the mall, you and me in the dressing room...I remember what it feels like beside you" -Hinder

Trust in God, love your family, keep your friends close. They are the ones that will do anything for you.

YTB (don't ask what it means),

MM

Dr Who revived 129 reads
posted
18 / 23

He only wants the U18 girls...you know...those that are really young.

And think that 300 is a lot of money.

I guess some sugar babes think that is a lot of money  LOL

Dr Who revived 216 reads
posted
19 / 23

Shit...it's over 4.09 here in ChiTown.

Gas siphoning is all the rage here  :D
Posted By: Panthera12
It's down to about $3.35 a gallon, but there is too much shit to burn and the retards won't keep still.

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 241 reads
posted
20 / 23

just kidding, we were never BF/GF just ask her lol

She is a great girl, and fiercly independent

MM

Panthera12 269 reads
posted
21 / 23

In Chicago that would have been $90. At 13 MPG I'll be filling up the monster truck in a week.

Dr Who revived 224 reads
posted
22 / 23

I expect to see 5 a gallon here by July.

What's shaking over in Iran?
Posted By: Panthera12
In Chicago that would have been $90. At 13 MPG I'll be filling up the monster truck in a week.

CallNumber9 2 Reviews 266 reads
posted
23 / 23

Those that flamed you are mostly sour nosed pricks that have a have an over ripe sense of self importance.

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