I don't mind seeing providers with an SO, but they would never make it to ATF standing.

For me ATF means something more than just a great fuck, and knowing her heart belongs to someone else would mean that our relationship would be strictly business. That doesn't mean I couldn't enjoy great sex with someone who belongs to someone else, just that she would never make it to ATF status with me.

How would you go about it if your ATF really wanted to see you but wanted you to come to her place where she lives with S.O. ? She's an awesome time and really a cool person to hang and party with but would you feel weird knowing that at any moment you could get busted by the S.O. leaving work early and coming home while you are Cumming at her Home ??!!! Or would you say f'ck it and just bring the vodka and enjoy the home cooking ??!!

One other question though, does he know that she is a provider?

If not, I think I might pass on the "home cooking" lest I come down with a bad case of "lead poisoning" lmao

and my statement stands, I might enjoy dozens or even hundreds of different women that have SO's at home, but those women never make ATF status with me.

Now it looks like you are the one who has put himself into the running for SPOTY 2014, don't worry there is a long ways to go, and I doubt anyone will ever remember this dumb post of yours by the time the ballots are cast. lol

...SO is or may be.

The worst idea I've heard. First of all it sounds like a setup. After meeting you ATF at neutral sites why is it so important to now meet at her house with a known SO?  Sounds crazy and yeah you might find yourself the subject of one of those shows on Investigate Discovery.

depending on where you live, he can legally kill you and get away with it.  He walked in and saw an intruder raping his wife/SO.

I do mainly out calls and only do in call to a hotel.  Private in calls-SO or not-are too risky for my taste.  A lady can choose to do business however she likes but nosy neighbors and psycho clients, SO's, former SO's or whatever make a private apartment or residence a no-go for me.

How about if she really didn't like the S.O. and was just not ready to change her status. Not that I have delusions that she really wants me but she is definitely an Awesome Awesome Time and greta to hang with and we have so much in common and she cooks great too !!!

And two -- I love being alone way too much to have an SO much less a live in one. Besides my last ex told me I was a shitty girlfriend

Plus she's got Great T-ts and a nice Tight Wet P'ssy and loves Greece besides giving an awesome DTBBBJNQNS !!!!.... Not that that matters to me.....Oh...and I know her forever !!!!!

Sure rtm...whatever the gal tells you must be true.

But you're off to a good start. Most, if not all, providers have SOs. They won't tell you because of your reaction here and because they want you to think you are really special & they want tips & gifts, which you would be less likely to give if you thought you were giving them to her and her partner.
The year has just started, so there is a long way to go. I suspect you'll pull yourself out of the running, eventually.

Or if he gets shot and killed by the SO before April 1, he's eligible for the 2013 Charles Darwin Award.  
http://www.darwinawards.com/darwin/darwin2013.htm

WOW!! Once again Thanks CPA . Your insightfulness on all things is extremely helpful. Especially given that you know how ignorant "Dudes" like me can be. One day I do inspire to be wise enough to see through all the smoke screens before me. The great part is that you were able to read into all the things that were not actually posted and still able to offer your Wisdom .... Again ...Thank You So Much for your input !!!

Is there a cash award as well?  

No worries Capt. I have not Fallen and I can get UP !!!! plus going by this board I know I am way out of contention already ...

You have that that "most, if not all" hookers have SO's.

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Or just a midair whiskey pour like in  Borat: this one for my homeys...

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Have no fear rtm...your "I've fallen" story won't be the last.

But you can believe what you like.  Seems the rest of the world has a very different POV on what they see.

At least you don't have to worry about him tracking down who you are and where you live. Your privacy will be intact. Your face will not.

Have some sense to find out more about the SO and the situation.

Now your making excuses. Ok she says she doesn't  give a fuck about him, but are you a mind reader, what the fuck you gonna do when he comes in with guns blazing because he really does give a fuck about her STILL? Your a IDIOT! Heres a heads up," how do you tell when a provider or a hobbyist is lying? WHEN THEIR LIPS ARE MOVING" Your still an idiot.

Instead of trying to how stupid you are.  

All you are to her is an envelope of cash.  Don't ever forget that.

I can promise you this:

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as that is between them. You really don't want to be there when the shit hits the fan. It is a good way to get hurt. Besides any woman who wants to fuck you on her SO's bed has issues. BSC may be fun, but gets real scary real quick.

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You mean the vodka I bring and the food don't count??!! OMG I thought that was what she wanted me for !!!!

WOW !!! CPA, you really are smarter than any of us thought. You can see my embarassment through your Rose colored spectacles !!! AMAZING !!!!

If you actually think about the responses .... hmmmm... who are the Idiots ?!!!

Early in year yet but at least we got it rolling !!!

See above message. Hmmmm....who are the idiots ??!!!!

I love the she's being disrespectful comments because if you actually ran the numbers ( Hey CPA, This Is One Of Your Forte's Right ??!! As Well As All Knowing on Just About Everything Else ) aren't the majority of HOBBYISTS being disrespectful to their ( GASP !!) S.O.'S ??!!! Or are you all under some misguided belief that Hobbying isn't disrespecting anyone. Imagine if I actually reviewed my ATF and you were able to contact her. You might find out there is more than meets the eye, but going by the comments uhhhh....probably not.

And while you're at the house I strongly suggest you try on some of his clothes,  drink his liquor (preferably from an old fruit jar), brush with his toothbrush, reprogram his radio and television, kick his dog and eat up all his favorite foods.  And when he busts a cap in your ass the lady can call an ambulance for you just before she throws herself back into the SO's arms now that he's proven he really does care for her.

...to her BP ad. She sounds pretty cool.  I might want to hang with her and her BF.
 

I guess delusions are just a part of your make up.

hey you might find out there can be cool women without ulterior motives ( Other than wanting cash for Bigger better T-ts, Liposuction , Tanning and Hair Color ) but I'm just an Idiot !!!!! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA...

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You just don't know when to quit.  But given your inability to see anything clearly it doesn't surprise me...and apparently not anyone else either.

5 gals...maybe 10 and out of those you know that at least 1 has an SO?

Oh contraire...I do know when to quit, I'm just not ready.....as opposed to one of your reviews or anyone elses that state..." I aroused her so that there was such a wet spot " lmfao.......do you really think that there is a review here that isn't based on someones personal feelings at the moment ? Or do you Hobby strictl for the good of others and give a totally unbiased review taking into account everyone's personal tastes before posting.....Plus your stereotypical comment about Wendy's means what ...that providers are all lower class citizens and they eat at fast food restaurants. It would be like a provider thinking that everyone who has time to post on these boards incessantly is probably an overweight repressed crossdresser who isn't sure whether he likes giving or receiving so that's why they are regular posters. See how silly that is now BECAAUSE obviously that's not YOU !! oh and since i know you have a need to get in the last word ...I'm done not quitting just done...Actually was bored ...that's why I came here in the first place...my work here on this post is done......

It becomes tiresome lecturing idiots on self preservation.  

My ATF retired, so I'd meet her anywhere, anytime. Hell, I'm going to die sometime and I couldn't think of a better place than in her bed

The lady retired so she's hanging with the people she really cares for.
While you miss that pussy so much that you've got a deathwish?!
Or a stalking wish. whichever.
Well, good luck on getting that phone call.

...part of this thread is that RTM bleeps out the bad words in his posts.

But I agree lying to and cheating on your SO is extremely disrespectful. But even you got to admit doing it in that SO bed brings it to whole new level of complete disregard.

I was joking, go ahead and take your ball and go home. You must be Sheldon, and can't recognize sarcasm.

i have several ATF'S and know their live-in SO's quite well..we even party together..i have no pretensions or hang-ups about it..neither do they..after all..its only sex..

Why is this such a problem for some people on here ?
Is it jealousy?
If someone is fortunate enough to make such a connection with someone why is that a problem
What is the difference if this was a affair ? , two people who happened to find happiness in each other's company ?  
I am not going to say this is a good idea or going to work out , but why not enjoy it for as long as it lasts ?  
And if the the SO is safely away .... What's the difference
Life is short , enjoy it while you ca

It doesn't matter if were Escorts, FBSM, or Hookers. It doesn't matter what you want to call us you still come to see us. Don't you guys have SO's, Gf or Wives?  
We are Women and Ladies and deserve to be happy what we do with our personal time and who we choose to spend it with is really none of your concern or business.
Some providers are very good at management of business and personal time and some of us have Very Supportive SO's, Bf or Husbands.  
But again our PERSONAL LIVES is none of you business just like your Personal life is none of ours

IDK I'd rather be third runner up so they can stalk #1 and 2

telling the dude she had a SO. She wouldn't have had to rent a hotel room

Seriously, I know girls that do this, and it never ends in anything but trouble. Best case scenario, you are both being disrespectful assholes. It is not disrespectful to work, but it IS disrespectful to let a stranger splooge where your significant other will be laying down to rest. Especially if he isn't aware of what's going on.  

Guns don't kill people, but husbands that come home early do.

And your anus is his special present.  Don't eat broccoli or brussels sprouts for a few days, so fun and hijinx can be had by all without any unpleasant odors.

It seems to me the the guy asked questions he really didn't want the answer too. Then came here to complain about her answer. So my suggestion is, don't ask questions that you don't want the answer too because some providers believe in telling the truth and being honest.
Sounds like a simple resolve to me

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telling the dude she had a SO. She wouldn't have had to rent a hotel room

Nope your personal life is none of our business and most of us wouldn't ask in the first place if you have a SO. However, that doesn't meant that if I found out you have one I wouldn't feel the same way and never see you again. Personally I just wouldn't be able to get the fact out of my head and it would ruin the illusion.